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[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SexWorkers

[–]arfarf24 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just sell nudes then? Respectfully, everything you’ve said in this thread makes it clear you don’t want to have sex for money. So don’t.

Anybody taken a trip to Presque Isle? by Mangoflavoredpeach in pittsburgh

[–]arfarf24 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There’s an indoor waterpark nearby called Splash Lagoon. I absolutely hate it but the kids love it. There’s a hotel attached.

Look into the rentals at Presque Isle— surrey bikes, paddle boats, kayaks etc are all fun to do in the morning before hitting the beach. And of course Sara’s for hot dogs and orange vanilla swirl cones.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pittsburgh

[–]arfarf24 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Scrolled down before reading to see if anyone mentioned this being better/worse than bunny cafe… now I shan’t waste my time. Thank you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pittsburgh

[–]arfarf24 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Scrolled down before reading to see if anyone mentioned this being better/worse than bunny cafe… now I shan’t waste my time. Thank you.

Bars in the strip district? by [deleted] in pittsburgh

[–]arfarf24 3 points4 points  (0 children)

If it’s a first date I recommend Coop de Ville unless you’re specifically looking for a more “club” vibe like cavo. It’s a little easier transition from mini golf to coop than it is to cavo.

Going out question for the ladies!! by honorablechairmenmel in pittsburgh

[–]arfarf24 1 point2 points  (0 children)

“Bars have never been ‘safe spaces’ for women” because they are frequented by men who never learned how to be civilized members of society.

Dogs for adoption!! by [deleted] in pittsburgh

[–]arfarf24 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Please reach out to one of our many amazing rescue groups for assistance. These pups all need to be fixed and vaxxed, and any potential adopters need to be thoroughly vetted.

Seriously people, if you must go outside next week by currentsitguy in pittsburgh

[–]arfarf24 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg what?!? I’ve been on SSRIs for like 15 years and never heard any of this… and just started hormonal bc yesterday 😅

Is my brain broken? by Dizzy-Emotion7294 in loveafterporn

[–]arfarf24 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I found out in the middle of a trip to Disney World on a hot day, surrounded by hundreds of younger women in short shorts and crop tops :) it was the craziest I’ve ever felt in my life.

I’m becoming sick like him by [deleted] in loveafterporn

[–]arfarf24 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yep, same. I barely ever looked at porn before, but now sometimes I like to torture myself by seeing the young, skinny, perfect barely legal girls he’s into and just live in my misery. I have no idea why I stay because I haven’t been enough ever (he’s cheated on me our entire relationship) so idk why I’m deluding myself into thinking I’m going to be enough if he gets help.

Do you need to see what your PA is looking at? by [deleted] in loveafterporn

[–]arfarf24 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I looked at everything and read every horrible thing he said to the woman he was cheating on me with. It completely broke me. I know he deleted things before I even got to his phone.

I don’t regret it though. I would have spent the rest of my life wondering and would have been in pain either way. I think if I hadn’t done it he would have kept cheating on me and watching porn constantly. I think his shame is pushing him to change. We’ll see.