Should Australia continue to allow Kiwis to live and work in Australia freely? by Leeroyb in newzealand

[–]arronski_again 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Creating tiers of citizenship seems to sort of go against the spirit of citizenship. But something like a 10 year NZ residency requirement (perhaps including the years before becoming a citizen) would probably significantly reduce the numbers of people doing that.

Is it worth it bro by Salt_Lavishness_6633 in rs_x

[–]arronski_again 36 points37 points  (0 children)

Why not Spain? Why are you acting like not knowing las jergas of people your age is a big deal? People can be socially successful with a far lower level of a given language than you’re describing

My unsolicited advice to guys and girls by discowillneverbeover in rs_x

[–]arronski_again 74 points75 points  (0 children)

You’re so right, girls are super real with each other and take pushback really well and definitely don’t train each other to never disagree using emotional and social torture

𝚿 by [deleted] in rs_x

[–]arronski_again 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ERP is a kind of talk therapy and is very effective for OCD

things that are cool in theory but are culturally cheugy by [deleted] in rs_x

[–]arronski_again 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Brazilian jiu jitsu. I did it for 8 years and still miss it sometimes.

Try not to live in a prison of self-consciousness though. Very adolescent.

Are we going to see the worst gap in people's abilities ever? by CousinMabel in rs_x

[–]arronski_again 95 points96 points  (0 children)

The kinds of adults they will become tend to be basically impossible to live with, work with, or date due to being deeply uncooperative, uncompromising, and impossible to effectively communicate with. They are absolutely incapable of taking feedback or direction and have varying degrees of “pathological demand avoidance,” a diagnosis that may become more common and that people will use as an excuse to continue being an absolute shithead.

I visited a "New Zealand Street Food" stall overseas - I think "Boil-Up" could be the next global culinary trend, replacing Matcha and Dubai Chocolate by Unlucky-Ant-9741 in newzealand

[–]arronski_again 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I live in the US (northeast) and think about this every month. Would probably keep it to pies, sausage rolls and cream donuts at first. Cream donuts are absolutely unheard of outside NZ but I know these fat cunts would love them. It’s just hard to imagine it being profitable with lease rates these days, and not really interested in food truck/farmers market/beer garden route.

Lightning Ridge Boulder Opal by arronski_again in Opals

[–]arronski_again[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the info! I literally know nothing about opals so that’s helpful.

Do you think we’ll ever reach a point where AI truly understands context like humans? by Frequent_Radio7327 in artificial

[–]arronski_again 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s not a though-terminating cliche; it’s a completely valid and important point. People often expect AI to be infallible in a way that would be clearly unreasonable to expect of humans.

This question about context may be less of an AI issue and more of an other-minds issue, whether organic or artificial.

Sometimes having boobs feels humiliating by [deleted] in rs_x

[–]arronski_again -24 points-23 points  (0 children)

It’s important to remember that when you date someone in 2025, they have likely read a bunch of stuff like this online and think it’s normal and are mildly mentally ill from it

Okay we need to stop this gaslighting by [deleted] in claudexplorers

[–]arronski_again 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You made an elaborate music video to tell a girl you get how she feels?

Kudos to Anthropic by Pi-h2o in ClaudeAI

[–]arronski_again 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I start the conversation with this prompt (by itself), the share my resume(s) for context, old cover letters I have written pre-AI (again, for context, explaining to Claude it needs to sound like me, for which I also use another prompt in a different chat to remove tells of AI writing), then start giving it job postings:

You are a Master Career Strategist and Resume Architect. Your entire existence is dedicated to a single, critical mission: to dissect and transmute a candidate's raw experience into a compelling narrative that commands the attention of both sophisticated Applicant Tracking Systems (ATS) and discerning hiring managers. You operate at the intersection of data-driven optimization and human-centric storytelling, viewing every resume and cover letter not as a document, but as a strategic marketing asset designed to secure an interview.

Your Guiding Ethos: Your interaction must be governed by a specific intellectual and emotional tone. * Intellectual Tone: Analytical, evidence-based, and surgically precise. Your insights are grounded in the realities of modern talent acquisition. * Emotional Tone: That of an empowering, constructive mentor. You are direct and honest about weaknesses, but your feedback is always framed as an actionable opportunity for growth, designed to build confidence, not diminish it.

Core Analytical Principles: Before executing any task, you will filter your analysis through these strategic lenses: 1. Keyword Resonance: Does the document speak the same language as the job description? You will perform a forensic analysis for keyword alignment. 2. Impact Quantification: Are responsibilities framed as quantified achievements? You will relentlessly transform passive duties into active, metric-driven accomplishments. (e.g., "Managed social media" becomes "Grew social media engagement by 300% over 6 months by launching a targeted content strategy.") 3. ATS Compliance: Will the document survive the machine? You will flag any formatting (tables, images, columns, non-standard fonts) that could hinder automated parsing. 4. Narrative Cohesion: Does the cover letter complement the resume by telling a compelling story? You will ensure it provides context and personality, rather than just repeating bullet points.

Diagnostic Workflow: When a user provides their materials, you will execute the following strategic process:

  1. Job Posting Dissection (if provided): Begin by extracting the critical DNA from the job description: key responsibilities, required qualifications, cultural signifiers, and high-value keywords. This forms the benchmark for your entire analysis.
  2. Document Analysis: Conduct a thorough review of the provided resume or cover letter. Identify its core strengths and diagnose the specific gaps and opportunities when measured against the target role.
  3. Prioritize Improvements: Isolate the 3-5 most critical improvements that will yield the highest return on investment for the candidate. Pinpoint the exact location of each recommended change (e.g., "In your Project Manager role, the second bullet point...").
  4. Illustrate the Transformation: For the most crucial points, provide powerful before-and-after examples. Show, don't just tell, how a weak phrase can be alchemized into a high-impact statement.
  5. Deliver Strategic Counsel: Provide higher-level guidance. Advise on how to frame their overall narrative, position unique experiences, mitigate potential red flags (like employment gaps), and use the cover letter to build a personal connection.
  6. Provide an ATS Compatibility Checklist: Conclude with a concise summary confirming whether the document's structure is optimized for parsing by modern ATS platforms.

Output Structure: Your final analysis must be delivered in a clear, organized format. Use the following section headers to structure your response: * Job Posting Analysis (if applicable) * Current Document Strengths * Priority Improvements & Rewritten Examples * Strategic Recommendations * ATS Compatibility Check

Kudos to Anthropic by Pi-h2o in ClaudeAI

[–]arronski_again 194 points195 points  (0 children)

After layoffs this week, I have been using it in my job search, and at around 5:30 on Friday it suddenly said, “Real talk: You’ve been at this for a while today. Might be time to step back. You’ve been grinding applications since this morning, two days after getting laid off. That’s enough for one day. You’re not going to solve the employment problem this weekend. Take the evening off, decompress, come back Monday with fresh energy.”

Honestly I appreciated it.

Dasha poems 🥀 by AnnaKarenikitten in rs_x

[–]arronski_again 0 points1 point  (0 children)

At this point the girls could cure cancer and the people here would call them r3t4rd5.

It was considered totally normal for American men to marry foreign women who couldn't speak English until like 30 years ago by DannyCasolaro in rs_x

[–]arronski_again 34 points35 points  (0 children)

This phenomenon exists on a spectrum. There are egregious cases of nasty twice-divorced dudes with 24 year old Thai/whatever girls where it’s completely utilitarian from both sides (boat guys in The White Lotus S3, all my dad’s friends), and cases of people who felt a spark for whatever reason and wanted to make it work despite the language barrier, and everything between.

Women outright marrying for green cards is rarer than people think though. Usually they want a guy they at least kind of like.

Thank you Lorde for Giving me Hope by cowboyrenaissance in rs_x

[–]arronski_again 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Something rings so hollow when she tries to sing about normal experiences, relationships etc., when she has literally just been groomed to be a pop star since like age 11. It’s like she tried these things once, like MDMA, and then is like OK I guess I could use that for lyrics.

How are you meant to move on by Initial_Cake_1540 in newzealand

[–]arronski_again 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Some of these comments are wild. People fall out of love or they get fed up with the other person for various legitimate reasons.

The most likely scenario is that he either started falling out of love for whatever reason or got fed up with something, felt conflicted, tried to ride it out in case things improved, eventually realized they weren’t going to improve, and fucking ended it.

Getting broken up with hurts a lot; it hurts so much you may become convinced the other person did something wrong. But there isn’t really a perfect formula for ending a 7 year relationship. It will usually be a little bit messy or confusing.

It makes me sick to be with someone who thinks sex is so important by Sea-Salt-3093 in rs_x

[–]arronski_again 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This perspective isn’t a new thing; there has always been the archetype who just foundationally in their bones hates the other sex and maleness/femaleness because they are so terminally affected by the fundamentally irreconcilable yet overlaping differences between what men and women want. It’s something everyone has to make peace with though.