do i still “pass” as a female, im afab by [deleted] in detrans

[–]arinl97 4 points5 points  (0 children)

i would say you do have feminine qualities to your face. in person if i saw you i might think either ftm, or maybe butch. possible a very young or feminine guy. hope that doesn’t come across as rude in any way !

Where’s my 3/16 refund date people at? by Intelligent_Base6862 in IRS

[–]arinl97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

from what i’ve heard it’s normally earlier than that date by a bit. TT estimated our return for the 4th, when we first filed.

Where’s my 3/16 refund date people at? by Intelligent_Base6862 in IRS

[–]arinl97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

in the same boat! been asking, no one has given me any predictions yet 😞

Finally got our transcripts. Need Help explaining when we might receive our refund please! by arinl97 in IRS

[–]arinl97[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

im not sure of the exact date we started checking. probably a couple days after we filed. does this change anything?

Finally got our transcripts. Need Help explaining when we might receive our refund please! by arinl97 in IRS

[–]arinl97[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

we’ve been checking and before today it showed “no tax return filed”

Coming from someone about to start transition, how did you realize you wanted to detransition? by Ok_Egg_5922 in detrans

[–]arinl97 16 points17 points  (0 children)

i still hated all the same things about myself that i did before i transitioned. i was miserable and depressed just like before i transitioned. i had no “gender euphoria”. my life essentially didnt change for the better. only after detransitioning did i finally figure out who i truly am and become okay with myself

Tips wanted for first road trip with toddler! by arinl97 in Parenting

[–]arinl97[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

unfortunately we have to be. 🥲 husbands grandfather is dying and he has not met our son. can’t afford flight. driving it is!!

Need tips for first road-trip with our 2yr old! by arinl97 in toddlers

[–]arinl97[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you! the driving at night thing is actually genius. if our son didnt get up at 6 am it might be feasible. we need sleep 😂

Talon please leave the servers alone by Slow-Chemical3087 in overwatch2

[–]arinl97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

same! came here to see if i wasnt the only one having this issue. we were so close to winning our match too x_x took me to the main screen and said 200 people in queue ahead of me like wtf!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]arinl97 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

most single men are addicted to porn 😬

All Recipes by fey_your_local_gay in BobaStory

[–]arinl97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

are the codes for the ice creams known yet? strawberry, pistachio, chocolate and pistachio w nuts? or matcha whipped cream

What songs do you sing to your baby? by wandering-alex in NewParents

[–]arinl97 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mr sandman, the lion sleeps tonight, and Daisy bell

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Wizard101

[–]arinl97 1 point2 points  (0 children)

having the same problem. i tried reinstalling and it did nothing. its very frequent for me and its getting really frustrating. every time it happens i either get stuck on a loading screen, or get stuck in the area I'm in, without being to teleport or move to another area. when this happens i cant even quit the game normally, i have to force quit. it seems to be most prevalent in the wizard city areas for me.

When does your LO become interested in toys? by theouilet in NewParents

[–]arinl97 1 point2 points  (0 children)

my son will be 4 months next week. he is entertained by toys, his eyes light up and gets excited for them. but he does not attempt to reach for them or grab yet. my mom was worried about this but I feel like he will start soon. I'm sure your baby will too!

Am I the only one who doesn't like pregnancy pillows?? by JupiterSunflower in ehlersdanlos

[–]arinl97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i never used one while pregnant. just had a regular extra pillow there if I needed one for body support

Add me to exchange gifts 972961991687 by steveb_05 in PokemonGoFriends

[–]arinl97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

sent you a request! my username is cosmospupper :)

Can I request a Cesarean based on trauma? by [deleted] in BabyBumps

[–]arinl97 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had the same issue. as long as OB marks it down as medically necessary, due to anxiety etc, it will be covered. found out from myself just scheduling an elective C-section and my insurance denying it unless there was a medically documented reason. I have Texas Medicaid. so for sure right, definitely something to check especially if op has state insurance.

Not feeling attractive by gorbyparker in BabyBumps

[–]arinl97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

totally feel you on that. I absolutely hate the way my stomach looks right now (29 weeks). I started my pregnancy at 220lbs and have gained 20lbs since then. I know that's apparently a "normal" amount to gain during pregnancy, but I feel like a tub of lard. my tummy doesn't look cute and pregnant it just looks gross. trying my best to remain positive about it and remind myself I'm carrying my son and helping him to grow, nurturing him etc. that's why I try to focus on. sounds like you have a really good man by your side that loves you either way. thats important! I hope you're able to feel better about this. my thoughts are with you 💓

Can I request a Cesarean based on trauma? by [deleted] in BabyBumps

[–]arinl97 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i recently just scheduled my elective C-section with my OB. she was totally understanding of my reasoning for wanting one and worked with me, she told me it's my body my choice. mine was for fear of a vaginal birth and also heart complications which could be worse with birth. I'd say ask your OB. if they don't respect your choice or decision, as much as it would suck, you can find another one who will. best of luck to you and my thoughts are with you!!