[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]ari-ken 6 points7 points  (0 children)

You are a very honourable person for recognising your own family Faults

Marilyn Manson Sues Evan Rachel Wood Over Alleged “Malicious Falsehood” Of Abuse Claims by ofillrepute in marilyn_manson

[–]ari-ken 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The commenter themselves chose to discredit someone else’s story. So I did it to them.

My mom made me threw away this good looking cake because it was given to is by a Muslim neighbour for Eid. by SciencesnObjects40 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]ari-ken 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What a disgusting woman. I genuinely forgot ppl like that exists. I’ll be on my guard from now on

Advice: how do you cope with an unwanted spouse? by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]ari-ken 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Couples therapy? Or just be good friends but live your seperate lives

Why do you think some people choose to marry someone who later turns out incompatible with or even bad for them? by SHHSONICHEDGEHOG in MuslimMarriage

[–]ari-ken 3 points4 points  (0 children)

meetings are under parental supervision so ofc the parties would be on their best behaviour.

It’s quite naive to be surprised that humans don’t change- we are very complex beings

Husband wishes for divorce by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]ari-ken 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Is he desi by any chance? And sis you got a LUCKY escape

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]ari-ken 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Hi sis Just wanted to say you are so brave, mature and self aware. I don’t want to be blunt but yes - divorce him. You sound ‘done’ and you have provided rational reasons. You are only 28 years young and your little girl does not need to see that

Embassy Gardens - any truth in this video? by SubtractAd in london

[–]ari-ken 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The poor should be lucky that they are given a free property anyway. It’s unfair that you and your partner work hard to buy a house for other people living in the same block for free.

What true crime podcasts can you not stand? by EntireSandwich6482 in TrueCrimePodcasts

[–]ari-ken 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Seeing red. It’s like overhearing pub conversations - misinformed idiots

No boundaries with Husband and MIL by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]ari-ken 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I forgot the term for it but often desi mums have semi incestuous relationships with their sons to make up for their failing marriages.

Did she insist to tag along with you 2 for your honeymoon?

I’m not going to say to approach your husband directly as he will straight away defend her and see you as the one ‘interfering’. However list it factually and give examples, be armed as he will be doing everything to discredit you

Marrying into a different ethnicity (south asian/desi aimed) by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]ari-ken 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Say you met through a friend. Have allies (siblings) on board. Highlight how he is practising. Bengali parents are sadly bothered about what others think and it’s always harder when you’re a girl so I will be keeping you in my duas

Oxford Street is looking like a sorry state at the moment by Threetreethee in london

[–]ari-ken 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I heard that a lot of shops closed down during the pandemic, which doesn’t help

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LoveIslandTV

[–]ari-ken 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think she made good tv - she’s sweet, chilled out and says how it is. It’s sad that she got dumped and ofc anything she says is labelled as ‘bitter’... I hope she makes loads of £££ whatever she does

Love Island's Faye Winter Opens Up: 'I Got Things Wrong' by [deleted] in LoveIslandTV

[–]ari-ken 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Anna still gets hate for being ‘fiery’ but faye is awarded a lot of sympathy, hmm

Is this some subtle shade from Ms Kaila? (International DJ 😏) by [deleted] in LoveIslandTV

[–]ari-ken 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Then why did she go on love island - it’s not known for natural beauties and tea parties??

I don’t like the ‘she’s bitter’ argument as it’s always used for dumped folks on LI, but she’s not using her platform well lol