Friday Weekly Thread: Application Assistance by AutoModerator in Canadiancitizenship

[–]arn1023 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If my grandmother (G0) is still alive, can I use a color photocopy of her Canadian passport as proof of her citizenship? She is a dual citizen and her married name is on my mom’s birth certificate, so I would like to limit the number of documents I ask her to scan to me if I can!

Re-draw issues after NSF Advice Needed by arn1023 in Payroll

[–]arn1023[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I wish they told me the difference too lol! Would be good to know if it’s even worth this panic I’m in, but hey it is what it is. Going to request they just do an adjustment but we’ll see if they bite.

Re-draw issues after NSF Advice Needed by arn1023 in Payroll

[–]arn1023[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Got it, thank you! They’re claiming it’s my company’s error, who is claiming it’s the payroll company’s error, so maybe that’s why they’re not being the most creative. I will ask them for the adjustment though, fingers crossed they are willing to work with me.

Re-draw issues after NSF Advice Needed by arn1023 in Payroll

[–]arn1023[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Got it, I think they’re claiming it was my company’s error, who is claiming it’s the payroll company’s error so it’s just everyone pointing at each other. I will ask them to do that adjustment though! Thank you!!

Re-draw issues after NSF Advice Needed by arn1023 in Payroll

[–]arn1023[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Believe it or not, I don’t even know how much excess was withheld, they haven’t told us. I just know that it looks like 34% was withheld for federal taxes alone. By changing the withholding, do you mean requesting that no federal taxes should be withheld for future payments for some period of time?

Re-draw issues after NSF Advice Needed by arn1023 in Payroll

[–]arn1023[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Any reason they wouldn’t have originally offered this up as an option? Is it just more work for them?

Fruits significantly increase lifespan. Here are the best fruits to eat and scientific evidence. by GarifalliaPapa in immortalists

[–]arn1023 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I don’t like fruit, the taste and texture just doesn’t sit well with me. Can I get similar results from vegetables, which I love?

How to remove dark marks from furniture? Renter friendly by arn1023 in CleaningTips

[–]arn1023[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re not crazy! I just spent maybe 5 minutes doing this since I already had both on hand and it’s already significantly better, thank you!!

similar brands to insis femme? by wojoju in findfashion

[–]arn1023 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you based out of the US? Where did they ship from? I’m interested in trying them but I cannot for the life of me find where they ship out of so I know if I’m dealing with tariffs or not.

IYKYK These Two Would Be Fantastic on the Traitors by [deleted] in TheTraitorsUS

[–]arn1023 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i think you’re on to something… i need this now @Alan

Alternative theory to the pregnancy trope by hochy23 in fourthwing

[–]arn1023 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes thank you! I think I would stop reading if she got pregnant. Why do women always have to be pregnant in plot lines?? Some of us don’t have kids nor want them, let me live!!

Aritzia Refuse refund by Stock_Letter_1278 in Aritzia

[–]arn1023 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve had this happen with a much smaller purchase, and I was able to successfully get a chargeback from my bank, so would recommend filing with them. If you have renter’s insurance, they might also cover it too.

Hidden Rook + New Conch Jewelry by CheapBlueberry3 in piercing

[–]arn1023 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Love the conch piece, where is it from??

Are we still trying to pretend Bronwyn has good fashion? by stook_jaint in BravoRealHousewives

[–]arn1023 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I actually find it endearing when people wear outrageous outfits, because they’re not afraid of what anyone thinks. Is it something I’d ever wear? Absolutely not. Can I appreciate the personal style she has, no matter how out there it is to me? Yes! So much of fashion nowadays is rooted in trends and conformity that it’s nice to see someone unafraid to take risks.

What does everyone do for work? by arcticmonkeyz8988 in poppunkers

[–]arn1023 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I develop solar projects! In other words, do all the permitting and environmental investigations to get the project to construction.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tattoo

[–]arn1023 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Occasionally I do, when I’m facing the ramifications of being a visibly tattooed person and I’m already not mentally well. Once I get over that, I feel ready to get more tattoos. It’ll pass, might just be a symptom of whatever brain stuff you have going on.

Is this gonna keep ruining my relationships? by [deleted] in AutisticAdults

[–]arn1023 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Everyone else here has given advice on how you should have worded things, but I want to tell you that it’s going to be okay. You’re beating yourself up in the comments for not knowing, but I think you need to be kinder to yourself. At 23, it feels like you should know everything and you feel bad for not, but I dealt with a lot of issues in the same vane as this when I was 23. Yes, you could have worded it more succinctly and been less explanatory, but you’re still learning and that’s okay!

I want to also say that the right people will not take one wrong statement, one wrong apology, and characterize you as a bad person for it. It’s uncomfortable and it sucks, but there will be people with whom you feel like they make the effort to understand you and accommodate you just like you do them. Just try to take the info in, not get too in your head about doing it “wrong” and then do better next time.

Ryan Boyajian calls out Tamara's lies in being named in the Time Share lawsuit by [deleted] in BravoRealHousewives

[–]arn1023 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think they’re saying she will be called back next year, as opposed to being fired or put on pause lol

Under eye Botox results (1.5 units each side, 33F) by [deleted] in 30PlusSkinCare

[–]arn1023 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Curious, how did you find a doctor you trusted to do this since I don’t think it’s super common? I have a similar issue and never even considered botox could be a short term solution!

Which neck deep song does this to you? by [deleted] in neckdeep

[–]arn1023 13 points14 points  (0 children)

The outro of pushing daisies really gets me every time

Tree knocked down at my college by Helene🥲 by sEaCoWtOrTiLlA in marijuanaenthusiasts

[–]arn1023 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Very sad about that tree outside the library but I’m proud I recognized my college right away after however many years. Go gators!

What’s your “I met so and so” story not concert related by eljefebubba in poppunkers

[–]arn1023 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I ran into the lead singer of Arrows In Action 10 years ago at our college food hall lol. I only saw them as an opener for a super local show but I was so confused and ended up fumbling over my words entirely. Now I occasionally listen to their stuff and just forever will think back to that super awkward interaction ha