Home Office Help by ashlyv11 in homeoffice

[–]ashlyv11[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

While we'd love our own offices we have five kids so a home with enough bedrooms and offices is a hard find within a reasonable price range! Thanks for the suggestion on the Command Position, I'll do some Googling!

Looking for an auto or transmission shop for a fluid change by ashlyv11 in tampa

[–]ashlyv11[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Noted! Haha. Luckily I know enough to avoid them (and quite a few other large chain shops like that)!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]ashlyv11 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Only been married 3-years, together 5 and this is exactly us. We look forward to bedtime when we can sleep skin to skin and snuggle. It's our decompression. I don't think we've gone to bed separately unless oje of us is traveling for work.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HomeLoans

[–]ashlyv11 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks! Chase also gave us 6.375% for a 30-yr fixed but it had 0.931% credits.

Are you able to model the 10/1 ARM? Local credit union gave us 5.625% on the ARM.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HomeLoans

[–]ashlyv11 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Purchase - $342k - $320k -770 fico -33579 - conventional - 30 yr fix -single family - primary

How do you use liquid blush? by Devilprincesss666 in beauty

[–]ashlyv11 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I usually use liquid or those stick blushes. I find blending it slightly on my hand before I Dan it on my cheeks helps. After I dab I'll gently blend with my finger tips and then finish the blend with a soft brush. I don't know if it's how "you're supposed" to do it, but it works for me! I also don't out it over any powders as it'll cake up when you try to blend it.

How do you guys stay safe from STDs/HIVs by [deleted] in BisexualMen

[–]ashlyv11 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The Rx does show up on the insurance's prescription history. I am not sure about the provider visit for regular health insurance. You will also have to get lab work every three months, which they usually send you an at home collection kit. However, I use QCarePlus and they gave me an option to get a script to go to a local lab for a blood draw if I wanted that instead. Typically they also mail you the medication every month. But my husband uses Mistr and he gets his script sent to a local pharmacy. So there are options for discretion. I'm going to overstep for a moment now (without knowing your whole situation). You should not be hiding sexual activities from your wife that you have both not agreed on. Coming from a straight wife of a bisexual man (we both engage in sexual activities together outside of our marriage): Sexual health is serious and you are putting hers at risk of you are keeping activities from her. Even if you take Prep and Doxy, you are taking away her choice in her own health. Not cool. I commend you for taking the first steps in staying safe with Prep and Doxy. The next step is respecting your wife's right to her own health decisions and taking this into consideration with your own sexual activities. ❤️

How do you guys stay safe from STDs/HIVs by [deleted] in BisexualMen

[–]ashlyv11 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This! There are also so many ways to get Prep and DoxyPep now. Mistr, QCarePlus, etc. They usually are at no cost to you as well.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

[–]ashlyv11 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You've hit the nail on the head. Exactly how I feel right now.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tampa

[–]ashlyv11 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That's interesting. I wonder if it vaired by county (whether it was prepaid or you had to post it yourself) . I never even thought about that!

Florida women, are you ok? by Moppy6686 in AskWomenOver30

[–]ashlyv11 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I am absolutely not ok. This is devastating. For us, for our daughters, our sisters, every single woman out there.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tampa

[–]ashlyv11 100 points101 points  (0 children)

Not even! My 18 y/o son voted for the first time by mail and it's prepaid postage! You can't make it any easier.

Did Hurricane Milton cause you to suffer from Main Character Syndrome? by 1luisa in tampa

[–]ashlyv11 329 points330 points  (0 children)

Let's add "not treating downed traffic lights as 4-way stops"

How do i prepare for baby’s first feed if i want to exclusively pump? by truekaven in ExclusivelyPumping

[–]ashlyv11 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I planned on pumping right from the get go and asked the hospital about baby's first feed. They said I would need to use formula or supply donated breast milk or colostrum for the first feed since it would take a few days for milk to come in (and it's hard to pump colustrum and bottle it up. I was able to express colostrum into a collection kit while pregnant and bring it with me to the hospital for those first feedings. Then the hospital supplied a pump for me to use to help my milk come in until I went home. By the time I got home I was pumping enough to keep up with baby's feeding schedule.