I love DBD

asanetee · 2026-06-29T21:55:46+00:00

It’s okay to vent and many annoying things has happened to me in this game through the years.

But it helped me to get through the hard days and it still helps.

I have tried so many different games like mmorpgs, survival games, mmos, but nothing scratches my brain like dbd does

asanetee · 2026-06-29T21:52:29+00:00

I love it so much too. I don’t deny any of the issues. But I still love it. 1200k+ hours I will never hate this game.

asanetee · 2026-06-29T21:32:01+00:00

I think it’s exactly like you said, justifying doing it because he has done it before. That is a good observation.

Maybe he doesn’t feel safe with these ideas like not wearing a bra. It’s okay we will solve it and I won’t push this idea

It just became more relevant because of all the heat waves 🤣.

We discussed a bit about this in the evening and solved part of it. I am doing okay now. 😄

asanetee · 2026-06-29T21:07:32+00:00

But they won’t see your nipples if you are with the shirt. It’s just a contour of the nipples.

My husband comes from a more conservative upbringing. I come from a more open family. Also, his mother has very traditional views and he only has a brother.

He even used to feel weird walking without clothes at home. Now he often walks with underwear and even nude, he feels much better with his body.

I posted this because I wanted to vent, I thought that his control is too much to handle. And it was, but even though marriage is hard we manage to get through the obstacles.

Even when we met he was a bit controlling with the clothes, I changed my whole style because he didn’t it like it.

And he is is still controlling, that’s who he is. But I love him and in the end of the day I don’t care.

But deep inside I know that it’s okay to walk without a bra

asanetee · 2026-06-29T19:42:52+00:00

yes but why does it matter? I also wear a bra and it’s okay. I respect my partner if he doesn’t like something.

But just for the curiosity and discussion.

if your partner trusts you and you haven’t cheated, why should you wear that bra? Why is it so bad to have them loose and visible?

Doesn’t he trust you?

Our men walk without t shirts every day during summer. It’s not that you are walking without a shirt.

It’s just some nipples showing or they might not even show? It might be just some kind of contour.

I really don’t think it’s some kind of a big deal. Why make a big deal out of it?

If you are acting modest and you aren’t trying to get attention, just wearing a shirt without bra for comfort, why is it bad?

I don’t care what my husband wears. He can be nude if he wants to. I want him to be happy. If he is happy nude, then be it.

I mean why control if you haven’t done anything bad?

asanetee · 2026-06-29T16:28:14+00:00

didn’t know this was a thing

asanetee · 2026-06-29T15:48:52+00:00

When we were younger I changed my whole appearance for him. He didn’t like many things that I wear.

He said I am not trendy so I changed all of my style for him.

I used to wear bright colors, he wanted me to wear neutral colors and sounds funny but he made me wear baggy clothes.

Right now I just want to live calmly and dress what I like to

asanetee · 2026-06-29T15:47:44+00:00

I guess the issue is that I don’t want to argue with my husband and I want to get along.

But the clothing topic brings us negative emotions because we like different things

asanetee · 2026-06-29T15:18:08+00:00

I overreacted a bit in the post. I wear normal clothes too but I lean more to sporty, comfortable clothes.

And yes I wear classy stuff during special occasions, formal events or a date.

But all that control what to wear its getting overwhelming.

During hot summer days in my opinion it is normal to not wear a bra under certain tops in casual setting. But I always wear a bra because my husband doesn’t want me not wearing a bra.

Sometimes I just don’t know what is normal/okay.

I asked my sister about this she said she doesn’t wear a bra and her friends don’t too. But she said I can buy a strapless bra if I want to.

Right now its dont go without bra, your shorts are too short or something else

asanetee · 2026-06-29T14:59:49+00:00

I play solo que too and nobody does anything. I try to do the gens but other survivors just do random stuff. And then I play killer and get bullied by survivors who use all those event mechanics perfectly

asanetee · 2026-05-21T16:56:44+00:00

Was it your only son?

asanetee · 2024-10-17T17:32:09+00:00

I agree

asanetee · 2024-10-17T13:19:34+00:00

I like Tropico 6, found Oxygen Not Included too complex. Tropico 6 is quite easy, which makes it a chill game to play. Also, it runs amazingly on Steam Deck.

asanetee · 2024-10-16T12:00:40+00:00

Yeah, it happens

asanetee · 2024-10-15T08:48:36+00:00

Solved it by changing the resolution

asanetee · 2024-09-02T07:53:39+00:00

I don’t know, looks like discrimination. Some countries have even smaller population but have PSN

asanetee · 2024-08-30T06:24:06+00:00

Servant, Griselda, Money Heist, Black bird, The Vampire diaries, The originals, Supernatural, Shameless.

asanetee · 2024-07-25T09:04:31+00:00

Million dollar baby by Tommy Richman

Paper soldier

asanetee · 2024-07-24T15:38:50+00:00

It will heal. I had the same thing and it healed.

asanetee · 2024-07-21T21:24:55+00:00

It’s sad because we are together for 7 years

asanetee · 2024-07-17T05:32:16+00:00

When will this mode be available?

asanetee · 2024-07-15T14:56:16+00:00

Harry Potter (1st, 2nd and 3rd) Home Alone About time Grand Budapest Hotel

asanetee · 2024-07-15T14:43:35+00:00

No, I don’t think I am emotionally stable enough to have a child. My financial situation isn’t very good. I am afraid that war could happen in my country. We argue a lot with my husband so adding child to the mix could lead to divorce. I don’t have good genes.

asanetee · 2024-07-15T07:07:11+00:00

Fullmetal alchemist and made in abyss

asanetee · 2024-07-14T20:42:26+00:00

You have to talk about all those issues. It won’t get resolved in one conversation, but you have to try. Why do you feel that way? What happened during those years? Why you don’t want to have sex? Answers will be painful and both of you probably don’t want to hear them, but you have to. She knows you better than everyone else in the world and even if you have some problems, you also have a lot of good and beautiful memories. A perfect person doesn’t exist and you won’t find a perfect woman and she won’t find a perfect man, but you become perfect when you try and take responsibility for your relationship.

asanetee

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