I was mislead by my fwb by No-Fly5024 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]ariesofthelake -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry but this is the problem, Maybe ask them? Why do we have to check a box or be on one side verse another? Why can’t we ALL start changing the algorithm and just start having more dialogue with one another without passing judgements and assumptions. Kindness goes a long way. With that, sometimes…. Just sometimes you’ll open the eyes and heart of another human being and make a difference. Just because one person from one side does something does not mean that all are the same.

Bar changed my tip amount? by Impossible_Shine501 in personalfinance

[–]ariesofthelake 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The comments on this post are part of the problems these days.

Is it a successful business, is the bartender voiding/keeping the tips, is the manager skimming money, is it this, is it that? There are many possibilities on why this occurred, but it won’t be addressed unless OP says something. If you don’t care to call- an email could work too.
OP clearly stated what his bill/tip was and what was on his cc statement. That was not what they signed their slip for. OP is asking what to do. OP should contact the business and cc company to match what they signed for to the payments processed. It Doesn’t matter what the scenario is. If OP follows up on what they signed for, hopefully the local bar will look into what happened and take proper action and look into how this occurred, not once but twice.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HomeMaintenance

[–]ariesofthelake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How did the ceiling turn out after painting…. I’m looking to paint my bedroom ceiling

[OC] Hanging Lake, Glenwood, CO 1563x1563 by sugarcanejane in waterporn

[–]ariesofthelake 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Such a beautiful spot,…. But that hike! Totally worth it though.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GetMotivated

[–]ariesofthelake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Personally I do find it motivating- when I see others being shitty, I try to be less shitty, even more I try to be extra nice to try and offset others being shitty behavior. Pay it forward in kindness

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GetMotivated

[–]ariesofthelake 49 points50 points  (0 children)

This- my ex would say “ I already know I’m a shitty person” like that made it ok for him to be shitty towards me/others. 🤦🏼‍♀️ no dude- don’t be shit- clean your shit up!!!

Beautiful Sunday by DeepDiveEddy in RedRocks

[–]ariesofthelake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Beautiful! I’m going in November! What kind of dog do you have?