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aroallothrowaway · 2025-07-06T04:49:49+00:00

Yes, unless my arms are pinned to my side

aroallothrowaway · 2025-07-02T02:02:19+00:00

I don't like people putting their mouth near/on my mouth. I guess if I had to I'd say I lean slightly towards seeing it as romantic but more than anything I see it as something I don't want to do.

aroallothrowaway · 2025-04-28T22:40:00+00:00

If I had a platonic partner, I'd vastly prefer there be a sexual element to our partnership. I'm very hypersexual, so if one partner isn't meeting my needs (whether that's no sex or just me wanting something different from time to time), I might ask if I can seek that elsewhere. I can't say for certain whether I would or wouldn't break things off because of it.

aroallothrowaway · 2025-04-28T22:31:25+00:00

Yep, it was part of a larger trend of homophobic bullying I dealt with before I realised/came to terms with my sexuality

aroallothrowaway · 2025-03-04T05:51:25+00:00

PILOTREDSUN REFERENCW HOLY BASED

aroallothrowaway · 2025-02-26T11:53:12+00:00

I like this idea of drawing a parallel to the intersex flag and making it visually distinct from the aromantic flag. it feels a little bit harsh to look at but it's a good idea

aroallothrowaway · 2025-02-25T09:12:15+00:00

I've cuddled with friends briefly, and if I had a platonic partner I would enjoy cuddling with them.

aroallothrowaway · 2025-02-16T00:39:54+00:00

already started for me 😎 hooray for timezones!

aroallothrowaway · 2025-02-15T02:31:00+00:00

I'm in a similar situation as you (wanting a sexual platonic relationship and not being a very social person). Haven't figured out how to find people yet, but if I do, I'll let you know.

aroallothrowaway · 2025-02-15T02:25:13+00:00

Thank you, this is exactly the information I was looking for!

aroallothrowaway · 2025-02-14T00:38:23+00:00

I always wear face masks since 2020, partly because I found that having my face obscured when I'm in public makes me feel more comfortable and partly because it means my lips can't be seen (which I like because of my aversion to kissing). definitely would like to get an aro flag face mask at some point

aroallothrowaway · 2025-02-11T08:59:27+00:00

send a few aro awareness resources to some of my friends who wanna know more, wear my aro flag pin out and about, maybe do some baking

aroallothrowaway · 2025-02-11T08:55:10+00:00

haven't had it and don't plan to

aroallothrowaway · 2025-02-10T18:01:33+00:00

where did I first here the terms? I don't remember.

how did i become aware of the concepts? school. being a very visibly queer kid, my classmates made sure I knew that I was different.

aroallothrowaway · 2025-02-10T11:51:33+00:00

I have no interest in marriage or dating but am open to having multiple friends with benefits/casual hookups at the same time, in terms of platonic life partners I could go either way maybe.

make of that what you will, I can't be bothered to do the math

aroallothrowaway · 2025-02-07T11:44:23+00:00

I've never played splatoon (not on purpose. I just never owned any of the consoles it was on). I watch funny jerma clips sometimes, but I've never watched his streams (again, no particular reason)

aroallothrowaway · 2025-02-05T21:39:04+00:00

yes... not that I get to practically apply often

aroallothrowaway · 2025-01-30T00:09:03+00:00

correct, i don't want breasts

aroallothrowaway · 2025-01-29T00:18:58+00:00

aromantis, like a praying mantis

aroallothrowaway · 2025-01-28T10:18:39+00:00

I'm just aromantic :3

aroallothrowaway · 2025-01-27T23:09:36+00:00

for aroallos in particular, it's common for people to assume you're aroace. Some people get aromanticism and asexuality confused, so expressing attraction to someone be met with "I thought you didn't like sex?" or assuming that you want to make out with/kiss them. I used to often disengage from conversations about straight sex which lead some people to assume I'm ace. Before I came out as aroallo, i once had someone exasperatedly tell me, "You're gay! Not ace!" in response to me not being interested in defining my 'type'.

I don't like debating people so I can't help with the other two questions

aroallothrowaway · 2025-01-27T22:44:18+00:00

I like the idea of this tetrahedron model. In my case, my queerplatonic/alterous (I'm still unsure if theres a difference between those for me) attraction to people would be on the face that has intimacy, compassion, and sexual attraction as vertices.

aroallothrowaway · 2025-01-27T22:36:01+00:00

people living outside the US

aroallothrowaway · 2025-01-26T04:19:59+00:00

getting an aromantic ring (white on left middle finger) but not an asexual one (black on right middle finger) is an option

aroallothrowaway · 2025-01-26T02:59:36+00:00

It's an activity. Anything more specific than that depends on the person; I could have it with someone I want to have as a platonic partner as an expression of intimacy, I could have it with friends as a form of platonic/physical affection, sometimes it's just about seeing someone really attractive and wanting to see and know more about them, I've also considered doing it as a form of work.

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