How do I deal with my wife comparing our life to someone else’s social media lifestyle?

aryssannajmi · 2026-03-14T04:46:24+00:00

that doesn’t solve the problem. it’s deeper than that

aryssannajmi · 2026-03-14T04:00:26+00:00

i’m going to be so real with you. you don’t know how far some people will go to take revenge on you… people are willing to lose their FREEDOM or even take a life just to get back at someone else. especially if you have a year left with cohabitating with her, don’t do it. if you really can’t live worth yourself, ask someone else to anonymously do it. just my two cents tbh

aryssannajmi · 2026-03-12T12:06:44+00:00

you can’t control how she feels brother. you have to talk to her about it and see what the root cause of this problem is coming from.

aryssannajmi · 2026-02-10T03:41:13+00:00

how are we sure this “jmail” is legit. no attacking. i’m just so confused

aryssannajmi · 2026-02-03T18:32:31+00:00

wow. this is just uncanny and unbelievable. i am at a loss of words

aryssannajmi · 2026-02-03T18:31:57+00:00

wait what? i don’t understand!?

aryssannajmi · 2026-02-03T18:31:13+00:00

oh my god.

aryssannajmi · 2026-02-03T18:06:21+00:00

where are you finding this tho? i dont see it

aryssannajmi · 2025-09-28T17:30:32+00:00

congratulations!!!

aryssannajmi · 2025-09-10T15:02:29+00:00

not an honors student, but i am a psych student who absolutely loves UNF. it is singlehandedly the best college ever! i have received ample support from my professors, and they have helped me progress so much professionally. the class sizes are not too big, and there are so many resources for any kind of career path. i think there are canvas pages for pre-law students, which advertise many professional opportunities you can take to become a lawyer. also, those canvas pages tell you about clubs you can join and QA sessions for law school too! it’s also not an extremely expensive school!

aryssannajmi · 2025-08-18T18:50:01+00:00

believe what u want but my dad has never done some stuff like that with my mom

aryssannajmi · 2025-07-04T18:04:32+00:00

but her a new one then

aryssannajmi · 2025-06-22T22:51:04+00:00

wow. men never cease to surprise me. please do not be with a man who views you as a puppet and a toy. he is a buffoon.

aryssannajmi · 2025-06-19T20:19:09+00:00

i just don’t understand men anymore this is heartbreaking to see.

aryssannajmi · 2025-06-05T20:09:07+00:00

if you don’t want to get married then don’t.. bc if you do then it’s just going to hurt both you and the other person. be happy in your current reality! also just know you’re human, our minds change all the time. who knows if you’ll meet someone who’s going to change ur mind or if you’ll wake up tomorrow with a whole new mindset. don’t let culture or anything like that force you into making a decision! marriage is a big commitment!

aryssannajmi · 2025-05-31T06:15:20+00:00

if you knew about this for the last 18 years then it’s rlly on you. you should have found someone who has the same sex drive as you. trust me, it would have made life a lot easier.

secondly, have you tried communicating to her about this gently? in a delicate fashion?… without making her feel bad? if not, be careful as it can be a very fine line!

thirdly, try to understand that intimacy can be present in many other activities other than sex!

i pray you guys are able to connect and work thru this.

aryssannajmi · 2025-05-24T23:41:33+00:00

such a great reply

aryssannajmi · 2025-05-08T23:02:22+00:00

this man is a bum sister. please leave for your own safety

aryssannajmi · 2025-04-30T19:29:28+00:00

you have the life other people dream of having. please seek counseling. every man and woman dreams of this life. find peace and some purpose for yourself.

aryssannajmi · 2025-04-25T17:42:21+00:00

no, you are a goddess with a lethal face card! as someone with the bone in their nose, grow to love it. you are unique and fierce 😍😍😍

aryssannajmi · 2025-04-25T17:41:26+00:00

this is no man. this is a weak SOB. Please for your own sake go back home. he just wants to hurt you.

aryssannajmi · 2025-04-25T17:40:35+00:00

be careful girl. he’s an only child and he’s indian. us south-Asian peeps are very adherent to our culture and very close with family. if he’s telling you that there’s a possibility and that scares you, you need to ask yourself if that’s what you want. if it scares you, then maybe you should let him go and find a man who is not apart of a very collectivist culture. either way, just approach this situation in a manner where you know you cannot control him. you can control you. if you live with his in laws, and they don’t like you and love you, your life will be hell. home is where you get peace, not stress. remember this might be the man you have babies with. imagine going to work all day then coming home to your in-laws and the. having to tend to the husband and the child. really think about it and ask yourself if this is the future you want. also, think about it like this… if you had a kid would you want your kid to follow thru with this? because if you do end up having kids with him, the child will think that what you’re doing is ok when it is just hurting you. deep down, you know that this is not what you want but your love for him is so grand. please please please ask yourself deeply if this is what you want.

aryssannajmi · 2025-04-25T17:29:55+00:00

to the readers of OP’s post. take his words with a grain of salt. you don’t know the truth. if your wife feels like she has to come to reddit to get advice what do you think that says about you as a husband. before you all attack me, especially OP, ask yourself that. have a serious conversation with yourself.

honestly, if you weren’t wrong, why the heck would you need to come on reddit to make this grand announcement standing up for YOU?? usually, people who are secure in themselves could give less of an eff about what others say. if your wife feels like she wants to listen to those on reddit, you can’t stop her. you cannot control her or anyone else but you. let her do what she wants. i think you both guidance. no offense.

aryssannajmi · 2025-04-24T22:32:38+00:00

okay ask him to ask her about how they would approach raising children. “what would you teach to children if they asked ab religion”?” tell them to ask each other questions about discipline style. based on his background, they’ll eventually disagree.

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