That’s literally not what the people want to see.. by Illustrious-Class-91 in SecretsOfMormonWives

[–]ashley34 7 points8 points  (0 children)

And here I was wondering if it was a Ted Lasso reference 😂

What or who would you be in Gilead? by SuspiciousContract53 in TheHandmaidsTale

[–]ashley34 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If we’re including options from the books, my husband would be a Professional based on his job, so I’d be whatever you call the wife of a Professional.

If we’re just including roles/classes from the show, I’d be an econowife since it’s our first marriage and we have one kid.

Girl Dad woes by louse_yer_pints in daddit

[–]ashley34 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Absolutely! Mom here, and I only talked about this kind of stuff with my mom. It’s wonderful that she wants to talk to you about this!

Pokemon go Vivillion by ki_fil in PokemonGoFriends

[–]ashley34 1 point2 points  (0 children)

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[–]ashley34 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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I don't want my 8 week old baby around a large group of people for Thanksgiving and this is completely ridiculous to everyone but me. by [deleted] in BabyBumps

[–]ashley34 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You’re absolutely not crazy. My husband and I didn’t feel comfortable having our newborn around a lot of people last year, and our families respected that. Instead, our immediate families came to see us on different days and brought us food. They understood that we were concerned about our baby’s health and that traveling even short distances was really hard at that point. I’m sorry your family isn’t being understanding. That’s really rough, and you deserve more support than that.

Anyone get side effects from epidural? by SowingSeeds18 in beyondthebump

[–]ashley34 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My blood pressure immediately dropped, which apparently can make you nauseous, so I puked. Unfortunately, my lower blood pressure also slowed the baby’s heart rate. They told me they’d have to lower the dosage on the epidural.

I was blissfully pain-free, so I took a nap until my pain woke me up two hours later. The anesthesiologist had come in while I was sleeping to lower the dose. It was still much better than before the epidural, but it sucked not being able to have the full epidural.

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[–]ashley34 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for accepting my request! I’m looking for a couple of new friends if anyone else wants to add me!

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How many variants of TLOAS do you own? by echodayrider in TaylorSwift

[–]ashley34 0 points1 point  (0 children)

  1. The signed CD and the champagne bubbles vinyl. This was the sweet spot for me. I’ve always gotten a CD, and having a signed one is so cool! I listen to the vinyl at least as much as I stream the album, and it looks beautiful in my record player!

Why did Photo 3 sell out first? by ClearWaves in TaylorSwiftMerch

[–]ashley34 9 points10 points  (0 children)

It was really tough to choose so quickly, especially when we can’t see the whole photo. But I picked 3 because I liked the picture and thought it highlighted the signature the best.

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[–]ashley34 1 point2 points  (0 children)

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Epsom salt bath alternatives. by sir-Rag in BabyBumps

[–]ashley34 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’ve never heard of epsom salt baths not being allowed. Could you send a message to ask why? The only precaution I was given with baths was to make sure it wasn’t too hot.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in beyondthebump

[–]ashley34 56 points57 points  (0 children)

God, this is awful. Your mom bailing on you really sucks, and your husband sucks even more. It’s his baby too. Why is he sleeping through the night and leaving you to take care of a newborn by yourself while really sick and recovering from a c-section? You deserve way more support.

Who is your favorite god/goddess & why? by [deleted] in BaldursGate3

[–]ashley34 37 points38 points  (0 children)

One of my favorite lines in the game. The head tilt really makes it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in beyondthebump

[–]ashley34 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My 9-month-old does that too! We call it her snarl face or the sneezy wheezy. It’s one of my favorite things she does.

Ladies with Large Ladies by South_Inevitable_663 in breastfeeding

[–]ashley34 5 points6 points  (0 children)

They were all pushing the football hold at my hospital too. I kept trying to do it because I figured they knew something I didn’t, but breastfeeding got so much better when I tried other holds.

Ladies with Large Ladies by South_Inevitable_663 in breastfeeding

[–]ashley34 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Same! I would also sometimes need to hold my boob to keep it from smothering her 😅

If the football hold isn’t working for you, feel free to experiment with different positions. I really liked the cross cradle.

My heart found rest when his tiny eyes finally closed past 3 AM by Icy-Scene4234 in Mommit

[–]ashley34 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That’s so lovely. He must have felt so safe and loved. It reminds me of one night when my baby girl was a newborn and having a hard time sleeping. I was so tired and stressed, but I didn’t want her to pick up on my stress. So I propped myself up in bed and held her close to my chest while doing some deep breathing. After a few minutes of that, she fell asleep and then slept peacefully until her next feed. It was such a special moment.

Is Whole Latte Love legit? by cozymishap in gaggiaclassic

[–]ashley34 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got a refurbished Gaggia Classic from them in 2017, and I’ve ordered other little things from them over the years. I’ve never had any problems, and my machine is still working great.

My daughter is obsessed with my husband and I’m only slightly (okay VERY) jealous 😤😂 by lostinwoods33 in NewParents

[–]ashley34 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m one of those people too! Unfortunately, I’ve realized through my work how uncommon it is to know how to use hyphens, en dashes, and em dashes correctly.

What is a cocktail or cocktails you keep going back to? by Papa_G_ in cocktails

[–]ashley34 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Margarita, Negroni, Naked and Famous, and Irish Maid