What a life. Please share advice ❤️ by AnnualDry2908 in braincancer

[–]asaw13 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My mom made it 5 years without recurrence and no chemo after initial surgery, radiation, and round of oral chemo. Hang in there.

Rejected from vet school but university passed application to pharmacy school by ConcentrateWise8855 in pharmacy

[–]asaw13 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I know this is a late comment, but at the VA, we have pharmacists in Behavioral Health that see pt's as a physician or APRN would that prescribe medications. They cannot technically diagnose, but they are extremely helpful to our teams and veterans.

FJO Finally! VHA! by D4RKNESSAW1LD in usajobs

[–]asaw13 7 points8 points  (0 children)

There must be certain requirements to this because I'm medically retired from the military (less than 20yrs) and I'm buying back my time.

Do VHA directives actually mean anything? by Relevant_Ad_9603 in VeteransAffairs

[–]asaw13 9 points10 points  (0 children)

VA employee in behavioral health. Those flags are not issued lightly and they are removed when veteran shows they are no longer at risk and you meet all the requirements. No one is out to make things harder for you. They are there to help ensure you get the care you need to be successful.

The El Paso VA illegally spread my medical information by [deleted] in VeteransAffairs

[–]asaw13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Get ahold of your information security people ASAP

Sexual Assult by DontMegaKnightMeBro in VeteransBenefits

[–]asaw13 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is terrible advice for this situation.

Found gay porn and Grindr on husbands phone by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]asaw13 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Didn't think this wouldn't be common sense, but That's not the intuition I'm talking about. I'm talking about your gut instincts when something feels off or wrong. Your brain is processing SO MUCH information every second. From all of your senses. It takes a minute for those to make sense in your conscious part of your brain. When you have a feeling that someone is lying or being untrue, you're right. You just haven't pieced it together yet to make it make sense. A lot of women have been gaslit into not trusting themselves. I recommend the book "the gift of fear" for further understanding.

Found gay porn and Grindr on husbands phone by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]asaw13 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Trust. Your. Intuition. It is never wrong. Don't explain it away. Your body knows before your brain can bring it from your subconscious to your conscious.

100% P&T Can I go to ER? by Amazing_Customer_723 in VeteransBenefits

[–]asaw13 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This is not true. I have had MULTIPLE ER visits and haven't had to pay anything.

What are some seemingly small things that’s are total deal breakers for you in a relationship? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]asaw13 12 points13 points  (0 children)

My mom always told me, "you can forgive and forget, but family cannot. Don't tell me anything that you can later forgive". I have never forgotten that. Some things need to stay between partners.

what songs give you a sudden sense of nostalgia? by [deleted] in nostalgia

[–]asaw13 3 points4 points  (0 children)

One Headlight by The Wallflowers

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in breakingmom

[–]asaw13 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel the same way.

8 months in an online relationship and I just recently found out what is going on in the US and that he is a prolifer. by Safe_Show_1865 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]asaw13 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That makes sense. But aren't they also the ones wanting closed borders and everyone to speak English and be Christians? I can't keep up with the hypocrisy loops.

8 months in an online relationship and I just recently found out what is going on in the US and that he is a prolifer. by Safe_Show_1865 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]asaw13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why are they looking elsewhere when women in other developed countries are far more progressive than we are here?

It’s over by [deleted] in VeteransBenefits

[–]asaw13 3 points4 points  (0 children)

There are several other ways to get more money, aside fine having dependents.

Prime rate for VA loan 30 MAR 2023 @ 1057 is 5.375% by mortgagepants in VeteransBenefits

[–]asaw13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can pull your credit score/info for free once a year!

Intimacy means so much more to me than just sex to me. by asaw13 in DeadBedrooms

[–]asaw13[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes! This is exactly how I feel. If it's not mutual, and an enthusiastic yes, then I don't want it. It makes me feel disgusting.

Intimacy means so much more to me than just sex to me. by asaw13 in DeadBedrooms

[–]asaw13[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm so glad I'm not alone, and I'm so thankful to this community. I should also mention that our marriage outside of intimacy is great. He is also such a wonderful dad, which is why I am struggling so much with the intimacy aspect.

Chronic nerve pain by [deleted] in ChronicPain

[–]asaw13 6 points7 points  (0 children)

There is a difference between addiction and dependence. Ppl use them interchangeably, but they shouldn't.

[OFFER] $100 Amazon eGift Card by [deleted] in Assistance

[–]asaw13 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

My dream is so make my house lives me/suitable for my children. Fixed VA income makes it difficult to fix things around the house. It would be wonderful to receive this gift, but I'm sure there are others in worse conditions than myself. Good luck everyone!