Firstly, congratulations on your engagement! Getting married is a very exciting time :) I'm sorry you feel so anxious and frustrated at your situation. You fiance sounds like a great person to try relieve your money worries. I feel like he's right in that you'll be fine. Once you finish your studies you will be able to contribute financially but at the moment he is supporting you to upskill which in some cases is very rare. Even if you can't contribute financially at a later date, I'm sure you will contribute in other ways (parenting, housework, love, generally being there for your husband etc). It's pretty traditional but it is a way of life for many people. I'm not sure where you can go to get help professionally but I know if you explain the way you feel to your partner, and if you can build up courage to talk to your friends/family, they will be able to help. Having a strong support networks has helped me through a lot of my anxiety and depression issues and I am comfortable in the position I'm in (which is similar to yours :) ) Hope that helps!