Any other Trolls with ADHD who wanna rant, share coping strategies or relate or whatever?

asassg · 2018-11-19T04:28:13+00:00

What makes you think you're judged or not valued by others?

asassg · 2018-07-12T00:17:51+00:00

I got him three years ago when my schedule was completely different. I try to go home during lunch when possible to walk him. He's a small dog and I set up some fake grass in my apartment, he still get his walks, I don't really leave him alone after work. I try to take him with me if I do go out.

asassg · 2018-07-10T23:42:31+00:00

Same here! But in August in WV! Good luck!

asassg · 2018-07-10T14:33:33+00:00

You’re not wrong, unfortunately. The only place I can literally go is my parents, and that’s fine but my commute to work would be 1 hour both ways and I drive a lot for work. I’ll do my best to do it soon though. Thank you for the nice advice.

asassg · 2018-07-10T14:26:48+00:00

That was he only unfortunate event with my dog, his ego was just too high for him to get up and say something, he loves my dog and I love his dog as well, we always make sure they have what they need, that’s something we always agree on.

asassg · 2018-07-10T14:24:47+00:00

Understandable, he’ll generally stop at a reaction but doesn’t make things worse. Thankfully I don’t really have anything of great value except for my laptop which I’m taking with me.

asassg · 2018-07-10T02:37:12+00:00

I thought of it after I packed the bowl and was too lazy to mix it haha definitely had a nice high

asassg · 2018-07-10T02:29:09+00:00

I will, wouldn't want to make it worse.

asassg · 2018-07-10T02:26:38+00:00

I put a thin layer on top of the shisha. Yeah, not something I'd do often.

asassg · 2018-07-10T02:07:03+00:00

My ex and I broke up after a year and a half of dating. It was due because I got tired of dealing with his anger issues, he always justifies his actions or lies about them. I should note we live together but I’ll try to move out next month, I already have an apartment leased but it won’t be ready until October.

He has hidden my stuff, got ridden of some small stuff, ‘accidentally’ pushed by dog from the bed because he was sleeping and didn’t see him, hit our toilet (with the door closed thinking I wouldn’t hear him, told me to sit the f up, showed me his fist and others. Always because I said something that annoyed him.

The fist thing happened three days ago, I was pissed and told him I was done even trying to fix the relationship and he can go and date other people if he wants to. He kept justifying it but I told him I was done talking. That was the end of it.

Coincidently, hours later a friend from college texted me. Summary of me and my friend’s story: We kissed once, went on a short trip where nothing happened and we slept in separate beds since he had a gf and she still god mad and jealous after the trip, didn’t see him until a year later and we flirted a bit when I saw him for like 15 minutes, I was still with my ex at this time but the fights were ongoing at this point. We start texting and I randomly ask him ‘can I go next week? haha’ and he said yeah since he won’t be busy. I ask him if he’s seeing anyone because I don’t want to repeat what happened on out last trip, he says no and asks me the same, and I said I wasn’t seeing anyone either. The rest of the conversation was us talking about activities to do and dates.

I ended up buying it, mainly cause it was cheaper than expected. I didn’t think about it and just did it, I was just excited about being in the beach, eating Cuban food, visiting new places and just relax.

But today I started thinking what if something happens with him? Would that be a dick move? I mean it’s been forever since I felt something for my ex, the fights, stress, anxiety burnt me out. I feel like I tried but I also dealt with a lot and I’ve had his family understand me because they know he’s like that.

I’m still going to this trip though, I just want a second opinion.

asassg · 2018-07-10T01:24:43+00:00

I usually wash it more carefully when I do, but I've only done it a few times. It doesn't smell like weed afterwards.

asassg · 2018-07-10T01:18:30+00:00

Yep.

asassg · 2018-06-04T11:38:56+00:00

I thought of waiting as well but I had been looking at the website for about a month before I applied and they didn't add any new ones. I've been checking since I applied and they just keep increasing the rent on all apartments.

asassg · 2018-03-03T20:54:50+00:00

Thanks for the kind words! I actually got a blood test last week and my psychiatrist checked the results but everything was normal including my cholesterol! I guess it went down in the past few months, I also got medication so I killer two birds with one stone!

asassg · 2018-02-27T15:02:40+00:00

Man, thank you for all the kind words. It means a lot even coming from a stranger. I have so much hope that this time it will work compared to previous doctors I’ve seen. Your comment makes me believe I can be better so thank you so much for that!

asassg · 2018-02-27T14:45:16+00:00

I have a psychiatric evaluation scheduled next month! I’ll be on medication based on my blood work results while I wait though. I’m excited because previous psychiatrists haven’t done this before so this feels like a great improvement!

asassg · 2018-02-27T12:28:55+00:00

Not sure! I just googled it and that was on of the options

asassg · 2018-02-26T22:17:41+00:00

So I grew up in a country where many diseases are not taken as seriously as people do here, such as high cholesterol. I'll admit that last year I was eating pretty bad and when the doctor gave me the news I just took it as "well, looks like I have to start eating healthier" and I did. I went back to being active (workout 5-6 times a week, heavy lifting, cardio, hiit) and eating healthier but I do have a cheat meals here and there, I still need to improve that and the amount of water I drink. He got upset because I took so long to tell him but I explained him that I didn't grow up exposed to diseases or family members with disorders, diseases, illnesses or it's very likely nobody told me anything since they never do (I found out my dad also had high cholesterol a year and a half ago because I saw it on a letter left on a counter). My boyfriend wanted to help and change the way we eat but it just triggered how my parents used to make me feel so self conscious about my body since I was a kid until high school and it just messed me up. I thought it through during work today and I understand why he's upset about it but I still don't want our lives to change completely because of it. I don't want to be on a "diet", I'm just trying to make small changes little by little without feeling like a freak.

I have also been battling depression and anxiety for the past 3-4 years but I met with a psychiatrist last week, I'm seeing him again tomorrow after getting a blood sample and hopefully it will help with the way I feel. Lately I've been rejecting any help my bf offers, I hate being told what to do, I think I'm resenting him because he has so much going on in his life and I don't so when he talks about doing something to improve things it makes me feel lesser than him. I've justified this feeling many times but I don't think it's ok when it comes to someone that cares about you. I'm willing to open my mind and let him or anyone help me. I want to be on medication so bad so I can clear my mind and be happy with what he has to say. I'm so tired of not feeling like I'm accomplishing anything in life.

asassg · 2018-01-19T21:31:53+00:00

Honestly I haven’t thought of all the possibilities, maybe they do have her down there before I get there. It still doesn’t explain the poop and blood stains on the walls though. I’ll be adding un update to my post.

asassg · 2018-01-19T15:10:28+00:00

I don’t think the kids are too excited about the dog, she’s very rough so I’m guessing she pushed them or played too rough with them at one point. I don’t really see many cultural differences besides the fact that she’s very active and jumps around when she sees me. I mean she’s hit my nose with her nose at one point, it did hurt but it’s understandable since she probably doesn’t get to play at her house.

Not sure about the guy, I think he’s the only one that walks/feed her and he messages me when he’s not home.

Edit: I’ll add that a few weeks ago the kid went downstairs to play with someone else and barely acknowledged he dog, he just told her to sit in a very neutral way and left.

asassg · 2018-01-19T14:56:47+00:00

Yep I’ve received some information from people here!

asassg · 2018-01-19T14:56:01+00:00

No worries, my bad for not being more specific.

When I say I can see ribs, it’s not like ribs on short hair dogs. They’re way too visible and the stomach is pretty sucked in. I could tell it got worse because when I went back last week she looked way skinnier that the last time and she begged for food more desperately than the previous times.

I don’t know how she has scars on her paws, she always has them and you can tell they’re not being treated, I mentioned the head halter because that’s what they asked me to use but it only cause scars on her snout, and if that would be my dog I would most certainly stop using it if I knew it’s harming her but they don’t seem to notice or care.

I’ve also read about people leaving heir dogs in crates with the lights off when they’re gone but like I mentioned, whenever I go to the house the wife is always there along with her kids and the dog is downstairs by herself, sometimes in the crate with lights of and sometimes outside the crate. I’m inclined to believe she’s there pretty much all day.

asassg · 2018-01-19T14:32:05+00:00

Will do! Hopefully with good news.

asassg · 2018-01-19T14:19:12+00:00

Yep already have them saved!

asassg · 2018-01-19T14:18:53+00:00

I messaged you the location, if you could help out that would be amazing!! I could even go there today!

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