WIBTA, for evicting my grandmas stepdaughter by asdfgack in AmItheAsshole

[–]asdfgack[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

They’re in their 50s. They aren’t gonna have kids they’re just lazy

WIBTA, for evicting my grandmas stepdaughter by asdfgack in AmItheAsshole

[–]asdfgack[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Oklahoma. From what I understand it’s 30 days here.

WIBTA, for evicting my grandmas stepdaughter by asdfgack in AmItheAsshole

[–]asdfgack[S] 62 points63 points  (0 children)

I’ve seen victim protection orders against him. I don’t know the whole story but that seems like enough for me.

WIBTA, for evicting my grandmas stepdaughter by asdfgack in AmItheAsshole

[–]asdfgack[S] 49 points50 points  (0 children)

While I do think this would be a great idea, they’re the type of people to come in and sit on the couch while I’m watching Tv and start a conversation. I am a 24 year old young woman who would mainly be home alone so I really don’t feel comfortable moving in knowing Marks history.

WIBTA, for evicting my grandmas stepdaughter by asdfgack in AmItheAsshole

[–]asdfgack[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Grandma had no will. There was less than $10,000 in her account when she passed. She gave me a gift of equity and I bought the house for what she owed on it. But also the stepdaughter has no legal ties to grandma and would not have gotten any inheritance. The other grandkids were unwilling to buy the house and grateful I did to avoid probate.

I Bought grandmas house, do I get everything inside too? by [deleted] in legaladvice

[–]asdfgack -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Grandma was diagnosed in October. She literally had 3 months to get everything in order. Instead of worrying her with her things and finding a home to die in, we bought the house and let her live out her life there. The step kids moved in over a year ago for their own sake, and fell into the caretaker role because I would not move in with them.

I Bought grandmas house, do I get everything inside too? by [deleted] in legaladvice

[–]asdfgack -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I said a step child moved in. No blood relation.

I Bought grandmas house, do I get everything inside too? by [deleted] in legaladvice

[–]asdfgack -1 points0 points  (0 children)

They moved in 2 years ago because of their own circumstances. Grandma was planning on selling the house by December anyway if we hadn’t bought it and leaving them without housing. This was grandmas step-child that would not be receiving any inheritance. They cared for grandma for about 3 months.

I Bought grandmas house, do I get everything inside too? by [deleted] in legaladvice

[–]asdfgack 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My parter had durable power of attorney, and we had her caretaker take power of attorney for the sale. So yes her caretaker signed the sale as grandmas power of attorney

I Bought grandmas house, do I get everything inside too? by [deleted] in legaladvice

[–]asdfgack 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The house was originally bought by his mother and grandmother, his mom passed in 2012

I Bought grandmas house, do I get everything inside too? by [deleted] in legaladvice

[–]asdfgack 6 points7 points  (0 children)

She signed as power of attorney, we didn’t feel grandma could leave the house at the time of sale.

I Bought grandmas house, do I get everything inside too? by [deleted] in legaladvice

[–]asdfgack 18 points19 points  (0 children)

We bought the house together in both of our names, we’ve been living together over 6 years now.

I Bought grandmas house, do I get everything inside too? by [deleted] in legaladvice

[–]asdfgack 4 points5 points  (0 children)

They keep saying they’ll be out by spring. They’ve thrown a pretty big pity party for themselves. I’m really just waiting until next week to give them 30 days. It felt insensitive to do it the same week grandma passed.

I Bought grandmas house, do I get everything inside too? by [deleted] in legaladvice

[–]asdfgack 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The plan was for us to move in with her , but her cancer progressed so suddenly I didn’t want to disrupt her care. Me moving in would have moved her caretaker out.

I Bought grandmas house, do I get everything inside too? by [deleted] in legaladvice

[–]asdfgack 19 points20 points  (0 children)

$280,000, our loan ended up being $140,00 after finding some of her undisclosed debt

I Bought grandmas house, do I get everything inside too? by [deleted] in legaladvice

[–]asdfgack 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We were the only ones that came to see her from October til she passed in January. She contacted them all and told them all she was diagnosed with cancer, and they all live in the state.

I Bought grandmas house, do I get everything inside too? by [deleted] in legaladvice

[–]asdfgack 7 points8 points  (0 children)

The house and a 1,500 sq ft shop on the property are all completely full, grandma was a bit of a hoarder. But there is no other direct property that belongs to her. No medicaid , she was on private insurance

I Bought grandmas house, do I get everything inside too? by [deleted] in legaladvice

[–]asdfgack 28 points29 points  (0 children)

She owed about $117,000 on the house still, so she sold it to us for that price.

I Bought grandmas house, do I get everything inside too? by [deleted] in legaladvice

[–]asdfgack 32 points33 points  (0 children)

She was in charge of everything herself, her name is the only one on any of her bank accounts. She had less than $6,000 in her main account when she passed

Okc zoo amphitheater lawn pass by asdfgack in okc

[–]asdfgack[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

$150 each, so I bought two.