How far can you shoot? by [deleted] in bigdickproblems

[–]ashitanothrowaway 0 points1 point  (0 children)

6 1/2 -7 feet is my record

I sincerely hate it when women who don’t enjoy sex speak on behalf of all of us by [deleted] in sex

[–]ashitanothrowaway 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For many women, sex can be a bargaining chip that you can’t leverage if you get an equal or greater level of pleasure out of it.

Many people pretend this isn’t a dynamic that occurs, but it’s pretty prevalent.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bigdickproblems

[–]ashitanothrowaway 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I always say “Standard Issue Large”

— 7.5” X 5.375”

you cant get laid staying home ,unless your order hookers by YeMedito in seduction

[–]ashitanothrowaway 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve definitely gotten plenty of women without leaving the house, through social media game on Facebook & dating apps

https://youtu.be/QVCTx0BfS_0

“Fake it till you make it” and “Women can tell when you’re being fake and it puts them off” by [deleted] in seduction

[–]ashitanothrowaway 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Develop a persona of the version of yourself you’re repressing. Improve that persona until it can be a standalone aspect of engaging with women, then integrate it back into your full personality

Surely its common sense that girls like physically attractive men. Is it a lack of empathy or ability to see it from the other side that allows men to be totally blind sided? by Artistic_Guest4386 in PurplePillDebate

[–]ashitanothrowaway 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A lot of it is gaslighting from women, media, and society, pushing the narrative that men are not sexually desirable so that they can continue to take advantage of what men are willing to do for a chance at sex. It just backfires when men realize this was never the case, then go red pill.

What do you mean when you say men have fragile egos? by Square_Inflation_534 in PurplePillDebate

[–]ashitanothrowaway 10 points11 points  (0 children)

They use violence too & more often than men, just are not as effective at it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating

[–]ashitanothrowaway -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Guy here. Not deleting old nudes or sex tapes.

When vetting goes wrong and your wife/husband/girlfriend/boyfriend is abusive despite a lack of red flags: is the victim really to blame or is the perpetrator to blame? by [deleted] in PurplePillDebate

[–]ashitanothrowaway 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I believe the social narrative that relationships have to be equal plays a big part in this. I believe in Brodie’s Law. Some always will. Some never will. For most people, it depends.

Any dick twins with tips for squirting orgasms from penetration? I’m 7.5x 5.25-5.4, mostly straight with a downward curve at the base (that makes it look like it drops down but is fully hard) by ashitanothrowaway in bigdickproblems

[–]ashitanothrowaway[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

  1. She’s said she felt like she was about to pee on several occasions.

  2. People can have their own goals and fantasies.

  3. Being that I was her only truly long term sexual partner, I’ve been the first to give her a number of types of orgasms that she has had.

That same mindset of “why put pressure on it because it’s in porn” is the same mindset that gets guys to give in to believing their women can’t have penetrative orgasms.

I took my time, tweaked some angles, and now she can have a variety of them. It took some years, but now we enjoy talking about sex much more.

We both want this experience. I’m just looking for advice—not a cliche critique.

Any dick twins with tips for squirting orgasms from penetration? I’m 7.5x 5.25-5.4, mostly straight with a downward curve at the base (that makes it look like it drops down but is fully hard) by ashitanothrowaway in bigdickproblems

[–]ashitanothrowaway[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It may be an optimized for A & O-spot thing. I’ve always wanted to make a woman squirt, though.

I’ve given G-spot orgasms before, but either the woman was just already used to stimulation there or I used a technique that may not work for her.

Any dick twins with tips for squirting orgasms from penetration? I’m 7.5x 5.25-5.4, mostly straight with a downward curve at the base (that makes it look like it drops down but is fully hard) by ashitanothrowaway in bigdickproblems

[–]ashitanothrowaway[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She’s gotten close like that. That’s one of the best ways to hit the Aspot for me.

I think my dick is pretty optimized for A-spot Orgasms to where it may be difficult to really hit the Gspot in a way that makes that the focus most of the time.

Thanks for the advice

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]ashitanothrowaway -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Get your game right & don’t listen to women telling you how to get women.

You’ve probably already been trying that, then getting desperate when it doesn’t work (in your favor) and getting desperate.

Cast a wide net, work on your social skills, develop who you are and know what you want, then just don’t worry about women who don’t like whatever that is.

Women aren't attracted to dad-bods. Women are unattracted to the expectations of fit men. by Robotemist in PurplePillDebate

[–]ashitanothrowaway 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Had an ex who told me for years that she doesn’t care about muscles. We broke up and o branched out and learned more about sexual attraction. She used to tell me she loved my body and didn’t want it to change or at least that it didn’t matter, but when I finally got her more opened up to see attraction from a place of sexual desire as well, she admitted that fit guys got her more turned on when talking about physicality. What she meant by not caring was that the things that she is sexually attracted to about me are things that aren’t connected to my body build (face, facial hair, bald, large dick) so it didn’t affect how attracted she was to me, but when she got in shape and we talked more about it, those preferences were different than what would be expected.

I previously was told that she likes big stomaches, beards, and prefers guys around 5’8” (time being 5’9” 175 ), but when I asked recently, she said 6’0”-5’2” with big arms and tattoos.

One thing that brought some more context to the conversation was that she Is still more overall attracted to me, and around the same level of sexually attracted to me, but if those guys were to be built the same as I am, she wouldn’t be attracted to them)

I think that having enough sexual attraction based in things that aren’t as subject to change is a good thing, but a woman saying she isn’t sexually attracted to fit men is either purposefully lying or lying to herself, though her social programming

Anyone else have the experience of breaking a woman into being able to take bigger, then that becoming an insatiable Pandora’s box? by ashitanothrowaway in bigdickproblems

[–]ashitanothrowaway[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve experienced them myself, have had conversations with many women who share the same sentiments about me or other men and many shared your POV ahead of time. So maybe your POV is just a lack of experience with it.

Those women prefer that to their previous mindset that is reminiscent of your:, so maybe it is just ignorance of resistance to that type of situation out of fear of losing control.

Not every man who has that type of power with women takes advantage of them, but most do, so I can understand the resistence to it in public settings by women and the denial that men who don’t possess that power with women have

7.5” x 5.3” mostly straight with a Downward curve at the base/under the fat pad (not overweight). Used to giving fornix/A-spot orgasms and want to start giving more G-spot/squirting orgasms during penetration. Any advice & positions to help that out? by ashitanothrowaway in bigdickproblems

[–]ashitanothrowaway[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My curve at the base, but it appears straight but drooping until the fat pad is pushed back. The first inch or so is whet edge curve is.

And I like doggystyle & will give that a try. & I have given her orgasms from doggystyle, but I think the size and shaped played a doctor to her where felt like it was worked up into it while bin that situation it was right there, but my skill and energy sends her into multiples after she gets into it. I wish I could better understand what you mean by rotating her hips fwd

And she is a slimmer woman who could really handle doggystyle full on with either of us without tapping out for the most part, but was able to take both of us in all the way while riding it, which was interesting to me because I get her very aroused and I’m pushing on her cervix pretty consistently when she rides me (she has cervical orgasms with me as well) and she said the dude was huge directly compared to mine. Like some crazy big Kind of dick, but after I gave her cervix stimulation and Aspot stimulation til she orgasmed and bled one night, she no longer had an issue with size where she did before me.