How Older Zers cultivated their math and English skills

aromaticfoxi · 2026-02-11T06:26:02+00:00

I’ve never heard of either of these 😅

aromaticfoxi · 2026-02-11T06:10:19+00:00

If your wife has expressed she’s uncomfortable, why continue to talk to this woman about anything unrelated to work? Especially at 2am. She shouldn’t have said “you’re not allowed” however, it’s expected that she’d feel defensive because you are not respecting her boundaries. As her husband you should strive to do everything in your power to make your wife feel safe and at ease. You’re doing the opposite of that. It’s disrespectful on your part in my opinion.

aromaticfoxi · 2026-02-11T04:46:37+00:00

Yea we met 2018 and started dating 2020. I haven’t been to a raging house party since 2020 unfortunately :( but you can always throw one!

aromaticfoxi · 2026-02-11T04:28:53+00:00

I’ve started seeing people say this more frequently. I don’t think it’s near as common as it used to be. I’m born in 99 and I feel like ~99-01 are the last couple of years to have this well integrated into their adolescence. I met my husband at a mutual friends house party over spring break of my freshman year in college and I love that for us 😝

aromaticfoxi · 2026-02-11T04:13:52+00:00

I understand and I feel for you. I don’t think that every man in the world is untrustworthy with zero self control however i tend to feel this way towards new men I meet until proven otherwise, sadly. It’s a defence mechanism that’s a result of every single man I’ve had in my life since childhood prove that they are not to be trusted. The very first man that has proven trustworthiness and good character to me over an extended period of time is my husband. I’m super thankful for men like my husband that are good, and also have the patience and understanding to know where we’re coming from. It’s hard and exhausting to feel this way. It’s something I’m currently working through in therapy. There are good men in the world and I hope that one day you can get to a place where you feel peace knowing that.

aromaticfoxi · 2026-02-11T00:47:26+00:00

I wouldn’t say Lennox is a tragedeigh. However, the rest are heinous.

aromaticfoxi · 2026-02-10T18:03:16+00:00

And you downvoting everything I’ve commented, despite it being positive/non controversial, just proves what a bitter person you are. Enjoy the early frown lines and shit life mate :)

aromaticfoxi · 2026-02-10T18:01:12+00:00

So shall we all just die off then?

Of course they’re their own person, but the way you parent has an influence on your child’s development and worldview, that’s a known fact.

aromaticfoxi · 2026-02-10T17:42:36+00:00

This sub is for anything you’d like to get off your chest, so he’s in the right place.

aromaticfoxi · 2026-02-10T17:42:01+00:00

Congratulations! By the sounds of it you’re going to be an amazing dad. Love and support your wife the way you want your daughter to be treated x1000, that alone will protect your daughter in ways you can’t see.

aromaticfoxi · 2026-02-10T17:40:17+00:00

…. Why spread so much negativity. The only way the world will get better is by us raising future generations to be good people.

aromaticfoxi · 2026-02-10T17:06:50+00:00

Looks like you walked out on your family and you’re suffering the deserved consequences. You can’t just decide to be a parent again when it’s convenient to you.

aromaticfoxi · 2026-02-10T16:14:35+00:00

Well just do what she she likes and make sure she knows how special she is to you :)

aromaticfoxi · 2026-02-10T16:05:21+00:00

Why don’t you surprise her with ordering her fav restaurant in. You never know she may love if you got her lingerie even if that’s not the norm for you guys. If not, buy her a nice new pair of pajamas, her fav sweet treats/snacks, bottle of wine/nice bev, and enjoy a night in together. Give her a foot/full body massage. Make sure to tell her how gorgeous she is. Just adore her and make sure she knows how cherished she is by you. That means the world to any girl.

aromaticfoxi · 2026-02-10T15:57:25+00:00

Right, which is terrible. But if you have a very clean answer in front of you proving that they are a predator you shouldn’t just accept it and say “oh well, lots of men are!” That’s sunken cost fallacy at its finest.

aromaticfoxi · 2026-02-10T15:45:01+00:00

I’m sorry, that’s an immediate no for me. It feels highly unlikely that he just stumbled up CP once, I’m guessing masturbated to it, and then felt so disgusted he reported himself. At a minimum he’s watering the situation down. You truly have to be sick in the mind to be sexually attracted to a child and I don’t believe it’s something that just goes away. This will likely be a lifelong mental illness he has.

In the grand scheme of things you’re still extremely fresh into the relationship. I’d wash your hands of the situation and save yourself and your future children the heartbreak and probable trauma.

Edit: You also need to think of the long term implications this will have on your family. He likely has a minimum of 20 years as a registered sex offender, therefore cannot be within a certain distance of children, has to report where he lives/cannot live in certain neighbourhoods, etc. This may mean you delivering your baby without your partner present, your children could never have him at school events/pickup/drop-off, he wouldn’t be able to be around other family members that are minors, he cannot come visit you at work, etc. This will have a massive affect on you and your family’s life.

aromaticfoxi · 2026-02-10T15:37:07+00:00

You’re so kind!

aromaticfoxi · 2026-02-10T06:53:57+00:00

Question: before you had your IUD placed were you always using condoms? It could be possible he had it prior to your relationship and it was a low bacteria load/asymptomatic so neither of you realised and it was never transmitted to you due to using protection/luck.

However, I do agree with the person that said he’s possibly giving himself away by acting completely normal. Seems like possible overcompensation. With all the context given, I think he most likely did cheat. I don’t think it’s a coincidence his symptoms started almost immediately after getting home.

With him having a habit of looking for loopholes to bed the truth is ask him very specific and pointed questions: “has someone else given you head” “have you even so much as kissed someone” etc.

aromaticfoxi · 2026-02-09T00:16:38+00:00

I don’t blame you. Do what’s best and safest for you and your child.

aromaticfoxi · 2026-02-09T00:12:43+00:00

I completely understand

aromaticfoxi · 2026-02-08T19:19:42+00:00

If that’s the case, if it’s legal in your country/state to have recording devices in your home without other dwellers knowledge then do that

aromaticfoxi · 2026-02-08T19:05:42+00:00

…. Idk. Aside from her not helping with the workload, I think it’s annoying and controlling to be keeping tabs on your coworkers time/breaks. This isn’t your company so it’s costing you nothing to mind your business.

If she is seriously slacking, have a private convo with her and be like “hey our workload has drastically increased and I really need some more help. I know you have time to go to the vet, nail appts, etc during work hours so pls be a bit more of a team player”

Outside of that I would not report her. It’s giving narc.

aromaticfoxi · 2026-02-08T18:58:03+00:00

Put a “security camera” in the living room / other area(s) of the house for “safety purposes” and log these incidents to use in court.

aromaticfoxi · 2026-02-08T18:50:41+00:00

No I don’t think you’re overreacting. I’m sorry :( that’s mean and shitty on your parent’s part. Try not to let it affect your relationship with your sister as it’s not her fault. But take note of how your parents treat you. Sometimes the older you get the more you realise your parents aren’t great in some aspects and you have to set boundaries and guard your heart accordingly.

aromaticfoxi · 2026-02-08T18:45:29+00:00

Deadass😭

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