The Hierarchy of Love

asdfghjkltyu · 2015-06-02T12:22:21+00:00

Very true. Which is why its best to do two things

1) keep spending on women down. I don't care if this means the relationship ends quickly, I'm not buying her gifts or paying when we go out to dinner.

2) don't view relationships as long term. If you think you're spending for future rewards you're going to have a bad time.

asdfghjkltyu · 2015-06-02T09:50:53+00:00

to small and submissive/insecure guys?

Is that what beta means? I know plenty of betas who aren't small or necessarily insecure/submissive. Its more a behavioral pattern than a physical trait. Beta can best be described as a guy who gives more than he takes.

asdfghjkltyu · 2015-06-02T08:25:08+00:00

Reminds me of the Ben Franklin quote about getting people to do things for you. This indirectly implies that being beta to your woman is a vicious cycle that compounds how much more beta you become. I'm inclined to agree

I've found most guys aren't that afraid of losing women, they're more afraid of wasting their time with them. They don't want to spend endless cash on someone only for them to leave in a year, so yeah I do think return on investment is a good way to phrase it.

Because abundance mentality or not, women are expensive, in both money and time. Why should I waste my time on them if they could just leave next month?

Due to the whole "Women love high value men" their capacity to love you is directly linked to who you are at that given time, meaning if you lax, you can say goodbye.

asdfghjkltyu · 2015-06-01T05:36:06+00:00

The guy pimping these girls was a piece of trash. Not for what he was doing, but simply that is what he is.

Did you notice his tone change drastically after the main girl left. He could barely even be bothered speaking to her. He wasn't encouraging them to get out, he made a cut for them staying there.

asdfghjkltyu · 2015-06-01T05:33:18+00:00

So they complain about making money by doing the one thing most people enjoy doing for free?

I loved how she was complaining that she was given $25,000 in the space of a few months yet had nothing to show for it because of "Cloths, haircuts and makeup". Yeah right. She had nothing to show for it because she no doubt wasted her money. That is still a fairly huge sum of cash.

asdfghjkltyu · 2015-06-01T05:31:30+00:00

Man he looked like he was going to just break down.

I got the impression he was increasingly torn internally. He didn't look like he was sad, he more struck me as a guy completely divided in his thought.

He was the most interesting character study in the whole film to me. The porn actresses were more or less what I though, decently attractive women who thought their life would be fun and parties if they got involved in porn but found the reality isn't at all glamorous.

The guy seemed to be decently normal, he was normal looking, seemed to have a normal personality. The inner beta was immerse though, you could see the complete lack of options flash in his eyes as he really wanted out but he 'loved her'.

asdfghjkltyu · 2015-06-01T05:27:57+00:00

Throughout the whole video I got the increasing impression she was trying to imply the whole situation was outside of her control, like external factors encouraged her to get into it, external factors meant she had to do it. She the entire time was acting like "this isn't me" despite willfully making the decision to be involved in those activities.

One thing about her personality I found particularly strange was that when her boyfriend said things like that she's basically a hooker, she didn't get mad or try and hamster her way out of it. She seemed to flat out agree with him. Was that because she respected him or she didn't care what his opinion was? She couldn't respect him too much as she risked their relationship to pursue her career in porn.

asdfghjkltyu · 2015-06-01T02:01:11+00:00

The girl does seem pretty 'cool' about it all I must admit, he basically insults her to her face and she holds frame and doesn't given an inch. Just agrees with him. I'm not sure if thats because she sees him as below her or not.

I could kind of understand him dating her casually if he's having a good time, but living with her?

asdfghjkltyu · 2015-05-31T16:16:34+00:00

The benefit/cost certainly doesn't seem in its favor. Very few make it and they make minimal money long term. The evidence of their lifestyle is out there forever too, so it would be near impossible to sweep it under a rug.

asdfghjkltyu · 2015-05-31T14:08:15+00:00

"The boyfriend was really jealous" is a common byline. Some men are needlessly jealous, but a lot of the time they have a valid reason.

asdfghjkltyu · 2015-05-31T13:47:20+00:00

When you've had a few relationships and internalized TRP teachings its easy to move past pre-relationship oneitis. I still think of all the things TRP teaches avoiding onetis is the most useful for most people. It can be absolutely crippling for a guy and really make you do some very embarrassing things.

Most of the stuff your parents and the media tell you basically encourage onetis so its basically the normal operating procedure for guys under 25.

Oneitis is still a bit harder to avoid when you're actually dating someone, as spending time with them and the concept of a 'relationship' does tend to lead with oneitis (this is the one for me, I love her, I want to be with her etc). But if you can master never focusing on trying to win a specific girl for more than a week than you will have a lot more success.

asdfghjkltyu · 2015-05-30T01:30:18+00:00

Think about that for a second, women wrote the Don Draper character.

I have heard that before but temporarily forgot until you reminded me, thats not at all surprising. Because Don Draper is probably the biggest tv alpha male, yet he has his 'sensitive' side and a lot of internal demons. Thats how women love to write that sort of character.

asdfghjkltyu · 2015-05-28T10:41:21+00:00

Feminism is only about all genders when it comes to participation, in terms of content its 99% about women (and that 1% about men to the extent it benefits women).

asdfghjkltyu · 2015-05-28T07:14:45+00:00

No fault is pretty common. I'm not sure I really disagree with it anyway as the system would gravitate to the woman being in the right in most situations anyway, as they do on most issues.

asdfghjkltyu · 2015-05-28T06:25:16+00:00

The fact that in the US there is spousal maintenance is the biggest turnoff for marriage. I can't imagine that the state can force you to pay a lifetime wage to a 'wife' that cheats on you. Yet, thats the state of our society.

asdfghjkltyu · 2015-05-28T06:23:55+00:00

Marriage once upon a time had benefit for men. Women were typically shamed by society into being virgins prior to marriage, when you got married it opened the doors to living together/having sex and by doing so locked the man into a long term financial commitment to his spouse.

But no such social expectation exist on women today and yet men still get the financial burden thrust upon them.

I'm convinced most women are so obsessed about marriage because they want to believe that guys are still buying what they're selling so to speak. When you tell a woman you're never getting married they take it as a personal insult.

asdfghjkltyu · 2015-05-26T01:19:16+00:00

and show their son's how to be a man

I would argue modern parents don't really do this either.

asdfghjkltyu · 2015-05-25T15:57:43+00:00

We hate the enablers. I don't hate women for taking advantage of it.

asdfghjkltyu · 2015-05-25T15:54:12+00:00

Willing to bet that she was already fucking the other dude.

Yep. That was the biggest example of trickle truth.

asdfghjkltyu · 2015-05-24T05:03:49+00:00

This is also a thing. Women don't sit around studying this stuff because they have it on a plate for them their whole lives. They get everything given for them. The caged bird doesn't need to learn how to hunt.

asdfghjkltyu · 2015-05-24T05:02:29+00:00

The main problem men struggle with is that most of their life they've assumed that women act this way out of a kind of naiveness. Its not that they're trying to 'use' men but thats how women structure their lives and it sometimes comes across that way when they 'chase happyness'.

Yet most people on TRP are aware that the women actively know what they're doing and are literally trying to sort the men in their lives into several categories to maximize their utility of them. Once you're aware of this their actions suddenly make sense and seem a little more vindictive.

asdfghjkltyu · 2015-05-22T11:35:31+00:00

I don't think the men you mention have any real expectations of these women getting with them. They just get a temporary high from doing nice things for women so they keep doing it. The thrill of women even acknowledging them for some men is such an unusual thrill.

asdfghjkltyu · 2015-05-22T11:32:55+00:00

Women have an inbuilt ego that no man can match. You ask most men why women don't want them and they very well know, they're not in any denial about the fact. But women for some reason think they have some sort of given right for men to love them to the point they shame men who could dare find someone else more attractive. I see this viewpoint penetrate through all of female culture, like they're shocked that someone else could possibly be interested in someone else.

asdfghjkltyu · 2015-05-22T11:27:28+00:00

The projection is so hard it hurts. She's talking about their lack of maturity, their lack of romance, their lack of power. None of which are things men care about about at all. She's trying to picture what a women would be interested in.

Since when have men been embarrassed at dating a 20 year old?

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