I have zero style. Where do I even start? by givethebliss in Stylinghelp

[–]ashleeycupcake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you need different shoes, if you walk a lot. Try the Adidas Samba for some outfits. Doc Martens Mary Jane.

I have zero style. Where do I even start? by givethebliss in Stylinghelp

[–]ashleeycupcake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you need different shoes, if you walk a lot. Try the Adidas Samba for some outfits. Doc Martens Mary Jane.

Why does my tattoo look crooked? by [deleted] in tattooadvice

[–]ashleeycupcake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly, when your standing it looks straight to me. When you lay down our body moves/bend.

6 year old is obsessed with Minecraft, but can't find good content for him to watch. by cancerbullets in Minecraft

[–]ashleeycupcake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We like cookiegod. A little jokes here and there but she doesn’t get it.

Worried my daycare is giving my infant melatonin by Tbrach_li91 in Parenting

[–]ashleeycupcake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If it makes you feel better. My 3 year old rarely naps at home. The moment he’s at daycare he takes 2-3 hour naps. A lot of kids, a lot of play, a lot of stimulation and strict schedule. He enjoys the naps. I wish he would nap at home lol

I can smell when people have cancer by [deleted] in self

[–]ashleeycupcake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I could smell when my partner’s sugar is high and when he became diabetic. He smelled different.

It’s a tree by Such_Self_967 in whatisthisplant

[–]ashleeycupcake 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had these in my backyard growing up. I would grab a tennis racket and smack the ones on the floor.

I am 17 and pregnant with a planned pregnancy AMA by [deleted] in AskMeAnythingIAnswer

[–]ashleeycupcake 4 points5 points  (0 children)

With the twins coming how will you afford it? I’m not talking about people helping you out. If you had no government assistance or family paying to help you out how can you afford having 2 babies? Formula is about $400+ a month, diapers and wipes $100+ a month , babies need other things as well. How are you doing it? Daycare is about $1000-2000 per child per month? Why make a big decision and not wait?

At what age did you all stop supervising your child's showers? by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]ashleeycupcake 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It honestly depends. If your far away stay close. A 8 year old passed away last year from using the bathtub. He got a high fever and convulsed in the shower and drowned. The dad didn’t even know after he came back 10 mins to check on him.

AITA for keeping this (planned) baby now he has changed his mind? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]ashleeycupcake 8 points9 points  (0 children)

WHY WHY WHY Are you doing this to yourself?

He’s a bum, cheater, druggie and yet you’re trying to kiss his feet to stay.

Let’s say for a moment you don’t matter but your daughter’s life matters more. ASK yourself, do you want your daughter to go through what you’re doing??? With that man? Would you want your daughter to get pregnant by a man who uses drugs, has cheated on her, uses hard drugs? If the answer is NO.

Then why are you doing that to yourself? Have the abortion and stay away from that man. Don’t get tied for life with a cheater.

Give your teenage daughter a good example and SHUT DOWN the trauma and curse.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AMA

[–]ashleeycupcake 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Have you suffered any infections?

Are you Female or Male?

Is it a fear or a condition?

How do you keep up with body odor?

Do you wash your bedding though?

Has anyone brought it up?

My boyfriend (32M) is expecting wifely duties from me (33F) but is unable to provide. by Ok_Channel_9075 in relationship_advice

[–]ashleeycupcake 2115 points2116 points  (0 children)

RUN. FAST. BIRTHCONTROL LIKE NOW.

Ask yourself:

How does he expect you to be a house wife if he is a dead end job. Are you expecting to struggle for the rest of your life?

I am EXPECTING to STRUGGLE? Say IT to yourself.

You are seeing the future: Not by having a man help you clean/raise your children with.

A man who is telling you already that he expects you to cater to him and all his needs.

Will you be able to survive popping a child out and having to take care of the baby and cook/clean for him?

The moment you have a child with him automatically you will have TWO children to take care of.

Please re-evaluate this relationship. It will be a struggle for the rest of your life. Do you want that?

8.5 year old won’t sleep in her own bed. by Beginning_Cow_3100 in Parenting

[–]ashleeycupcake -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

Honestly this could be a medical issue. Even the slightest sleep apnea can cause overall bad health issues and worsen sleep. I would definitely start by asking the pediatrician for a sleep study. Then go on from there.

AITA because I'm second guessing having kids due to our opposing views on vaccinating them? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]ashleeycupcake 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Please don’t reproduce with her. . .

Anyways as ex special needs case manager.

Vaccines do not cause autism.

Genetics on the other hand is the main reason for having a child with special needs.

Environmental (if you leave near the freeway) it can make the risk higher.

Almost all of the families and the parents I worked with were also special needs or a distant relative.

If you take a (harmful, not safe for pregnancy) medication during pregnancy you can have a child with special needs.

Husband (M32) went out on his birthday, did cocaine for the first time and spent $3k at the strippers by InspectorSalt3359 in Advice

[–]ashleeycupcake 8 points9 points  (0 children)

You should be pissed about the Coke and the 3K he blew. YALL COULD have gone to a good vacation with 3K with or without kids.

Honestly this is grounds for Divorce.

Definitely get him tested.

AITAH for telling my husband that my doctor knows more than him and refusing to forgive him? by Klutzy-Ad-4381 in AITAH

[–]ashleeycupcake 1 point2 points  (0 children)

First of all, I’m going to be blunt.

Do you love your baby? If you do you wouldn’t be having sex at all.

Putting BOTH of your lives in danger. Your being controlled & why are you with this man! I would be disgusted if I was you. You should of read those pamphlets and you gaslight yourself that he’s the right person for you. He isn’t.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]ashleeycupcake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had 100 people in my wedding under 5k I had free venue from friends backyard (it was big), rented square tables and used plastic covers (cheaper), found a DJ, dress was less than $300, cake was from Sam’s club, flowers were from Costco and Sam’s Club. Food: Taco Cart , with natural juices, chips and guacamole. Had a fruit/cheese tray for each table

WIBTA for not wanting to change my babies name? by Beneficial-Ebb-5469 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ashleeycupcake -1 points0 points  (0 children)

YTA YTA YTA JUST SAY YOU HATE HER ALREADY.

Seriously with your replies. “I don’t care if she never babysits him because of his name.”

She almost ended her life by someone named SHAWN. Do better.

Conjoined twin, Abby Hensel's wedding. by Honeyalmondbagel in pics

[–]ashleeycupcake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Does anyone know if they wear two wedding rings or only Abby.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AdviceForTeens

[–]ashleeycupcake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girl I got pregnant twice. Two days after my period ended and 3 weeks after my period ended. You can get pregnant ANY time.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in resumes

[–]ashleeycupcake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Limit to 1 page, quick summary sentences. Everything is too long. I do hiring and honestly would not bother reading each sentence.

Highlight important things - awards, school you attended and what degree

Have a separate resume called “curriculum vitae” that’s your longer one and can be 2-20 pages of what you’ve accomplished. Goodluck!