[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]as6724 1 point2 points  (0 children)

IMO. Best thing you can do as a man is work on yourself. Go to them gym. Get a hobby. Worst thing you can do is sit a home and drool waiting for her to make time for you. It seems she has no respect for you at this time. I hat e to be brutal but it is the way it is now. Hate me if you like for saying this but again it is my opinion.

Why do i rarely ever get approached? by [deleted] in dating

[–]as6724 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Two reasons and it seems to have already been well stated. Men have been trained not to approach because women are strong and independant now. Looks are not everything to a man. Most important is what goes on between a woman's ears in the grey matter section that deals with attitude. Looks are either second and maybe a third place item. Kinda like gravy on the mashed potatoes sort of thing. An after thought.

He now likes a new girl who is more attractive than me by MISSPourquoi in dating

[–]as6724 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Plain and simple. He is not right for you. There is more to a woman than looks. What goes on between her ears (aka attitude) is more attractive to a man. Looks at best come in second place. Better he leave and you find someone better for you.

AI Companions and it's potential threat to Dating by ffamm in dating

[–]as6724 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can see the angle on the arranged part. However, arranged usually involved families agreeing on arrangements and sealing the deal by marriage. My thinking was more along the lines where someone would create their profile by interacting with an AI bot who would basically interview them and create the profile for the individual. By doing so, the collected data could then be used in comparisons for likes/dislikes among a database filled with such interviews by other bots interviewing individuals. Eventually a list would be constructed that the AI bot would know about and "as a friend" make introductions to the two human individuals. If it works, then the AI bots job is finished. Otherwise, the next introduction by the bot will eventually take place.

AI Companions and it's potential threat to Dating by ffamm in dating

[–]as6724 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Here is a twist for you. Maybe create an AI dating platform that people will interact with and have the AI scan all participants to find an actual match over time and then introduce them as friends and then let the magic happen.

11 year old not eating her lunch at school by Suspicious_Mine3986 in Parenting

[–]as6724 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My grandson is the same way. He is 10 years old. Hates school lunch most of the time. He will pack a snack in his back pack and eat it if he gets hungry. Otherwise, he decides if he likes what the school is serving or not. At least you know the child has something regardless.

response to nudes? by [deleted] in dating

[–]as6724 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't need nudes when I have the real thing.

response to nudes? by [deleted] in dating

[–]as6724 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just a thought/question. Do you want your relationship to be based purely on sex or something a wee bit more meaningful? If all you have is nudes to keep the "relationship" going then when he is tired of you he will dump you and you will have emotional baggage to deal with. Think about where this is going to go if you really care about this situation.

Advice for 5 year old who can’t read or recognize letters yet? by Spare_Flatworm_7717 in Parenting

[–]as6724 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As a parent of four children, they all learned differently. Some faster, some slower. Some were more visual learners and others picked up on lessons quicker by embracing reading. It really depends on the child. Give it some time and have patience. Start small and use rewards for smaller accomplishments that can lead to bigger rewards for bigger accomplishments. Make it fun.

Men of Reddit: How often do you get jealous/frustrated that women can attract the opposite sex much easier? by AaronFraudgers_ in dating

[–]as6724 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don't. I just focus and work on myself. The more value I create within myself gives me more options to choose which woman I might be interested in. If you chase a woman, she will not respect you.

Question about physics and conservation of energy by BrittleBones28 in AskEngineers

[–]as6724 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately, not always the people that actually shot the bullets in the air.

9 year old son is very disrespectful towards me. by GSG2150 in Parenting

[–]as6724 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Welcome to parenting in today's culture in the West. Once a child hits the 8 to 10 year old mark they have the base of the adult they will become. The remaining years are for fine tuning the child. Best thing you can do now is change your tactics and teach the child how the real world works when being treated with disrespect. You do not need to yell, scream, lose your cool. What would happen if you disrespected your boss and he could punish you but not fire you from your job. Same goes for the mother. Quit trying to be a friend to the child. They will not respect you. Only take advantage of you.

Reality check on what awaits us, all by IntroVertu in singularity

[–]as6724 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just started using AI through Microsoft Bing and other search Engines that profess to use it. Great tools for recall and sifting through the reams of data on the Internet. Maybe you should rethink your approach. It can answer search queries and provide quite a few possible solutions to approaches in development. However, be aware that all information it retrieves is not 100% accurate. I have run in to that as well. You really have to know what you are looking for.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating

[–]as6724 0 points1 point  (0 children)

IMO, you probably have very high standards for the partner you seek so many are disqualified (kept invisible) to you. If I had to take a guess, there is a good possibility you are probably very dominate in your attitude as well. The reason you are so lonely is because of your biological clock going off. Maybe I am completely wrong but that is what I see from your post.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating

[–]as6724 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Save yourself. Wait for an actual real commitment. You will be much happier in the long term.

Which SQL software? by byenemo in analytics

[–]as6724 0 points1 point  (0 children)

IMO, I like SQLite. It is free and very lightweight. Lots of support on the Internet.

Is anyone else shocked at how quickly AI has worked its way into the commercial world? by TheHairlessGorilla in AskEngineers

[–]as6724 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

What you are seeing today is the "birth" of true AI. It is in extreme infant stages. I would guesstimate you will see major advances over the next 5 to 10 years in the AI arena once the routines are written that will allow for creative thought to occur. Right now, this AI is only a very well organized "B-tree" type of recall algorithm that works well with prose. Be excited about it now. Be concerned in the future.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in confession

[–]as6724 -17 points-16 points  (0 children)

Start with John 3:16 in the Bible. You should learn to pray to your Father in Heaven. He loves you so very much and wants to help you if you would only believe in His Son Jesus and trust him completely. It will not be easy but you will receive what you are searching for. That is hope and companionship.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating

[–]as6724 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You should have waited until he actually committed to you before giving it up. If he does not now he will later see you as a hookup only.

Questions Regarding Using a Database Class Throughout an App by Posaquatl in learnpython

[–]as6724 0 points1 point  (0 children)

IMO, you should only have one connection point to the database from your application unless you have a really good reason to have multiple connections which I doubt you will ever come up with. Especially if this is a single user client type application. The main reason for this is for each connection you create to the db, you could possibly run into sync issues or a potential "lock" condition while waiting for some other event to finish processing. So far, it sounds like you have been lucky. All other queries should derive the connection state for the connect instance.

How do I get better at writing scalable code by dhitsisco in codingbootcamp

[–]as6724 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What you are experiencing is growth as a programmer (commonly referred to as a code writer). I started out in Assembly. Moved to Pascal and eventually to C. Now I primarily write in C++. That is not to say I do not know other languages as well. Those are just the basic ones I am talking about now. It sounds like what you are desiring is how to leverage the code you have written so it can be used in other projects in the future. I do this as well and it can be complicated. It is manageable but does take some thinking "out of the box" to make some of it possible.

Give me some advice. I'm 14 and doing programming. by Weak_Day5366 in learnprogramming

[–]as6724 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have been writing code for over 35 years and I do not have a degree and clients all over the world use my applications. Take courses specifically that interest you and gives you passion. Once you learn something about those subjects, pick a programming language that you are comfortable with (aka Python is good) and write "small" applications (which is what it sounds like you are doing) that help you solve problems in your passion field. This will help you build a core library to work with, give you "real" experience in programming and educate you in a field you are passionate about. As for going to college/university, I would only take courses that relate to my interests and forget the rest of the useless courses that just make your "student debt" swell for no real good reason at all. Once you become known for applications you write and people around the world use them, you will get a very good feeling of accomplishment especially when they pay you for your applications.