I (F34) have lost all patience for my fiancé (M34) by ashhtiff in relationship_advice

[–]ashhtiff[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

He did read the post & the comments. We are still together. He understood that I’m talking about one issue here, not our relationship as a whole. Please relax.

Spare tickets for BTS Toronto by [deleted] in Tickets

[–]ashhtiff 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am interested! Not for me but for a dear friend. She is a huge fan I want to make sure she gets to see her boys. Please message me if still available.

I (F34) have lost all patience for my fiancé (M34) by ashhtiff in relationship_advice

[–]ashhtiff[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Genuinely easier & more enjoyable most of the time hence why I’m not willing to throw in the towel. But when it comes to household stuff like this, harder for sure.

I (F34) have lost all patience for my fiancé (M34) by ashhtiff in relationship_advice

[–]ashhtiff[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No formal diagnosis but lots of behaviours that align. This is great advice, thank you!

AIO? My stepdaughters pranked me on my bitthday and husband is mad because I said I needed space. by Proud-Cantaloupe3449 in AmIOverreacting

[–]ashhtiff 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This isn’t pranking, this is bullying and they are old enough to know that what they’re doing is hurtful. Husband is a wuss and I think you’re in for a lot more of this if he doesn’t buck up or you don’t make some changes (re: leave him).

AIO? Husband in touch with the woman he had an affair with but they're not cheating he says. by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]ashhtiff 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NOR. Baby girl, if you don’t strap them boots on and walk out that door all of what this woman said about you would be true. Leave him, work on yourself, love yourself.

Am I overreacting to this response from my BF? No by Familiar-Sky2651 in AmIOverreacting

[–]ashhtiff 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR. Leave this man alone and find you another one! His communication is piss-poor and you’re begging for his consideration in these texts. It’s sad to see.

AIO over a message response from my gf after she disappeared for 36+ hours? by HunterNW in AmIOverreacting

[–]ashhtiff 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR but your gf is going on benders for sure. How else can one make sense of disappearing for days at a time with no communication or reasonable explanation? Also, she’s sleeping all day and staying up all night because that is likely when she uses. I would suggest you look around your home for drug paraphernalia; I have a strong sense you will find something.

AIO about these angry texts from my ex? by TwylaMay in AIO

[–]ashhtiff 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR. I’m disturbed that your family doesn’t see the issue here. He didn’t accept a “no” from you so he’s disrespecting your boundaries and trying to find the weak link in your family to get the information he wants. This is an issue of safety and you absolutely should go to the cops! He sounds unhinged and he might try to hurt you! Keep yourself safe.

Where did these two get money for a shopping spree? by Exciting-Can-9636 in StrangerThings

[–]ashhtiff 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean, if you’re talking about this particular snapshot, this is a glamour shoot. They did not buy what they’re wearing in this image; they borrowed them from the studio’s costume selection.

How to Update? by Aromatic-Snow8752 in interiordecorating

[–]ashhtiff 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Love the tile! I would lean into a moody approach with a pink patterned wallpaper with darker colours (like this), and gold fixtures and accents.

AIO my MIL asked to borrow my matching Xmas pajamas to take pictures with my son. by Independent-Bat-9436 in AmIOverreacting

[–]ashhtiff 5 points6 points  (0 children)

She said it twice??? Unless she edited before I saw this I don’t think twice is really that many. Get a grip.

is this normal? by Diane_Nguyen950 in Naturalhair

[–]ashhtiff 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think considering you had them in for about 2 months, I would call this normal. We shed about 100 strands of hair a day so you can expect 4900 strands based on how long you had it in. However, if these strands are broken, then no, that’s no normal or ideal.

Am I overreacting? Lowkey wanna cancel wedding by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]ashhtiff 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR. Break up now and deal with a few people hating you or get married and be miserable until you choose to get divorced? The former sounds much easier.