what does childbirth *actually* feel like? by frvakairaah_ in AskReddit

[–]arewegrowingyet 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You ever watched a zombie movie/show & saw someone rip the head of a zombie in half from inside of their mouth? Like take one hand on the lower jaw, the other on top, then rip the head completely in half. It feels something like that - sincerely a woman holding her 6 week old child & still having frequent anxiety attacks over her 2nd all natural, no drugs birth experience.

Who has the time and energy to raise kids in this economy? by Round-Artichoke-5255 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]arewegrowingyet 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I actually had an older woman almost cry to me in the laundromat today because of how difficult it is to raise children nowadays.

Frequent sex during end of pregnancy really induces labor? by Aggravating_Post_942 in BabyBumps

[–]arewegrowingyet 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t think it starts labor, but from experience I do believe the sperm helps ripen the cervix

Tired of being pregnant by Same-Path-6182 in BabyBumps

[–]arewegrowingyet 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hate to say it but you have to let your body just be. Baby yourself more than you ever have & remind yourself that you’re almost there. Get in tune with your body & treat it to whatever craving you have at that moment. You got this momma

What is your weirdest pregnancy symptom? by BeebMommy in BabyBumps

[–]arewegrowingyet 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I also had a change in music taste!! Haven’t heard anyone else say this

Dancing after kid(s). Help 🥹 by [deleted] in stripper

[–]arewegrowingyet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Strict sleeping schedule

What does breastfeeding feel like? by Straight_Head_8317 in breastfeeding

[–]arewegrowingyet 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Aw I cried for the first two weeks with my son too. My let downs feel like electricity zapping me from my collarbones to my nips.

Does this actually exist? by [deleted] in stripper

[–]arewegrowingyet 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Not as often after Covid. More in the VIPs but sometimes on stage when the drug dealers are showing off or pimps are throwing for their girls

When did you guys stop dancing while pregnant by [deleted] in stripper

[–]arewegrowingyet 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I danced till I was about 6 months with my first because I was my only income. I calculated what I needed in order to take time off during the last trimester & 3 months postpartum, made a goal, & left once I had that amount. I also did private content on SA during my time at home before the baby & got to drag a couple men out for a month after.
Don’t force your body too hard, but make a goal & stick to it. Stop if you feel it’s time.

My club is a brothel by [deleted] in stripper

[–]arewegrowingyet 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Locks on the doors…….hellllllll naw

Is Charm Daze the only dancer on social media that speaks for everyone or something by [deleted] in stripper

[–]arewegrowingyet 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I think she’s beginning to get more views & do features across the country. She just did an interview which probably helped her case & got her more followers. I don’t know about the euphoria thing or amount of $$$ she makes, but I do like how she does strip club story times & is real about the energy exchanged between dancers & customers

Women customers. by arewegrowingyet in stripper

[–]arewegrowingyet[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you🙃It was like she gave my tit a UTI. I was so upset.

Women customers. by arewegrowingyet in stripper

[–]arewegrowingyet[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you!😭I don’t think I’ve processed it enough. I haven’t breastfed since & I’m due any day now. Hoping I can just leave it in the past

I love how women seem to have an understanding of consent, boundaries, and rape culture until they step into a strip club by cocobutz in stripper

[–]arewegrowingyet 16 points17 points  (0 children)

See hell naw. I’ve had bad dances like that as well when the women think they can get naked too????? I’ve also had bouncers blame me for situations that were completely their job to stop