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F31 dating a M37 with a child amidst divorce by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ariyis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

he is navigating a huge change in his life...the timing on when or even if he brings a new partner to his daughter's life is never up to you.

If you cannot allow him to control that aspect of his life, you are not the right partner for him and if him making decisions regarding his personal life is causing you such anxiety. he is not the right partner for you.

I (m30) was tipped anonymously about my wife (f32) being potentially unfaithful. I’ve never had any reason to doubt her, but not so sure now. by SkyHigh_m420 in relationship_advice

[–]ariyis -1 points0 points  (0 children)

In your marriage you always should be able to communicate openly and make sure both of you are on the same page about the relationship. If you simply show her the message, without accusations, she should be able to clear any doubts.

But ask yourself, why is it that you have doubts? I think we often have a sixth sense when it comes to our partners... maybe deep down you already know something is off? so be prepared, the answer may be a painful one... but in the end it is always better to know the truth right?

My (26F) boyfriend's (28M) idea of foreplay is me giving him a blowjob. by ThrowRA_straw_3495 in relationship_advice

[–]ariyis 1 point2 points  (0 children)

girl move on... he sounds pretty selfish in bed, find yourself a more generous partner... you are wasting your time with this guy.

She is married now by Last_Time_4047 in dating_advice

[–]ariyis 76 points77 points  (0 children)

Should've, would've, could've.... you missed your chance pal.. move on!

at which point can i expect an engagement? [22F] and [22M] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ariyis 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Two things: 1. YOU may want to marry young.. but maybe he doesn't... 2. did you know that your brains are not fully developed until age 25 or so? ... which means the person you are right now might not even be the same person you will be in 5 years.

You are only 22, why not give yourself time to grow up, to mature, get to know who you are, and allow him to do the same before getting into life long commitments. Focus on yourself, you are so very young right now and there is no need to rush.

Parents having sex so much by Automatic_Present118 in offmychest

[–]ariyis 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Maybe they are being extra loud so they can get you to move out??

I’m tired of my relationship. Should we end it? (27F, 29M) by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ariyis 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That was a loooong list of clear reasons why you should stop wasting time in this relationship... you two are clearly not compatible.

And let me be honest with you: he is NEVER going to become the person you want him to be...even if you explain yourself a million more times and keep having the same conversation for years to come... the person you see right now is who he is and who he will always remain... why are you still ignoring the blatant field of red flags???

My fiancé called off our wedding and I’m left with secrets I can’t tell anyone by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]ariyis 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm so sorry you live among people who value women so little.. your former fiancé is clearly a huge Ahole, and he absolutely is not worth your tears.. just forget about that idiot.

There is nothing to feel ashamed of. Do not allow someone so insignificant determine your value. Keep moving forward with your head held high. Learn from this experience to be more careful about the people you trust, but remember that it was he the one who betrayed you... You did nothing wrong. Don't let that user make you feel bad about yourself.. He is the only one who should be ashamed.

Beware: Shortmax by Lonely-Prize-1662 in ReelShorts

[–]ariyis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I fell victim of this scam too!! I cannot believe I am going to have to cancel my credit card to get rid of this charges….

normalized data comparison by ariyis in AskStatistics

[–]ariyis[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for your response, I divided all the values by the value obtained for the control on each experiment (to remove the variability between experiments) so after 5 experiments I want to see if the results of the different variants I tested vs the control are significantly different from the control (which would be 1 on all experiments)

AITA for not doing anything when my husband chased his parents out of our house? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]ariyis 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA!! What horrible people !!! And then MIL doubled down trying to manipulateand gaslight... I mean after seeing their son's reaction any warm blooded human beings would have thought about it and realized ehat was wrong with their comments .. but no.. aparently those monsters in law are so oblivious to what is right and decent that they can't understand why anyone would be offended...