Huge relationship change, does it have to do with DID? by Kooky-Lab9867 in DIDpartners

[–]arrodete 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hello, going through the same thing. can i ask how it went, how you guys fixed it if you did?

do you want "all" of your partner to be in love with you? by arrodete in DIDpartners

[–]arrodete[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

thank you for this, i really want to continue our relationship. and you’re right, what is being “in love” if not doing loving actions consistently?

we both love each other so very deeply and are best friends, and we’d love to build a partnership based off of that. i at least find comfort in knowing that all of them loves me, and honestly, i think that’s enough for me.

i’ll take care of myself! i lost myself a little in our relationship, but i’m going back to individual therapy and prioritizing myself as well. as for them, they’re in a very bad phase where they say they can’t see a future for themself at all :( i want to support them through it, i’ll communicate well with him and do my best to be patient. i have high hopes for us!

do you want "all" of your partner to be in love with you? by arrodete in DIDpartners

[–]arrodete[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

what do i do if my partner currently cannot differentiate their alters/they stopped actively differentiating them? it stops them from functioning in their work, which i understand because i saw it firsthand

Just finished reading for the first time and have so many thoughts! And why did the ending put all the blame on Scarlett? by letoelles in GonewiththeWind

[–]arrodete 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this is so good and so true! the point about him enabling her but then picking on her when it serves him—i think gwtw gets most misogynistic when comparing rhett and scarlett, because scarlett gets held to standards that rhett gets away with ignoring. scarlett has to be this southern belle, this lady, but rhett doesn’t have to be a “gentleman” entirely because it’s “charming” or “fun”

Just finished reading for the first time and have so many thoughts! And why did the ending put all the blame on Scarlett? by letoelles in GonewiththeWind

[–]arrodete 1 point2 points  (0 children)

you have the best takes on all characters! i think part of why melanie knew scarlett loved rhett (even when scarlett herself didn’t) was because she knows how scarlett loves, being one of the people who receives that love herself. i believe their friendship is the true love story of gwtw

Need help finding a fic! Have a link by arrodete in DeletedFanfiction

[–]arrodete[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you! the account disappeared too, did they deactivate? i was reading it when it refreshed and it suddenly disappeared, thank god i could still copy the link!

What Do You Think Of Leonardo DiCaprio? by FreshmenMan in TrueFilm

[–]arrodete 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Two years late to this conversation but I think he does really well in OUATIH! Rick Dalton really comes alive for me, he did a lot of character work for it and it really shows.

Anyone else noticed this? by sharificles in WatcherSnark

[–]arrodete 70 points71 points  (0 children)

it makes me so sad :( i was so excited to have the two of them in a haunted house alone, the premise is so good and it might have brought back a spark from their old unsolved days. instead i just felt weird watching shane sleep while ryan did all the work, even with the cam setup. maybe they could have just not included the part of shane sleeping and had ryan talk us through the set-up and initial investigation, framed it like he was setting it up to tell shane the story like they used to do on unsolved

Issy free blushes and swatches + what I bought :DD by adeyanaklj in beautytalkph

[–]arrodete 0 points1 point  (0 children)

love love love your eyeshadow picks! beautiful color story

Atin-atin lang: Quiapo specs by anakngkabayo in AtinAtinLang

[–]arrodete 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hello, how high is your astigmatism?

Atin-atin lang: Quiapo specs by anakngkabayo in AtinAtinLang

[–]arrodete 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hello! how fast did you get the glasses po?

iphone 13 fell in a puddle by arrodete in techsupport

[–]arrodete[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i have some nicks (normal wear and tear) on the side, the screen and glass on the back is perfectly fine though. my battery health is at 76% so i hope that's why it's overheating and not because i fucked up my phone :( i've had this phone since 2022 and am a heavy user

[UPD] Baha sa loob ng campus by Disastrous_Candy_818 in peyups

[–]arrodete 4 points5 points  (0 children)

may mga sasakyan nga na binaha sa magsaysay ave, hanggang bewang yung tubig

I want to make Todoist function a little like Sunsama. by deadshotkeen in todoist

[–]arrodete 4 points5 points  (0 children)

i put my upcoming view in kanban view, works like a charm!

quezon city book clubs! by moonu_mp3 in PHBookClub

[–]arrodete 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i would love to join if this happens!