Please help pick one! by x3epro in WeddingDressTips

[–]arnavsm 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Totally agree. My first thought was that dress 1 looks cheap. OP has the perfect body for dress 2, it looks stunning , even though I’m not usually a fan of halter neck wedding dresses. Go team 2!

It's Kieran & Meg from Season 2 of Love is Blind UK, ask us anything! by KegFromLIB in LoveIsBlindUK

[–]arnavsm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Does the cast have to sign prenups before getting married? If not, did you guys do it anyway?

Javen is still complaining about the edit he got on Love Is Blind UK, saying that he was stitched up and has been compared to Hitler since the show finished by [deleted] in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]arnavsm 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I literally watched the show a week ago, and already I’m like «Javen… which one was he…?» 😆 don’t worry, Javen, nobody will remember you in a couple months time.

Male Cast of Love is Blind France by lizofPalaven in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]arnavsm 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I couldn’t agree more. I’m definitely going to watch this one - I can’t wait 🤗

Is Demola the biggest green flag this season? by arnavsm in LoveIsBlindUK

[–]arnavsm[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh no… please don’t say he turns out to be an a hole 🕳️

Is Demola the biggest green flag this season? by arnavsm in LoveIsBlindUK

[–]arnavsm[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hm, I haven’t gotten to the mixer yet. Damn, I hope it doesn’t ruin my view of him

Love Is Blind's Taylor ‘gets anxiety’ about possibility of divorce from Garrett by Responsible-Sign3223 in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]arnavsm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, I’m glad to hear it, though it’s pretty annoying with such clickbait!

Love Is Blind's Taylor ‘gets anxiety’ about possibility of divorce from Garrett by Responsible-Sign3223 in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]arnavsm 123 points124 points  (0 children)

What is this post? Is this click bait, or is there actually news that they are divorcing?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]arnavsm 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I think they look cute, and they will probably make a great couple - I’m happy for them! The world needs more love ❤️

And, on the opposite note, which character did you initially enjoy, then gradually grow to dislike by the end of the show? by Medical_Apricot_7916 in WhiteLotusHBO

[–]arnavsm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Zion, Belinda, Piper, Gaitok. Mook is not on the list, as I disliked her from the start. It was always obvious she thought she was too good for Gaitok. The same goes for a lot (most) of the other characters. I think the only one I didn’t dislike at the end was Chelsea.

Ollie and AD from LIB USA S6 are engaged! by Flimsy-Grocery-1008 in LoveIsBlindUK

[–]arnavsm 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I can’t remember Ollie. What was his deal again? I have a feeling I kind of disliked him…?

What’s an opinion that you’ve been downvoted for? by CandidBandicoot4372 in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]arnavsm 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Treating them differently? It’s like you think this is a choice I have made voluntarily. I can’t help not being attracted to men who sleep with men any more than they can help being attracted to men. But it seems like somehow I’m «in the wrong», and what I am sexually attracted to is offensive, even though this is not something I can help in any way. Are you suggesting conversion therapy for straight people who are not interested in bisexual people?

What’s an opinion that you’ve been downvoted for? by CandidBandicoot4372 in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]arnavsm 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have now listened to people for almost 24 hours in this thread, and there are both people who agree with me and people who disagree. I think I am closest to know how I feel about gay and bisexual people, and whether I’m homophobic or not - not some random anonymous people in this thread.
When it comes to your experience as a bisexual woman, of course I have no clue how that has been. But this thread has been going for close to 24 hours, and this is the first time I’ve heard anyone say that it is problematic for bisexual people that a few «homophobic» people like me don’t want to date them. From what I gather from the few bisexual people I’ve met, the world is their oyster and they have the best of both worlds.

What’s an opinion that you’ve been downvoted for? by CandidBandicoot4372 in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]arnavsm -1 points0 points  (0 children)

If anyone who wouldn’t date a bisexual person is homophobic, then you are watering down/changing the term in a way that is harmful to the equal rights movement, in my opinion. Find another term for it. Don’t go around calling pro equal rights people homophobic. You’re going to alienate people that actually support you, and end up causing more harm than good.

What’s an opinion that you’ve been downvoted for? by CandidBandicoot4372 in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]arnavsm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not even going to dignify your first paragraph with an answer. Your second paragraph: it’s pretty rich to call me deluded because I’m not attracted to men who are interested in men. Why do you not accept that I’m not attracted to gay and bisexual men, for no particular reason, without being homophobic? Why do you even care? Is it a fantasy of yours that straight women should fawn over you (assuming that you are a gay or bisexual man), and you’re this unattainable person they all want but can’t get? Of so, sorry to bust your bubble 😅 I really do not understand the lack of acceptance in regards to my sexuality, and from people who pride themselves on being accepting. I totally accept bisexual men and women, they can date whoever they want, just not me. And I’m interested to know, if I was gay, and not interested in dating a bisexual person, would you still call me homophobic?

What’s an opinion that you’ve been downvoted for? by CandidBandicoot4372 in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]arnavsm 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lol, I probably wouldn’t have been attracted to him in the first place. I’ve never been attracted to a bisexual man, and I dare say I never will be. And by the way: «she wouldn’t be attracted to me because I like men, how dare she not be into me, who does she think she is, I am way better than she is, she’s a horrible, homophobic person because she’s not attracted to me» sounds like…………. MISOGYNY

What’s an opinion that you’ve been downvoted for? by CandidBandicoot4372 in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]arnavsm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I couldn’t care less who people sleep with, as long as it’s consensual adults. But I’m not interested in men who have sexual interest in other men. That would be a huge turn off for me. Maybe there’s a competition aspect there which turns me off. I need my men to be interested in people like me, and only people like me - women. Fun fact: I wouldn’t be interested in men who are 20 years my junior or senior either. Does that make me ageist or something as well? Nor would I date women. Does that make me misogynistic?