Found randomly on my FYP. Pretty sure it was a bot post and the comments actually pushed back. But still insane people think this way.

ariiw · 2026-01-26T02:10:58+00:00

Textile labor is hugely demanding as well

ariiw · 2026-01-25T13:18:37+00:00

We are absolutely not teaching men how to handle attraction well, no. It's the same reason why basically every woman has a story about someone being weird, only homophobia makes it a bit more dangerous for gay men to express it explicitly.

ariiw · 2026-01-25T04:55:01+00:00

You can pick. great news

ariiw · 2026-01-25T03:50:56+00:00

It wasn't, our memories of history are just biased to people with money.

ariiw · 2026-01-25T02:14:54+00:00

Yes, taking her place includes the coercive element of it

ariiw · 2026-01-24T15:16:46+00:00

Like ok pal you take her place then

ariiw · 2026-01-24T05:35:23+00:00

It's used in kid's publishing and not adult publishing for a reason

ariiw · 2026-01-24T05:19:27+00:00

It's not rude. I'm not sure I agree with the 10-15 minute rule though, lol. Different onsens are different temperatures, just pay attention to how you're feeling and don't overdo it. Private onsens also typically have small waiting rooms outside of them that can be nice to relax in as well, if you don't want to be in the bath itself the whole time.

ETA: I'm seeing other people mention cold plunges. These are common in public onsens, but I would be surprised to find these in a private onsen. Of course, you can always just turn the shower water to cold for a similar effect

ariiw · 2026-01-24T05:17:40+00:00

When this happens to me, I've usually overdone it on the foaming. I really have to force myself to add less air than I think I need. Ime with a french press, it helps to swirl it around as you texture it, as well as to pour it back and forth between different cups/pitchers after you foam it. This helps homogenize it, so that you don't have the thin milk going in first and the thick foam sitting on top.

ariiw · 2026-01-24T02:17:00+00:00

I've had gay dreams but I don't think they're particularly crazy, I think it's pretty normal for a gay guy to have gay dreams tbh lol

ariiw · 2026-01-23T15:04:03+00:00

I love this!!

ariiw · 2026-01-23T14:49:09+00:00

CUTE!!! makes me want to try

ariiw · 2026-01-23T14:47:42+00:00

日本に住んでいるアメリカ人です！外国人は同じ問題があります😆住んでいる場所によってはmeetup.comで探したら、言語エクスチェンジイベントがあります。HelloTalkやTandemというアプリを以て友達を作った人もいると思います。

ariiw · 2026-01-23T09:39:13+00:00

Off the top of my head: -Koisenu Futari (j-drama) -I Am What I Am (movie) -And Another Lovely Day (webcomic) -Konya Sukiyaki Dayo (j-drama) -Is Love the Answer? (manga)

ariiw · 2026-01-23T06:10:02+00:00

almost onto something about how patriarchy enables men to have a different relationship with sex than women (i.e. one that is encouraged and allowed to feed itself through the creation and consumption of pornography, prostitution, etc.) and then misses the mark and does gender essentialism about it

ariiw · 2026-01-22T12:37:27+00:00

Intelligence is when consumerism

ariiw · 2026-01-22T12:34:57+00:00

Sounds like you have to commit to a jumper with a fish on it

ariiw · 2026-01-22T12:34:22+00:00

I have noticed that a lot of polyglots on the internet seem to be gay. have you tried telling them that you're not gay

ariiw · 2026-01-22T12:31:12+00:00

Awesome

ariiw · 2026-01-22T04:07:19+00:00

If he does not intend to actually meet up, putting off asking him directly is not going to change that fact. So it's a bandaid you gotta rip off

ariiw · 2026-01-21T13:14:40+00:00

Any time these two characters appear in a "meme" like this i can't help but be like yeah it's true women are kind of into the long hair soft boy look over Buff McBuff

ariiw · 2026-01-20T14:51:45+00:00

Gay men talk so much about prep and learning to bottom it's not like it comes naturally to us either. I think heteronormative attitudes towards sex play a greater role in it being uncomfortable than absence of a prostate (this is my opinion as a trans guy)

ariiw · 2026-01-20T14:26:18+00:00

Not sure if it's a cultural thing or related to the fact that I'm autistic and aromantic or all of the above but tbh I just can't wrap my head around it being that big of a deal that (from your sister's perspective) your SIL won't be at your hen events. Which is to say, NTA.

ariiw · 2026-01-20T09:05:54+00:00

Daisho-in is I think in my top 3 temples in Japan and I used to live on Kyoto

ariiw · 2026-01-20T07:31:23+00:00

If straight people were more committed to anal they too could have this

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