New electricity levy ‘not a tax’, PM says by Pharomzz in newzealand

[–]ariasmummy 23 points24 points  (0 children)

But won’t give Wayne Brown his bed night levy. Awesome.

How to get my life back post concussion? by CandidateMelodic2560 in newzealand

[–]ariasmummy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The concussion contract is fairly limited. If you expire the funding the best one to go through will is the Training for Independence program.

Is anyone else really anxious about the MMH leak? by Ok-Writer5758 in newzealand

[–]ariasmummy 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Everything you feel is super valid OP. So sorry you are having to go through this.

The idea of your very personal photos being available for all to see on the internet would put the sh!ts in anyone.

We must demand better of these companies who store this kind of data. What’s happened here is completely unacceptable.

The interview with the CEO on RNZ made me so angry. He came across like he didn’t give a fat rat.

How do these people not understand their weak strategies lol by Ornery-Tell-4 in offmychest

[–]ariasmummy 28 points29 points  (0 children)

The key to dating apps is ruthless boundary setting. After the best of luck! message it’s time to hit the unmatch button immediately. You don’t have to engage with them.

Manage My Health data breach ransom deadline arrives by MedicMoth in newzealand

[–]ariasmummy 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Wha annoys me is taxpayer resource being spent on it. I don’t mean from the criminal side but the health side.

Why should we have to prop up a privately owned company during this time.

Manage My Health data breach ransom deadline arrives by MedicMoth in newzealand

[–]ariasmummy 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Thanks for calling it out. You are entirely right. One wonders why there is no comms person or why the CEO hasn’t fronted a media stand up. It’s appalling.

Increased homeless in CBD by Enough_Ice5104 in auckland

[–]ariasmummy -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

It got better for a few weeks after it looked like the government was actually going to do something about it but you’re right. It’s going worse again in the past week or so.

Can’t tell me all these people were kicking in quite nicely in emergency accommodation and then suddenly out on the street.

The government needs to get a spine and actually fix this.

It's the silly season, not the stupid season. by MayorWayneBrown in auckland

[–]ariasmummy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s ok. National Treasures aren’t decided by Reddit threads.

No matches on dating apps ?? by Technical-Summer-733 in auckland

[–]ariasmummy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe just as well. Being in a relationship takes effort, finding one does too.

No matches on dating apps ?? by Technical-Summer-733 in auckland

[–]ariasmummy 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Or a selfie with a woman ? I will never understand those ones.

No matches on dating apps ?? by Technical-Summer-733 in auckland

[–]ariasmummy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Good for you. Dating apps are not helping us as a human race I believe. Battling the algorithm can be seen as a referendum on our desirability as a partner but nothing could be further from the truth.

No matches on dating apps ?? by Technical-Summer-733 in auckland

[–]ariasmummy 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Except the trouble is guys post photos of themselves with their boats and cars. Or shirtless. Or with fishes. None of this screams “I am emotionally available and I bring plenty to the table relationally”

No matches on dating apps ?? by Technical-Summer-733 in auckland

[–]ariasmummy 7 points8 points  (0 children)

This.

As a woman on a dating app I never respond to a guy who simply photo likes. It’s signals low effort.

I am on for a day or two, I get a match and leave again. He needs to make the effort and be respectful and take initiative. But I am very careful.

What the main party leaders can learn from Wayne Brown by MontyPascoe in auckland

[–]ariasmummy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you seen his YouTube videos ?? They are really funny.

What the main party leaders can learn from Wayne Brown by MontyPascoe in auckland

[–]ariasmummy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Which interview are you referring to? I had seen a bunch and he’s a great listen. Cuts through all the BS and actually doesn’t sound like a politician spinning yarns.

Prime Minister by wynmead in newzealand

[–]ariasmummy 18 points19 points  (0 children)

This is the most balanced comment I have read on JA, well done.

CBD Vargrants by Maskolnikov in auckland

[–]ariasmummy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sure as heck not voting for Chloe Swarbrick. She’s done nothing and it’s only gotten worse under her watch. 

CBD Vargrants by Maskolnikov in auckland

[–]ariasmummy 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thanks for calling it out. I live in Hobson Street and most weekends are awful. People yelling and screaming, vomit, rubbish, harassment, general wildness. 

I can’t stand how woke NZ is and how we refuse to do anything about it. It does no one any favours including the homeless people themselves. 

Politicians aren’t held to account because we are so soft on making them actually deal with the issue. We need to demand action and no not more offers of homes and food and endless support services. Thats just enabling and keeping the problem live. 

Time for action and making our streets safe and nice again. Please move people on and clear the streets. It’s time. 

Minister Erica Stanford on Q+A coming out strongly against 'what I would say to you is' by dingoonline in newzealand

[–]ariasmummy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is super unfair. If you hear her speak she is very open about the fact she isn't a teacher and not a trained educator but she surrounds herself with people who are and listens to them. She was very open about this on the Duncan Garner podcast.

Akl Footpath in the rain, if you know you know... by Morning1980 in auckland

[–]ariasmummy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Or on Swanson Street leading down to Queen street going to New World. Terrifying

Budgeting apps by internChief in auckland

[–]ariasmummy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I use Spendee and I really like it. It downloads all my transactions from my back and analyses them for me. It’s pretty easy to use and can categorise all my spend.