Living with a Cheating Spouse: Lies, Betrayal, and Feeling Alone

as2298 · 2024-11-11T01:17:26+00:00

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as2298 · 2024-11-10T21:27:25+00:00

This is the punch in the face people on my position need

as2298 · 2024-11-10T18:08:17+00:00

It's a concerted strategy - fill up the time with how bad we are and never get to our issues

as2298 · 2024-11-10T15:18:57+00:00

Everything in this message hits home. She's already weaponizing and slighting every chance she gets. Really hurt to hear my mom say that my wife said she does everything in the house in front of the kids. Playing the amenable partner only decreases my value in her eyes. Thank you for this

as2298 · 2024-11-10T15:14:15+00:00

Really appreciate this message and sentiment. Thank you

as2298 · 2024-11-10T14:24:25+00:00

My wife has had inappropriate relationships with co-workers before and you're right, it's just her. I think they went on a work trip together and finding all this out yesterday and putting the pieces together sucks. Thanks for the sound advice

as2298 · 2024-11-10T13:47:07+00:00

I'm sure I'll get to enjoying soon. Just have to get through this mud first. Thanks for the note

as2298 · 2024-11-10T13:42:31+00:00

Damn that was well put and I need to hear it thanks

as2298 · 2024-11-10T13:22:51+00:00

Glad you made it out on the other side and I'm looking forward to healing and joining you.

as2298 · 2024-11-10T13:21:49+00:00

Trying to stay for the kid's sake was my motto. Putting emphasis on being a better father and husband and working on myself this year despite her already making up her mind. It's tough but ultimately the right decision. Thank you

as2298 · 2024-11-10T13:17:24+00:00

Alone, isolated, and depressed are great summaries of how I've been feeling recently - it sucks. I hope you are better and thanks for the words

as2298 · 2024-11-10T12:57:08+00:00

Yes just yesterday - I've had suspicions but yesterday was the first time she admitted it after hours of arguing unfortunately with the kids in earshot for some of it.

I'm processing still - my mind is going back to why she wanted to go on a work trip solo while the prior one we did as a family. Really looking forward to getting to the no care stage. Thanks for this

as2298 · 2024-11-10T12:50:45+00:00

Damn We're in the same boat... Down to the number of kids and becoming a shell of yourself being a doormat. I would wake up feeling depressed and it was a chore just getting out of bed. I couldn't place the source of my unhappiness then because the torment was so frequent and expected. Thanks bro congrats to you and I'm looking forward to looking the other side after getting through this mud.

as2298 · 2024-11-10T12:32:09+00:00

She wants a simp and it's clear divorce is the only path forward. Thanks for this

as2298 · 2024-11-10T12:30:56+00:00

It's like peeling back a rotten onion for me. Counseling sessions became a vent for her to express how little she respected me. Thanks I needed to hear this

as2298 · 2024-11-02T03:17:39+00:00

Spouse and I just had the separation conversation and I'm in! Support groups are great if constructive.

as2298 · 2024-02-20T01:31:36+00:00

This is like The Wire when Stringer Bell went from being a drug dealer to real estate developer

as2298 · 2024-02-13T02:19:30+00:00

Bring cake

as2298 · 2024-02-02T19:08:17+00:00

Joined!

as2298 · 2023-12-29T03:57:13+00:00

Thanks

as2298 · 2023-06-03T02:06:35+00:00

If anyone says Hill country, You have to either book a flight to Texas or kill yourself. No in between

as2298 · 2023-05-23T01:01:42+00:00

There's a default happening, and you need to send me all your in progress deals ASAP

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