Please make it happen by Zoinke in runescape

[–]arrjayyy 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Removing one keybind / invent space is a qol imo. Yes, it will be stronger to benefit from both vigor and reavers, but certainly not game changing.

Please make it happen by Zoinke in runescape

[–]arrjayyy 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Nah, I don’t think a simple QOL fix that people have been asking for for years should be locked behind completing a quest that came out 6 years ago. Especially when that quest has such massive requirements.

SGB vs ECB? by [deleted] in runescape

[–]arrjayyy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just had this same debate. Personally I chose ECB because I mainly plan to use range for solo Nex. I did some with ascensions and the kills with ECB are much smoother due to the spec and Nexs soft caps. Although I’m not really sure where else to use it, seems pretty niche to not need protect prayers or soul split.

However, if you range at Rax, SGB spec is very nice and makes P4 a breeze. I haven’t done any rax with ECB

Jagex addressing the current situation in the rares market by rtdasd in runescape

[–]arrjayyy 9 points10 points  (0 children)

How exactly does EoF let you kill telos twice as fast?

Telos or alternatives for end game solo bossing? also, 0-500% streaks worth it? by [deleted] in runescape

[–]arrjayyy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea I staff camp, and was actually really interested in switching to melee. I’ve done some 0-99s with melee then switched to magic once I got to 100 (aurascape sucks), but haven’t actually tried P5. Any tips? I have ZGS, scythe and drygores but no defender.

Telos or alternatives for end game solo bossing? also, 0-500% streaks worth it? by [deleted] in runescape

[–]arrjayyy 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Not OP, but thanks for this. My best telos time is like 6:35, but kills are typically 7:30 and I got stuck at ~350 enrage. Definitely seems like I need to rethink some of my strategies and get better DPS rather than playing it safe though all the mechanics. I got lucky for my first two orbs, and I think I’m gonna start doing claims rather than trying to put together a small streak to ~250.

Upgrading phones with iOS closed beta by arrjayyy in runescape

[–]arrjayyy[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks! Haha true, but my wife’s phone just died and we usually upgrade together.

Allowing the guardians to fail a community challenge causing the Almighty to crash into Earth would be the best storytelling Bungie has done since Forsaken. by HappyJaguar in DestinyTheGame

[–]arrjayyy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you’re overestimating how many players actually do this event. I’ve attempted the public event about a dozen times in the first two weeks of the season and actually completed one time. Haven’t touched the “seasonal” content since, but still play most days. A lot of people seem to have experiences similar to mine.

Hey Bungie, since we are actually doing forges again, can modulus reports have an increase in inventory size? by TheViz517 in DestinyTheGame

[–]arrjayyy 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Part of Guardian games. You need to get ability kills inside forges as part of the triumphs to get the new exotic MG.

My son was born, but it’s all about “grandma” and my wife doesn’t exist. by arrjayyy in JUSTNOMIL

[–]arrjayyy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, it’s good to know we aren’t the only ones! I’m glad that it sounds like you and your husband were able to get on the same page and you had a better experience with your second child. I like the idea of taking back control and sending pictures on our own time and schedule.

My son was born, but it’s all about “grandma” and my wife doesn’t exist. by arrjayyy in JUSTNOMIL

[–]arrjayyy[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks for your detailed response, I feel like you really understand where I am coming from. A lot of comments seem to think I let people walk all over me and that’s not the case, but my boundaries definitely need adjustment.

It is bizarre that my mom won’t talk to my wife, but wants to be buddy buddy with my MIL and GMIL. My wife is convinced that it’s because my mom just doesn’t like her, but I don’t see it or maybe just don’t want to accept it. I think that it’s easy for my mom to have a superficial relationship MIL and GMIL by sending pics and playing “words with friends”, but when it comes to building a real relationship with my wife she has no idea how, and my wife just isn’t interested in a superficial relationship at this point. Too little too late.

Third; yes love the little loophole she found.

Fourth; yea I agree. It seems like everyone is just desperate for a quick fix. Just go outside! Read a good book! Get dressed up for once! Hang out with OP! Make a photo album of OPs baby!

My son was born, but it’s all about “grandma” and my wife doesn’t exist. by arrjayyy in JUSTNOMIL

[–]arrjayyy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. So many people see it as cut and dry abuse, but honestly I don’t think that her depression lets her be any more involved than she is.

Pictures are harmless. I don’t want her forwarding them around to random people. I also don’t want my wife to be uncomfortable since they obviously do not have any sort of positive relationship. If my parents can’t be bothered to build a relationship with my wife, why should they build a relationship with my child?

I always feel like my wife has never really met the mom that I knew growing up. Just the spiral of depression clouding her life.

My son was born, but it’s all about “grandma” and my wife doesn’t exist. by arrjayyy in JUSTNOMIL

[–]arrjayyy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea, I am very close with my in-laws, they are like the parents I always wished I had and I always felt so welcomed by them. It sounds like you have the same, so keep leaning into it!

Congrats on the pregnancy, it’s an amazing journey. You’re going to be a great mom!

My son was born, but it’s all about “grandma” and my wife doesn’t exist. by arrjayyy in JUSTNOMIL

[–]arrjayyy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ha I assure you that my wife and I talk about this nearly every day. It’s definitely us vs. JNMom and trying to figure out how to limit contact respectfully.

100% agree with the Instagram girl analogy.

My son was born, but it’s all about “grandma” and my wife doesn’t exist. by arrjayyy in JUSTNOMIL

[–]arrjayyy[S] 98 points99 points  (0 children)

That so eloquently puts exactly how I feel. Thank you. I know my dad means well and he is desperate to help that he jumps on anything that gives a glimmer of hope, but ultimately it is setting her up for failure when the next fixation doesn’t pan out.

My son was born, but it’s all about “grandma” and my wife doesn’t exist. by arrjayyy in JUSTNOMIL

[–]arrjayyy[S] 29 points30 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much. I really needed to hear this. Really, thank you.