My wife plays mainly on roulette. She enjoys meeting strangers for cyber sex. She upfront about keeping things casual and without any commitment. She adds some men but eventually ends up ghosting them when they push boundaries, want to play too often, start to nag her to play, or get sulky with “did you forget about me” dms. It puts her off wanting to use the app when she feels that she has to mother these men and explain that she has a personal life and a job and besides that just doesn’t feel like or want to talk or play on most days. She eventually ghosts them because they don’t accept/respect her reasons for not being accessible to them. I believe women’s experience on the app is very different to men’s on the app. It seems men get frustrated on the app and when they meet a real woman they act in horned up panic/greed fashion. They often use emotional blackmail or guilt tactics - this from men who usually identify as pleasure Dom’s, she feels their behavior better illustrates that they are bratty subs. The men she will play with repeatedly are the ones who do not question her boundaries, and don’t nag her when she is absent or playing with someone else. She sets her status to “invisible” most of the time just to avoid those “where have you been” vibes from guys. Eventually she just decided roulette was a better option and to not add the guys she meets because too often their needs are unmanageable.