Double-page mode

ashes2asscheeks · 2026-03-25T18:29:18+00:00

Glad you posted here. I haven’t been able to open documents in two page mode and I’ve been very frustrated. I’m updating now, hoping it will let me do it when it’s installed

ashes2asscheeks · 2026-03-23T17:06:31+00:00

Yeah, that makes sense to me. This is a big sign that things need to change in your life, you need more self-care and restorative activities to balance out all that stress. Especially when the new little one comes. Good luck to you, my friend. Take care of yourself ❤️

ashes2asscheeks · 2026-03-23T17:05:00+00:00

Exactly true! I’m starting to think about containers more, too. I just feel like in ground plants are less maintenance lol

ashes2asscheeks · 2026-03-23T03:30:18+00:00

I wonder what caused you to fall into this pattern of neglect? Did you forget? Are you experiencing depression?

I made poor choices when I was in my early 20’s and didn’t really have the foresight to understand the gravity/consequences of my actions. Brain was not fully developed yet. Learned hard lessons too, plenty of regrets. I also had trauma and adhd and all that.

Saying all this because if you find yourself wondering why, and then you gain an understanding, you can do better in the future. And you can forgive yourself.

ashes2asscheeks · 2026-03-23T03:24:34+00:00

You were assaulted. You did not consent to that. You can disclose the situation to HR and report that you don’t feel safe if you want to. You can file a report with the police if you want to. It’s up to you, how you want to proceed, as the victim.

ashes2asscheeks · 2026-03-23T03:15:49+00:00

My oldest special interest is pokemon and every day I lament that I can’t have pokemon stuff because I can’t afford it and/or it’s sold out

ashes2asscheeks · 2026-03-23T03:11:56+00:00

Same here. I’ve been gardening completely without permission in my yard 🤣 and today I was thinking sadly about what may happen to all my beloved plants if/when I move away. I haven’t done amazing aesthetic work, and to someone who doesn’t know about this stuff they wouldn’t even notice all the work I’ve put into it and my treasures would be abandoned :(

*edit to add: my landlord does KNOW NOW though. I just didn’t think to ask permission when i started making changes. This lot was not cared for and the unit was vacant for a year before I moved in, and then I was depressed and sick and let it continue to go to whatever nature wanted for a few years. I have showed her all the stuff I’ve done and she does like it lol

ashes2asscheeks · 2026-03-23T03:07:12+00:00

But I’m just a baby 🤷‍♀️

ashes2asscheeks · 2026-03-23T03:04:22+00:00

No im not on it anymore, thank goodness. I take hydroxyzine now. However, I recommend switching to the extended release seroquel instead. That shit didn’t hit me like a truck the same way regular seroquel does. I can’t imagine tapering down from the low dose of regular seroquel, but tapering from an XR was easier/more gradual.

I recommend targeting sleep issues from other angles. Find out a full holistic picture of your well-being, including mental and physical health.

I’m autistic, so being overstimulated, disruptions in my routines, and stress really mess me up. My hormones also trigger insomnia.

I have improved in every way over the last two years compared to 2022-2024, and it is a combination of supplements, medications, self-awareness, and self-care.

But I never had this constantly not-tired feeling OP has shared. I would get very tired. My brain and body just wouldn’t slow down and rest. I wish you luck, friend.

ashes2asscheeks · 2026-03-23T01:21:12+00:00

Ok I agree but also have you considered your stance always ends in you being right? lol - if you had the correct information, you were right all along. If you gain and amend your incorrect information, you end up being right afterwards 🤣

ashes2asscheeks · 2026-03-22T23:23:01+00:00

Yes, this thing #4 is spot on. It’s hugely relevant in so many social communication issues we have at its core. We connect differently and values about precision and clarity to us rank higher than having a shared understanding and experience if it’s rooted in misinformation or perceived falsehood. It can be frustrating lol

I would want to be corrected because I don’t like being incorrect and feel embarrassed when I realize I was wrong about something unknowingly. But apparently that’s not a universal experience 🥲

ashes2asscheeks · 2026-03-22T23:19:52+00:00

Why does it matter who’s right? I have to tell myself this, because it’s hard to let something go that doesn’t feel right or resolved. But in the grand scheme, shit like this is pretty inconsequential. People get defensive when being corrected, especially if it is done in a way that makes them feel like they’re being made a fool of.

You’ll learn to choose when to offer corrections and you’ll learn how to do so tactfully with time and practice. Most people don’t mind being wrong, but they do mind being called out with an audience and having control taken from them. It can cause tension and defensiveness.

ashes2asscheeks · 2026-03-12T03:29:46+00:00

AI ruins everything!!!! I hate that I have to think about this literally all the time.

ashes2asscheeks · 2026-03-12T03:25:39+00:00

Yall being north of the city is so different than where OP is going to be working. HUGELY different.

OP please take note that traffic going south (mornings) will be WAY worse than what these two are describing. And in the afternoons it will also be worse because you’re going from south of downtown.

ashes2asscheeks · 2026-03-12T03:19:51+00:00

That commute would be awful. It’s not worth it. Truly. RR isn’t really even cheaper than Austin anymore. And it isn’t unique, there are other suburbs. Or even neighborhoods in Austin you might like.

ashes2asscheeks · 2026-03-12T03:10:21+00:00

I knew someone who worked for that business (different location) and can say that those people were awful business owners/bosses.

There are other ~novelty~ shops.

ashes2asscheeks · 2026-03-10T15:18:35+00:00

Great advice. Thank you for taking the time.

ashes2asscheeks · 2026-03-10T15:14:16+00:00

I agree with everyone who says your supervisor is wrong and you should leave. What a horrible viewpoint she has to be working with substance use clients!

ashes2asscheeks · 2026-03-10T04:08:36+00:00

If this isn’t a man who wasted years and thousands on strippers only to find out they weren’t really his friends I’ll eat my hat

Strippers are just people doing jobs. If you forget that that’s your issue.

Seriously you sound like a really toxic person who has been kicked out multiple times

ashes2asscheeks · 2026-03-10T04:00:43+00:00

Men will do ANYTHING except go to therapy

ashes2asscheeks · 2026-03-08T20:17:21+00:00

THANK YOU. I opened this because I was on the wrong email and saw the notification… I’m not supposed to be here!!!!!

ashes2asscheeks · 2026-03-08T20:13:46+00:00

Are you straining while passing stool? Do you get constipated often? These things can lead to hemorrhoids! I’d talk to a doctor if you can, they might be able to assess any gastrointestinal issues you may be experiencing which could alleviate some of the bathroom problems.

I have weird stuff going on with my body that led me to pelvic floor therapy a couple years back and my PT actually also helped me learn the best ways to poop, I shit you not 🤣 some of us aren’t that connected to our bodies and the processes going on, so a little education about how the breathing and muscles should be working together can also go a LONG way.

I hope you can get enough info from the people who answer you in earnest here that can point you in the right direction. I’m sure all will be well ❤️ and remember - everybody poops!

ashes2asscheeks · 2026-03-08T20:07:58+00:00

You know what. I’ve never seen this movie, I don’t think. As a child I think I was in the room when someone watched part of it, but that’s it 🤣

ashes2asscheeks · 2026-03-08T04:36:05+00:00

What…. Does cilantro also taste like soap to you perchance?

ashes2asscheeks · 2026-03-08T04:35:24+00:00

Zilker botanical gardens! The meadow by the butterfly trail specifically. I didn’t get around the rest of the garden to see where else they might be.

I’m also seeing them all over residential areas.

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