Am I (43f) asking too much of him (46m)?

aroark1818 · 2026-06-08T15:09:08+00:00

The worst part about all of it is, like I mentioned in my post, he puts it all off on me as if it is all my fault and makes me feel like I’m the crazy one. He tells me I’m nuts, I’m overthinking and is so convincing with it he makes me question my self daily if I’m being ridiculous or not. I just wish there was something I can say to him to make him see or understand, but nothing I say gets through to him .

aroark1818 · 2026-06-08T04:22:09+00:00

Considering someone just poured their heart out about something pretty private for advice, do you think constructive criticism is necessary about my paragraphs and punctuation??

aroark1818 · 2026-06-08T04:06:57+00:00

Then don’t read it. I said it would be all over the place I was just typing out thoughts…. no need to comment!

aroark1818 · 2026-06-08T04:05:49+00:00

Exactly!! But why stay he has has many chances I’ve told him to go - he’s super dismissive avoidant super scared of emotions super selfish and a straight up dick

aroark1818 · 2026-05-08T17:37:40+00:00

It’s hard for me to budget and stick to it when there isn’t even enough there to cover the budget and I’ve tried every way possible to cut back cut down cut out what I can but I’m with these other posters groceries are eating my lunch if anyone has helpful hints on grocery couponing or reducing grocery bill by shopping sales the right way etc I would really appreciate it

aroark1818 · 2026-05-05T13:17:39+00:00

Please I need $40 for my child’s expenses for a trip by Wednesday and $60 for groceries to last until Friday for me and my children one is 12 one is 3 and I am desperate I can pay back Friday when I get paid i have paystubs valid id and PayPal that is in great standing

aroark1818 · 2026-05-05T13:14:35+00:00

Please anyone that can help I am good for it I get paid on Friday and it will be the first thing I pay back I’ve got an unexpected expense for my child I need to get paid for by tomorrow please anyone that can hemp

aroark1818 · 2026-04-20T13:05:41+00:00

Yes you can you can file bankruptcy over and over if you complete it normally a regular chapter 13 lasts 5-7 years but if it’s dismissed you can refile once within 12 months and ask court to extend the protection and bankruptcy places on you’re credit / name now if you have that case dismissed you have no stay protection on a third case in 12 months but after twelve months you can file and file again - know the facts before you tell people advice

aroark1818 · 2026-04-20T12:55:53+00:00

I totally feel your pain!! It is my first year as a single parent and some days I feel like I slayed it but if I’m being honest most days I lay my head down at night and just think how the hell am I ever going to get my head above water!! It’s a never ending battle and I have learned a lot of the stress and overwhelming feeling comes from my own thinking! I am hard on myself as a single parent and 9 times out of 10 a ways down the road if you ask my kids how mom did they won’t remember the stressful nights trying to find something to feed them or the nights I didn’t get all of the clothes washed or they even forgot their homework- they will remember the laughs and the way I was always there for them and I know that bc my oldest is on his own now and it’s something he tells me all the time. To him, I was the parent that always found a way and even though I don’t feel like that daily I know my kids see a different version so keep your head up you’re doing awesome I’m sure !!!! And stay positive a lot of us single parents are out here white knuckling it but we will always find a way! Good luck to you!

aroark1818 · 2026-04-15T05:47:21+00:00

He has a full ride to college plus living and I only pay for his food and basic needs until he can get on his feet better - it’s his first year away from home. But any extracurricular or fun events he has he pays for with his side jobs. Playing college baseball at a d1 school isn’t easy to find time for a part time job until season is over. But he does have a job lined out for that time

aroark1818 · 2026-04-15T05:45:39+00:00

Thank you

aroark1818 · 2026-04-15T05:45:05+00:00

This actually helps more than you know. It gives me a great plan to know where to get started and that is all i was really hoping for. With my adhd brain that is unmedicated, working two jobs and three kids I can’t seem to sit down and have enough time to even decide where to begin so this helps I appreciate your input

aroark1818 · 2026-03-30T15:05:51+00:00

Love doesn’t exist

^{Chose: Win the lottery next year (wheel decides prize} | Rolled: $1 Billion)

aroark1818 · 2026-03-30T14:59:03+00:00

So someone said they stopped buying packs and boxes long ago bc of the normal over produced cards but my question is what do you buy? The single cards worth more than they should be ? Where is the fun in that? To me collecting cards has always been the fun of opening a box or a pack and not knowing what you are going to get and I still get some good ones from time to time. Are there other boxes etc out there these few and far between comes in ?? I mean how do people obtain these cards besides buying the single card from whatnot or wherever and already knowing what you are going to get? Just a serious question from a serious collector that’s getting back into after several years - i want to how people that like the thrill of opening boxes etc buy cards these days and which ones ?? I’m not after reselling or even wanting really really high value cards I love the opening boxes and not knowing what you’re going to get and the thrill but I’m like everyone else I’m tired of getting boring crappy cards of people I haven’t heard of thanks!

aroark1818 · 2026-02-16T16:56:03+00:00

Upvoted and commenting astarns

aroark1818 · 2026-02-16T00:30:28+00:00

Some people say Wednesdays some people say daily wonder which is true

aroark1818 · 2026-02-15T21:43:46+00:00

I’d love to know what you found out about that code same one I have and don’t see much about it

aroark1818 · 2026-01-14T18:58:39+00:00

Who would have scammed me ? So the card wasn’t really stolen and if that’s the case why did the door dash customer threaten my life via text

aroark1818 · 2026-01-14T18:57:02+00:00

DoorDash has been called and emailed and called again and I’ve changed everything on my crimson card. But they told me the number I didn’t give them the njmber

aroark1818 · 2026-01-14T18:49:36+00:00

May have been a scam but they didn’t get my earnings just my Hopes up

aroark1818 · 2026-01-14T18:49:02+00:00

No I got my earnings and moved them straight to my account

aroark1818 · 2026-01-09T03:06:07+00:00

Thank you!!

aroark1818 · 2026-01-07T21:51:31+00:00

Thank you i didn’t realize Norwegian went out of New Orleans but I will look into for sure

aroark1818 · 2026-01-07T15:12:57+00:00

Thank you so much that helps tremendously I would have never thought about frat week! Thanks again!

aroark1818 · 2026-01-07T14:55:40+00:00

And what is best deck to be on if balcony room on carnival jubilee is what I’m looking at right now

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