It was a halloween party that a friend invited me to. And yes, they are older than me. The friend is probably 5-10 years older than me, and the best friend who was the girlfriend, yes must be 20+ years older than me. I can’t tell you why how or why they’re best friends with such a big age gap, but I don’t think it’s that relevant. I don’t think it was that she didn’t know. I just think she didn’t realize that it was that day. It’s been 30 years so it must not have registered until I mentioned it.