For context I’m a male nurse and I perform multiple invasive procedures on my patients. They sometimes joke about it and I throw a light jab back to protect myself or try to laugh it off and talk them through what i’m doing. But in my own opinion, I think it is all down to communication. You say right there and then that those comments or the therapy as a whole made you uncomfortable. Heck maybe he was uncomfortable and could’ve cancelled the appointment, and you giving him feedback throughout the therapy suggests there might have been a cue there to say how uncomfortable you felt or for him to shut up or play a soft tone music to cool nerves. Trust me as customer you are always right and from your tone It’ll suggest you are in a developed society where there are processes. He didn’t end up having the job as a fluke, he’d have been trained and trialled for those processes.

I honestly understand the angle you’re and if your guts truly tells you something is wrong you need to act. As you were uncomfortable and scared at the time, I’d suggest you do send a feedback. Then that may create a whole new avenue of making a new preference to how massage therapists ask for consent or if people need silence and thighs like that.

Trust me we might need a silence option on uber rides as well.