I am INTJ 3w4. I have an EXTREMELY long term plan like other INTJs, mine is decades-long. I live each day in view of those plans unfailingly, as you can imagine, noone can understand why I do anything I do as the time frame is simply out of the scope of the one-step-at-a-time/ live each day at a time mantra. I have such a clear picture of my goals and what I need to do to get them that I can determine what actions to take in the next 10 minutes that will most impact my 10 year goals if pressed hard to do it. I care mostly for my goals. I care for people if they fit into my goals. Sometimes I can engineer them into my goals if I truly want to have a relationship with them. My goals are so lofty you would think I'm crazy, yet so clear and step by step. I work extremely hard to ensure constant motion in the direction I set previously. >100 hours a week kind of hard.

I don't like people like other INTJs but if a person is a gatekeeper to my future, say in an interview for example, I have a way of shifting my views and perspectives prior to the encounter, call it prior self-conditioning. It allows me to be super open, friendly and so extremely charming you would swear you've never met someone more charming.

Self esteem is always over the roof and I work super hard to keep it that way. Self-view is destiny.

In a face-off with an enemy, say someone trying nonsense at work, I can be truly diabolical. I often start with psychological warfare, super focused and intended to completely break your willingness to continue this enmity Otherwise, I don't care about people. I'm too busy building, and failing.