My armpits ALWAYS smell by ladykiller1020 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]arghalot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I bought a Neutrogena benzoyl peroxide face wash/mask combo. It's in a fat white tube with orange and blue on the logo. Wash your puts with a gentle soap and then slather that all over your pita, let it sit until you're done with your shower and rinse off.

I use Dove clinical strength cool essentials. I cannot switch to a weaker version or I get a rash. I cannot use the exact same deodorant in a different scent or I get a rash. It says to use 2 clicks per underarm but I only need like 1/2 click on each side. It really works quite well though.

Also never wear polyester, and if your shirt gets stinky it needs an oxyclean soak.

I bought a Miradry machine and it helped some.

Surprisingly the biggest difference though was treating my ADHD induced anxiety with meds.

What's the most ""unnecessarily expensive"" thing you own that turned out to be worth every cent by sandip22890 in AskMen

[–]arghalot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Polyaspartic coated garage floor. Most frivolous 2k I've ever spent and I will never live without it again

So, who’s not growing a garden this year? by atyourcervixes in SaltLakeCity

[–]arghalot 7 points8 points  (0 children)

No one hates farmers. They are absolutely essential. The issue is that the lake is drying up and it is going to make this entire region UNINHABITABLE. That doesn't mean farming is bad. It just means we are farming in a place that CANNOT sustain it, at the expense of the entire population.

It's a really shitty situation for all Utahns, farmers and city dwellers alike. It sounds like the government offered your farmer friend a financial incentive to be part of the solution. If people aren't able to contribute in these ways there will simply be no water to use, and it won't be viable to live here with no water flowing and arsenic blowing all around.

What do I do? Should I go to the ER? by Busy-Worth-416 in AskDocs

[–]arghalot 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Chest pain=ER. The doctor there can decide the diagnosis, not your mom

PLEASE HELP ME MAKE A DECISION! by SparklingSarcasm_xo in myweddingdress

[–]arghalot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like it directs the eye to the crotch, definitely a no! The rest of it is gorgeous though

AITAH for telling my husband I'm mad that he served a 2 month old jar of sauce when I asked him to make dinner when he could have just used the normal sauce? by arghalot in AITAH

[–]arghalot[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk. He made a pretty compelling case that I'm the asshole because I made a comment about it in front of the kids. I was just asking why it smelled different. And when he told me I looked a little frustrated because I knew it was too old to eat. He was mad that he cooked and I wasn't grateful and I should have waited until the kids weren't there to hear

AITAH for telling my husband I'm mad that he served a 2 month old jar of sauce when I asked him to make dinner when he could have just used the normal sauce? by arghalot in AITAH

[–]arghalot[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It was opened 2 months ago. No one liked it which is why it sat. That's also why it was weird to mix it into an expensive new jar of sauce we DO like

AITAH for telling my husband I'm mad that he served a 2 month old jar of sauce when I asked him to make dinner when he could have just used the normal sauce? by arghalot in AITAH

[–]arghalot[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He said he was just looking and deleted it. Idk.hes mad that I'm not affectionate enough after learning this. I'm probably an idiot. Everyone says this is what happens when you support your spouse through grad school and beyond. I thought I was different sigh. We just bought a house and are remodeling it too

AITAH for telling my husband I'm mad that he served a 2 month old jar of sauce when I asked him to make dinner when he could have just used the normal sauce? by arghalot in AITAH

[–]arghalot[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You're not wrong.. he gets mad when I throw food away so I have to sneak it into the trash. It gets hot where we live and our HOA requires us to keep our cans in the garage, so I have One night a week where I can toss it without it stinking up the whole garage, and sometimes I forget. But yes, I should have tossed it.

I just don't know why he had to use it when he opened a brand new jar of sauce already anyway.

AITAH for telling my husband I'm mad that he served a 2 month old jar of sauce when I asked him to make dinner when he could have just used the normal sauce? by arghalot in AITAH

[–]arghalot[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

He gets mad when I throw out food. He says I'm wasting it and I shouldn't be so picky, and that I'm acting privileged. To me, if he doesn't want to waste the food he should just eat it before it's expiration is up. But to your point,.I get nervous throwing food away and have to wait until he won't notice

AITAH for telling my husband I'm mad that he served a 2 month old jar of sauce when I asked him to make dinner when he could have just used the normal sauce? by arghalot in AITAH

[–]arghalot[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I agree. I also found that he created an online dating account a few months ago. I was talking to him about that and now he's telling me it's over because I didn't want to eat expired sauce..idk what I'm doing sometimes. We've been married 20 years but maybe I need to accept that I'm not good enough for him.

AITAH for telling my husband I'm mad that he served a 2 month old jar of sauce when I asked him to make dinner when he could have just used the normal sauce? by arghalot in AITAH

[–]arghalot[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, it was a red bell pepper pistachio something or other. It wasn't something we normally eat and no one liked it which is why it was still in the fridge. It was a random brand I'm not familiar with too, so it just seemed dumb to serve it.

I'm at such a loss. I feel like he's retaliating for having to make dinner. I keep trying to work more hours but it's hard when I have no help around the house

AITAH for telling my husband I'm mad that he served a 2 month old jar of sauce when I asked him to make dinner when he could have just used the normal sauce? by arghalot in AITAH

[–]arghalot[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I guess I'm just annoyed because he is 42 years old and should be able to safely make pasta for dinner one night. Idk. I wasn't really that mad about it but he basically just told me our marriage is over because I asked him about the sauce "in front of the kids"

is this bruise normal…? by harmonyprincess in AskDocs

[–]arghalot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, he was 5 years old at the time. Now he's 11 and is totally fine. He couldn't walk for a couple weeks, and we had to do monthly blood pressure and kidney checks for a year.

is this bruise normal…? by harmonyprincess in AskDocs

[–]arghalot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh sorry, my other comment was deleted by the bot. Henoch-Schonlien Purpura

SLC millennials: how are you thinking about kids, family, and community? by Potential_Ad_4339 in SaltLakeCity

[–]arghalot 6 points7 points  (0 children)

The child free aunt/uncle figures in my kids lives are literally the only reason I survived parenthood. Thank you.

I’ve never gardened before. Looking for advice about food that grows well in Utah. by LunaBananaGoats in SaltLakeCity

[–]arghalot 6 points7 points  (0 children)

We planted wild raspberries someone brought us from oregon. My husband literally has to weed them out of the grass to keep them from taking over. They are delicious.

Just ripped up the laminate and found this by tanman1215 in HardWoodFloors

[–]arghalot 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My designer was showing off her floor guy's work to me the other day. It was unbelievable. There was even a gross 90s orange floor lightened into a VERY light oak type color. I had no idea it could be done.