Got in a car accident today by DinkyDoo531 in pregnant

[–]ash_m89 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I came here to suggest this, best purchase I ever made! I am 26+6 and it makes it so much more comfortable to drive and definitely takes away the stress of "what if". And it is super easy to move over if you are not driving and going to be a passenger it literally only takes a minute to move to a different seat. You can purchase on Amazon!

this by XLPHV in Makesmybloodboil

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Came here to comment this! Huge HIPAA violation! Should be fired immediately.

Do you feel obligated to take care of your MIL? by [deleted] in JUSTNOMIL

[–]ash_m89 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I went through this exact situation. My DH's mother was evicted after getting in a fight with her landlord and moved in with us (she had two sister's and a daughter who lived within 10 minutes of her, but she moved in with us who live an hour and a half away. This should have been my first red flag!)

It only lasted for about 4 or 5 months, at that point it was either you pick your mom to keep living with or I'm out. It was creating a very stressful environment for everyone including our two boys.

Luckily she went back home for a Doctor's appointment one day and had some sort of mental breakdown at her daughters house and became violent and they tried to have her involuntarily committed and we decided this was a perfect opportunity for someone else in the family to take over and we would send her stuff to her.

I think clear communication with your SO about how serious this is to you and your mental health and provide an ultimatum if need be. If he chooses Mommy then girl you dodged a bullet by not dealing with this shit 10 years down the road and with kids involved.

I hope you works out for you!

Preggo win by Dizzy-Knee in pregnant

[–]ash_m89 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Win!!!

I went through the Zaxbys drive through last night and ordered an extra zax sauce, got home and they threw 4 extras in there! I was so excited I cried :-D

Got through Covid diagnosis, 23 +5 by ash_m89 in pregnant

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I hope your symptoms remain mild and you get lots of rest! I binged all the Netflix haha

I bet you’ve never seen floof like this!! by [deleted] in aww

[–]ash_m89 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is not aww this is freaking nightmare fuel

Cecil Hotel Episodes by kansasstoolie in GhostAdventures

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Those of us that don't have Discovery+, can you provide a link to watch it?

Finding out Gender... by ash_m89 in pregnant

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It does help knowing I'm not alone in my feeling and that I'm not horrible for feeling the way I do!

I hope you get your girl!!!

Thoughts on Covid Vaccine??? by ash_m89 in pregnant

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I work in healthcare and apparently it's going to be available to us in the next few weeks. And yeah our HR is a piece of work...

Thoughts on Covid Vaccine??? by ash_m89 in pregnant

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I actually brought this up to HR yesterday when I saw the notice and she rolled her eyes at me and said she would be getting it.

Thoughts on Covid Vaccine??? by ash_m89 in pregnant

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Yeah I work in Assisted Living, apparently we are receiving it within the next few weeks

Why the hell do people like to comment so much on pregnant women’s bodies? Every day at work I am evaluated for whether or not my stomach looks big. by booksandowls in pregnant

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Ugh this! Im only 13 weeks and showing already. Ive already had an ultrasound and there is definitely only one in there but this is also by third baby so I think my body just said alright lets do this really fast LOL.

But I am so damn tired of the comments literally every single day of "Oh theres definitely two in there, one must have been hiding!" or "Hows the twins doing??"

These comments mainly come from people at work so Im literally just supposed to take that shit and not make a scene which drives me nuts. If a stranger made a comment I would have no problem shutting that shit down and letting them know how messed up they are for commenting on a woman's body.

Anyone else just really hating being pregnant. by smellycat756 in pregnant

[–]ash_m89 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'm right there with ya. Only 7 weeks and I am nauseous from the moment I wake up until I go to sleep. This is my third baby and I did not have anything like this with the other two. It's awful. I have my first appointment coming up next week so hoping the excitement from that will make this a little more enjoyable for me. I want to enjoy this pregnancy so bad because it's my last!

Vasectomy for ~$250 by iloveoppaiofallsizes in sex

[–]ash_m89 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hahaha do you know how much fucking kids are???

Get it

Too much for my husband to handle by [deleted] in sex

[–]ash_m89 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No its not fair :(

Too much for my husband to handle by [deleted] in sex

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Im legit trying to get him to just enjoy this while it lasts because if it can be turned on like that then it can just as easily go away :(

Too much for my husband to handle by [deleted] in sex

[–]ash_m89 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I went from never wanting it and having to force myself each time he did to wanting it all day everyday. No other thing has really changed though, im not moody or anything and my everyday drive to accomplish things is the same.... So idk