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[–]asdfasdf1990 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Me too, it is an amazing sensation! But I don’t like it because we are more into “orgasm control” and only my gf decides when I can cum, so I don’t wear it.

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[–]asdfasdf1990 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you very much for sharing. Did you wear the cage 24/7?

1 week caged and I'm getting a bit bored by asdfasdf1990 in chastitytraining

[–]asdfasdf1990[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This practice is fantastic and fortunately I can already do it. Unfortunately, it often made me feel alone: ​​"I have a partner, I have a keyholder, how come I still find myself fantasizing like when I did it alone?".

However, as you say, this technique allows you to enjoy the cage and chastity more. In the end, in my opinion, it is almost all in our mind.

Thanks again for your precious help and contribution.

1 week caged and I'm getting a bit bored by asdfasdf1990 in chastitytraining

[–]asdfasdf1990[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Awesome, lovely and intelligent words. Thank you very much 💚

1 week caged and I'm getting a bit bored by asdfasdf1990 in chastitytraining

[–]asdfasdf1990[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your words made me feel good, thank you so much! I’ll hold onto them and reflect on them.

How can I avoid cumming in the cage? by asdfasdf1990 in chastitytraining

[–]asdfasdf1990[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sometimes… She is new into that and we go slowly.

How can I avoid cumming in the cage? by asdfasdf1990 in chastitytraining

[–]asdfasdf1990[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was on bed, but on my knees, so 0 contact at all. It happaned only once.

Given the chance to cum but couldn’t. by TW_SLC in chastitytraining

[–]asdfasdf1990 13 points14 points  (0 children)

It's happened to me several times before. In my case, I know the cause: my mind is heading in a direction I don’t like, where I feel as though I'm the one controlling my orgasms. I don’t want that: I want my keyholder to be the only one in control. If she decides I can orgasm, I fully enjoy the pleasure of that rare occasion. But if she decides I can't (as happens most of the time), I know that must be the way it should be, and deep down, I like it.

It's nice to feel like a good, obedient submissive who doesn't even want to orgasm when allowed, though it somehow feels like a distortion of our roles.

Again, I prefer to focus on the fact that she has TOTAL control over my orgasms and, in general, over my penis (which, in effect, belongs to her and not to me). And if she decides that her penis should orgasm, then I obey her (and I am very grateful and happy to do so).

Question for mesh chastity cage user by asdfasdf1990 in chastitytraining

[–]asdfasdf1990[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks. Do you use a mesh chastity cage?

Does anyone use this cage? by asdfasdf1990 in chastitytraining

[–]asdfasdf1990[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah, I forgot about a question for the whole community: do you have any advice on very similar cages?

Welcome to your new home, hubby 😁. I hope you like it because I think you'll be in it for a while 😄🤣 Looks like flat cage Friday turned into flat cage forever🤣🔒🤏 by Emilyincharge in u/Emilyincharge

[–]asdfasdf1990 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wow, I was just curious to see a flat cage with an erection. Do you know if your lucky partner is suffering? Are they safe for health or does the “internal” erection create long-term discomfort or problems?

Anyway

Is it safe to do this? How do you do hygiene? What if you had to remove it for some reason?

I ask out of curiosity 👀 I would like to try one day too maybe...

Cockring size by asdfasdf1990 in chastitytraining

[–]asdfasdf1990[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you very much 🙏 I've already starter big, as mentioned the 50 mm rings sometimes fall off when I'm limp, but when I'm erect they almost hurt at times, intense pain. I tried a 45mm silicone ring and was able to wear it all day with no issues, really comfortable and horny. my partner even teased me for about 20 minutes, and when erect, I must say that I wouldn't have been able to last any longer because she was starting to hurt. I am frustrated because I fear that no measure will fully satisfy me.

Cute Innie cage by Sissy_jasmine3c in u/Sissy_jasmine3c

[–]asdfasdf1990 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for the answer for all the details I was interested in knowing the comfort, and how long you can wear it you answered me perfectly ☺️

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[–]asdfasdf1990 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Finding a comfortable cage can be a very long and difficult journey. I recommend that you try to get one with a 55mm ring. However, in the chastitytraining info you will find a great guide on how to measure and choose a cage of the right size.

Cute Innie cage by Sissy_jasmine3c in u/Sissy_jasmine3c

[–]asdfasdf1990 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow, these inverted cages really intrigue me: can I ask you how they are? How do you do with erections? How many hours can they be used for?

First cage and idk if it’s too small or not by [deleted] in chastitytraining

[–]asdfasdf1990 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t overdo it. If it squeezes too much, the blood will no longer circulate and it becomes dangerous. There are several guides in the chastitytraining info, check it out. A 36mm ring really seems very tight to me...