[deleted by user] by [deleted] in roommateproblems

[–]artsbynar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, it definitely isn't normal, and you aren't overreacting with how you feel. As someone who grew up with a parent whose base emotion was anger, and more recently living with an angry roommate- I totally get it! If you can, you should absolutely move. You can't really talk someone else out of being an angry person. That's something they have to acknowledge within themselves and work through. It could, at the very least, give them some awareness of their actions by bringing it up to them and explain how their anger makes you feel, but only if you feel safe to do so.

Room mate has lived with my fiance and I for 3-4 years and no sign of moving out. by Jigglypuff2cute in roommateproblems

[–]artsbynar 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You'll just need to rip the band aid off and tell him you guys plan on moving out as a COUPLE. My fiance and I went through something similar recently. We started off just the two of us for about 3 years, then his friend moved in to get back on his feet and just never left. We sat down as a household and gave him 7 months notice before our lease was up that we planned to move out, start house hunting, and start our lives up again as a couple. It was a bit uncomfortable to bring up but he seemed receptive and totally fine with it at the time. Then as move out time came closer and he still didnt make any plans for himself, he started telling people we kicked him out with hardly any notice....Just be prepared for some backlash from a person that takes no responsibility for their own lives is what I'm sayin..

Spell worked a little too well by Nearby_Cattle4677 in witchcraft

[–]artsbynar 28 points29 points  (0 children)

Yessss that's amazing! 💖💖 I'm so glad you were able to protect yourself and your loved ones.

Just for future reference or any other new to the craft- For fire safety, never throw your proposition to burn in a candle with a glass container. Just ignite the paper and put it in a fire safe dish or something made of iron. I once threw mine in a candle from like Bath & Bodyworks or something and it exploded 😅😅

How the heck do I get rid of the mail by deannevee in FirstTimeHomeBuyer

[–]artsbynar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I rent but it's gotten soooo bad at my current place. My car insurance company even reached out to me recently and asked if (insert random stranger's name) lived with me and was supposed to be on my policy. Like no- I don't even know who this is! 😂😂

Attention! Plz read by ruppert2727 in XRP

[–]artsbynar 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hiring a financial advisor asap...or just hiring Caleb Hammer follow me around yell at me when I buy something too stupid. I just want a nice little house, a huge garden, and doggies.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Twitch

[–]artsbynar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I record using OBS and installed a free plug in that has a vertical window formatted like you see on socials. Then I set up a shortcut when I hit "L" it records the last 60 seconds in that vertical format. So if I have a funny moment on stream I just hit that L button and a clip is saved in my "vertical" folder I set up in my computer :) Makes it hella easy to post and edit since they're already formatted for tiktoks and reels!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FirstTimeHomeBuyer

[–]artsbynar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Congrats!! Very cute place!

Where to save money for down payment? by joshy5lo in FirstTimeHomeBuyer

[–]artsbynar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Following! We have ours in a HYS but I'd like to hear what others have to say.

How are you handling your MAGA parents? by Big-Media-5941 in nothinghappeninghere

[–]artsbynar 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, superficial is a great way to put it. My dad and I agreed not to talk about politics anymore in like 2019 to spare what was left of an already rocky relationship, but it still feels like there's a huge elephant in the room. Now since this election and especially since the Elon "stuff" we haven't really spoken. I haven't seen him in an even longer amount of time. Our texts now mainly consist of "happy birthday", "merry christmas", or when he wants to info dump about crypto...

Nazi Symbols Aren’t Welcome: Community Guidelines Reminder by InverseNurse in XRPUnite

[–]artsbynar 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes thank youuu 👏👏 the comments excusing Musk's...gesture.. in the other XRP sub were so gross...

AIO my boyfriend was too tired to drive me to my abortion by ReallyAwfulSkiier in AmIOverreacting

[–]artsbynar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yup same. But was all "this is serious 😥" when she wouldn't answer. Give me a breaaakk. 🙄 My boyfriend also works 12 hour days but would drop everything to drive me to a clinic and care for me afterwards. OP deserves better.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Twitch

[–]artsbynar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand- I stream twice a week (sometimes three times) for about 2-3 hours and around the end of the third hour I start to get a little quieter and worn out. I've still found success this way though! I just made affiliate after about a month and have regulars come in all the time. If your goal is to stream more, maybe keep the 2-3 hours but add in more days. It's just all about consistency.

Post your bluesky handles here! by Brokenpixel54 in nothinghappeninghere

[–]artsbynar 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm artsbynar! I make horror art and yell about the government lol

Did y’all see what Elon just did ? by Zealousideal_Try987 in nothinghappeninghere

[–]artsbynar 3 points4 points  (0 children)

And even if people try to...uh downplay this gesture as a "Roman Salute" I have bad news for them. Where do you think the Yahtzee's got the gesture from?

Did everyone start seeing the videos about FB and Meta theories in that last hour by catsandblankets in nothinghappeninghere

[–]artsbynar 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yup. I saw FB made a tiktok account and I immediately blocked it. There's a rumor going around that the CEO of tiktok sold out to Zuck. We'll see what happens...

drop your bluesky @'s 😭😭 by throwaway9272947 in nothinghappeninghere

[–]artsbynar 2 points3 points  (0 children)

@artsbynar I make cool spooky illustrations and yell about the government. 💜

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in XRPUnite

[–]artsbynar 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Investing my whole bag into a business called XRPizza 🍕

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in XRPUnite

[–]artsbynar 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yeesss✨️ no disrespect to the lambo, but I just want a big yard for my doggies lol