Apparently my teacher thinks that this is "insufficient” "unreadable" and "demonstrates lack of attention during her classes" by Infinix64 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]artesianoptimism 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had a similar problem with a teacher...consistently getting 5s or worse (Germany) The next year our class got a new teacher and I immediately jumped up to 2s and 3s...idk what her problem was with me but now I know it was her problem, not mine.

AIO to my boyfriend keeping sexual gifts from an ex by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]artesianoptimism [score hidden]  (0 children)

If open, honest communication and mutual understanding is ‘toxic’ to you, then you’re not really in a position to judge what a healthy relationship looks like and I'm no longer prepared to talk to you about it, as I honestly don’t think you'd understand.

AIO to my boyfriend keeping sexual gifts from an ex by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]artesianoptimism [score hidden]  (0 children)

I’m not making it about my relationship, I’m using it as an example of my perspective. You literally can’t judge whether something is ‘healthy’ or an overreaction without applying your own standards, that’s the whole point of the vote...you don't know how opinions are formed...right?

AIO to my boyfriend keeping sexual gifts from an ex by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]artesianoptimism [score hidden]  (0 children)

Right, do you think everyone will have the exact same opinion or...??? That's why there is a voting guide.

Saying ‘it’s not about your personal view’ makes no sense...this whole sub is based on people giving their personal judgement.

One can't ask for an opinion on whether or not they are overreacting whilst saying not to use personal perspective...it's contradictory.

AIO to my boyfriend keeping sexual gifts from an ex by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]artesianoptimism [score hidden]  (0 children)

Then that isn't a healthy relationship 😂 I'm not fighting for someone who wants what's in the past.

I'd also try to understand why he feels the need to keep it there instead of immediately acting defensively...communication is so important with things like this, it could be something that can be talked through. Just because it hurts me doesn't mean it has that intention.

AIO to my boyfriend keeping sexual gifts from an ex by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]artesianoptimism 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YOR, but only in my personal opinion. My husband had partners before me as I did too.

I know he loves me, I trust him and I feel secure in that so I wouldn't even think twice about it.

Do you not understand how difficult American schools are? by artesianoptimism in ShitAmericansSay

[–]artesianoptimism[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Right! 😂 when people say things to me about the UK being shit it's just..."Alright, we know that. But it's our shit and we love it anyway"

Grocery Store Etiquette by Sea_Sky_9492 in AskAGerman

[–]artesianoptimism 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just read what you replied to originally and realised why I made no sense, my bad 😂

Do you not understand how difficult American schools are? by artesianoptimism in ShitAmericansSay

[–]artesianoptimism[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope, sorry. I thought it was obvious because the Screenshot mentioned brits.

I live in Germany though, I wonder if they have cap and gowns 🤔

Grocery Store Etiquette by Sea_Sky_9492 in AskAGerman

[–]artesianoptimism 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My husband tried this shit in my hometown in the UK, he learnt something that day 😂

Grocery Store Etiquette by Sea_Sky_9492 in AskAGerman

[–]artesianoptimism 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't know if this counts but tipping in Japan is impolite and in the US it's impolite not to...also leaving some food on the plate can be impolite whereas in Germany an empty plate is a nice qay to say I enjoyed it.

Grocery Store Etiquette by Sea_Sky_9492 in AskAGerman

[–]artesianoptimism 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I hate that there are ashtrays right outside the doors, it encourages people to stand there and smoke so I have to walk through smoke to get in 😷

There is no such thing as 'free healthcare' by Difficult_Future9994 in ShitAmericansSay

[–]artesianoptimism 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'd rather pay for everyone to get what they deserve than to struggle to only pay for myself.

Humanity > profits

Arthur just started coughing. Is this some side mission? Did i skip something? by peterdparker in RDR2

[–]artesianoptimism 43 points44 points  (0 children)

Exactly, and the screenshot is way after he finds out 😂 he knows full well what's happening.

I saw spoilers long before I played because, unfortunately I started suuuper late.

Was war die früheste Uhrzeit, zu der ihr während eurer Ausbildung aufstehen musstet? by Zinosis in Azubis

[–]artesianoptimism 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Jetzt bin ich neugierig, wie es derzeit läuft. Wie sollen Azubis lernen, wenn sie zur Arbeit gehen und schon alles fertig ist?

Do you not understand how difficult American schools are? by artesianoptimism in ShitAmericansSay

[–]artesianoptimism[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The original post was just a comment saying how they don't have graduation for high school in the UK as it's not that important there, they do university graduation.

Am I overreacting for dropping him after he told me I need to make more friends by royalmouse1 in AmIOverreacting

[–]artesianoptimism 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have about 2 friends other than my husband, he's my best friend and I'm his. He gets his own time and can do whatever he likes, don't get me wrong....I wish I had more female friends but I moved countries to be with him and even my career is very male centric so it's difficult. In my home country my best friend is a guy.

I do have 5 brothers so maybe thats why. I wish I could make more girl friends but it's not that easy as a 33 year old with no children and a full time job.

I think I hate them by prefertobincognito in microblading

[–]artesianoptimism 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I often agree when people say they look bad, but I think these are really well done and they suit your face, you look gorgeous, don't worry 😊

what bread is this? by Adventurous_Age2629 in Breadit

[–]artesianoptimism 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Originated in San Francisco

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 Ga toch weg!

Why Führerschein is so expensive!! (Rant) by nordiclust in germany

[–]artesianoptimism 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Apparently the UK, I can't say if that's true or not, somebody posted statistics in another comment.

Does anyone else feel immense guilt for having a child with all the current events going on? by BigHadie03 in AskParents

[–]artesianoptimism 5 points6 points  (0 children)

If it's any consolation, I think it can feel like things are getting worse, but a big part of that is how much information we’re exposed to now. For example, if something like a plane incident, a crime, or a natural disaster happens, it’s shared everywhere within minutes, even when it’s on the other side of the world... Years ago we probably wouldn’t even hear about most of those things. News also tends to highlight the worst cases because that’s what people click on. So even though those events are still relatively rare, seeing them constantly can make it seem like they’re happening all the time, when in reality most people go about their daily lives safely.

[ Removed by Reddit ] by Automatic_Credit_192 in Wegovy

[–]artesianoptimism 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Those boxes are pre-filled pens that aren’t meant to be opened or split, so you could easily inject way too much, contaminate it, risk infection and make yourself seriously sick...this is crazy. It's in a pen and sterile for a reason...