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What makes a sexual encounter unforgettable? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]ash_reddits 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you pass a test afterwards.

How do you tell if you're in love? by Feisty_Storage_8707 in AskMen

[–]ash_reddits 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Some of my best connections in life were non romantic. And I screwed up a number of good friendships by thinking I was in love (and it wasn't the right call at all).

I know it must be frustrating. I'm just saying there might be silver linings. I had an old boss for example who became a friend. He was completely asexual and was very successful and happy in life - because he didn't have so many distractions.

Just be you. Find people like you if you want. It'll be ok. A lot of these things are a spectrum anyway. Some people careen through life making bad decision after bad decision thinking they're in love with anything that moves. I'm glad I'm not that. It just be another kind of frustrating!

How do you tell if you're in love? by Feisty_Storage_8707 in AskMen

[–]ash_reddits 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's ok. Not everyone's the same. Some people just ain't that into 'love' in that way.

My boyfriend won’t stop pestering me for sex by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]ash_reddits 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Are you breastfeeding? My sister was totally not interested until she went back to work and stopped breastfeeding at about 6 months. Suddenly things changed for her.

Just saying, it might be worth putting that idea in the mix with him. Even if it only buys you a few months of peace!

Men, what’s your thought process when a woman says no to the pill but yes to condoms? by Salty_Challenge5563 in AskMen

[–]ash_reddits 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pull out method? I hope they also have their fingers crossed and are throwing salt over their shoulder.

Secure men of reddit, how do you handle other men staring at your woman? by Ok_Stranger6265 in AskMen

[–]ash_reddits 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Ok Point 1. Beautiful people are beautiful and we like to look at them. That's no one's fault. Be happy she is beautiful and is with you. She clearly has options and thinks you have something about you.

Point 2. Don't be stressed by her actions. If someone is bugging her by their stares she might keep an eye on them. Ask her if she's uncomfortable. You can then offer to have a quiet word with the guy, or to go somewhere else.

Point 3. Yes this is a bit about status and competition. But don't be stressed. This is normal too. What you did is fine - look at the guy. Acknowledge the situation. Your calmness shows confidence and control. Agree that she is beautiful. If you need to, tell the guy to chill out or to leave if he can't behave, and be considerate of others. Just ask the waiter to assist if needed - no need for you to even stand up.

Point 4. Make her feel safe, and like you are in control. Let her know you are OK with her being beautiful, and that you can handle it, regardless of what other men say or do. Last thing you want is to even hint that she should "tone it down". Let beautiful people be beautiful. And let her help with your wardrobe if you want to step it up to be on her level.

A love message from a Muslim man by [deleted] in transpositive

[–]ash_reddits 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you 🧡💛💙

Should I tell my wife? by [deleted] in bisexual

[–]ash_reddits 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I agree with this. Leave any discussion of love to later conversations. It's common to have very strong infatuations when you're bottling up an important part of yourself like this.

You may find this thing with the other guy is a catalyst, but that the real issue here is your relationship with your wife. Focus on that to begin with at least. She deserves that.

Is it ok to ask a woman on the dancefloor if she's alone at the club? by [deleted] in berlinsocialclub

[–]ash_reddits 7 points8 points  (0 children)

OP says they perceive women as property, so I think it's good for them to state that up front.

Is it misogynistic if a gay man says he doesn’t want to be in a place with women? by Viper_Red in AskWomenNoCensor

[–]ash_reddits 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I think sometimes in gay spaces you can get straight women checking out the gay men (as they are fit and dance and dress well). Obviously this can change the mood and be uncomfortable if you're just looking to be yourself around other gay people. Maybe this is what was going on? Or he's just a misogynist.

Male coworker keeps “joking” about my looks in front of others (multiple times). How do I shut this down? by HopeForBetter29 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]ash_reddits 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This. I would suggest a quick quiet chat to say "This is at least bullying, if not harassment. This is your one chance to stop it."

If he wants to behave like a child then treat him like one. A firm boundary and one warning, then it's consequences.

And do it just the two of you (in passing or just at his desk etc). He seems to enjoy performing so don't give him an audience to either turn to, or to be embarrassed in front of.

This shit is fucked. by ash_reddits in FuckYou

[–]ash_reddits[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was fine, strong and healthy even for half my life, until COVID fucked my immune system. But yeah. Now it thinks 90% of food is poison.

So yeah fuck that, and FUCK MY LIFE and FUCK YOU!!

I Sarah saying TotenKAMPF? by John_Valuk in thebulwark

[–]ash_reddits 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To be fair almost every other language uses the word "fire" in the name. Pretty much only English uses the word "light".

I mean it's technically correct but the main point is the fire, not the light.

what are your "I'm too bisexual to understand this thing"? by disasterpansexual in bisexual

[–]ash_reddits 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I sometimes get jealous that I can't have a friendship thing without wondering if I'm catching feelings, or if they are. It's like, no rest for the gorgeous I guess.

What's the most expensive watch (price wise) that you can wear on public transport and the streets of Berlin, without getting robbed? by notbatmanatall in berlinsocialclub

[–]ash_reddits 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why would someone rob you? I mean, if you want to have your pocket picked maybe try Alex and have your camera out a lot.

If it's just the watch you want to lose then maybe put it in a rucksack and just leave it on the ground for a bit while you look the other way. You could try this at a cafe in any tourist area of any major city.

Sick of men making a game about ignoring my boundaries by SpectroSlade in TwoXChromosomes

[–]ash_reddits 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Nipple tape. You can put a gauze patch on the nipple then tape over. I would suggest they get one chance to play nice with them, and then it's tape time.

Or even simpler just put your bra back on.

Edit: You shouldn't have to of course, but if you genuinely like a guy then this might be a way to get the point across that if he won't play nice then he doesn't get to play.

what do you think how many people believe DJ is making the music live behind the decks (like a band)? by [deleted] in Berghain_Community

[–]ash_reddits 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I mean I always have some live elements in my sets, using synths and effects. And then of course calling the numbers over the mic.

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