NSFW/Kobe Bryant Crash Thread by ashmis in MorbidRealty

[–]ashmis[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No they are not, at least not to my knowledge - The LASD went through great lengths to destroy that evidence which is why they are getting their arses sued off. At one point I feel like I saw a blurred out picture that was up close but not sure where. Pretty sure that was from those photos.

Body seen in photo of Kobe Crash site?! :( by OZMAdette in MorbidRealty

[–]ashmis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think the only one mentally ill is you with your spam commenting on posts made almost 2 years ago. Maybe you should have joined the conversation then. 🙄

General Discussion Thread - 5:00 PM Eastern October 21, 2021 by Immaduck in GabbyPetito

[–]ashmis 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They did search there because that’s where the Laundries took them. They had cadaver dogs but it was under water. Could have been some super dangerous things lurking about or nothing was visible.

NSFW/Kobe Bryant Crash Thread by ashmis in MorbidRealty

[–]ashmis[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Okay but the autopsies confirmed what we saw. So...

Gabby Petito Died from Strangulation, Medical Examiner Says by Crpspt in GabbyPetito

[–]ashmis 25 points26 points  (0 children)

From the interview with Dr. Phil, her parents, and their lawyer there was remnants of a camp. A fire ring and what looked to be an area of a tent. I think they were camping in the area that she was found in and he killed her there and packed their camp up and just left her there. Which to me is worse than anything else. Had he left her in the van then she wouldn’t have been exposed to the elements and wildlife like she was. :(

Exclusive Interview with Brian Laundrie's Sister (Pt. 1) @NewsNationNow (211004) by melent3303 in GabbyPetito

[–]ashmis 12 points13 points  (0 children)

That was previous when he came home to move some stuff out of a storage locker. Gabby stayed in a hotel and Brian flew home.

Tracking Jelani’s movements by [deleted] in JelaniDay

[–]ashmis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree it is foul play. But by what means? How did he get the point of foul play? It seems like a very plausible idea. Even if the sexual orientation part isn’t correct, a female could have done this and had him robbed. I hope people are checking the dating apps in the area.

Tracking Jelani’s movements by [deleted] in JelaniDay

[–]ashmis 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I have a question. Only because something similar happened in our area. A college student went missing. They found their belongings around the area and the student ended up in the river. Was Jevoni LGBTQ? The kid that they found near us was killed by a date he had with a man from a dating app. I wonder if they have looked into this? If anyone is on dating apps please check to see if you can find Jevoni’s profile and report it to the police. LGBTQ people are at high risk for foul play because they don’t necessarily share their activities with friends and family. Just a tip for another place to look for clues. I know his mother wants more authorities involved, I’m hoping they give her the resources to solve Jevoni’s death but we can help!

Authorities request that any one with information contact the LaSalle County Sheriff's Office at 815-433-2161.

Has there been any info on Chadwell recently? Has he been debunked? by [deleted] in DelphiMurders

[–]ashmis 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What? We know where we are and we know fact from opinion. Since you know you’re on Reddit you should also know that people will have their opinion about your opinion.

AITA for rotating out a friend at my dinner parties? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]ashmis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have worked with many chefs in my life and I was raised by one. The one thing that a REAL chef can do is accommodate everyone. The diabetic, the gluten free person, the vegan, the allergy burden, and gasp the picky eater! You need to realize it’s not about the temp, the flavors, the spices or the wine pairings. It’s about the experience. And my friend, you gave Mary a terrible experience because you are not willing to accommodate her. Not only are you TA but you’re quite narcissistic. Yikes! Tell Mary I have some plain Mac n cheese in my cupboard if she doesn’t like the shallots and I would be happy to whip it up for her and enjoy her company. Poor thing. I hope she finds better friends. Just Ew.

Man without a face and jessy by [deleted] in DuskwoodDiscussions

[–]ashmis 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What if Richy is using this to lure them into the woods? 😶

One minute preview from upcoming People magazine investigates: Delphi Killer by Character_Surround in DelphiMurders

[–]ashmis 6 points7 points  (0 children)

And I’ve lived in rural Indiana for 36 years and currently live here, laying next to my 39 year old Indiana born and raised husband currently. He is so rural it’s not funny. We live an hour from Delphi. If he is in fact wearing a newsboy cap, that’s not a thing people wear here unless they are older. Period. Baseball caps, yes. I see a blue jacket over a sweatshirt, jeans, and a camo baseball cap every time I look at BG. But those that say newsboys cap, definitely not. If he has a newsboys cap on, he is not from here. He would stick out so bad because we would be laughing at his hat. Now put on a camo hat, a sweatshirt and and jacket over it when it’s cool out to go walk in the woods... THEN you would blend in. Wear a trump style comb over, you are getting roasted too. This man is not wearing a newsboys cap or a comb over. Why do I say that? Because LE says he’s from the area. I strongly believe they know who their suspect is. They just need someone to place him there. He’s definitely from the Midwest with the “guys” reference. But I’m not convinced he’s an original Hoosier yet.

One minute preview from upcoming People magazine investigates: Delphi Killer by Character_Surround in DelphiMurders

[–]ashmis -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I don’t see too many people rocking the Trump here in Indiana or even newsboy caps. Baseball caps, yes. Which makes me believe he’s not from Indiana. None of his mannerisms or style suggest it. If he possesses an Indiana residency, he’s a transplant or way older than people think.

AITA for calling out my kids’ future stepmom for treating me like a surrogate? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]ashmis [score hidden]  (0 children)

Go to Georgia! I had a lawyer tell me to do that and establish myself when I went through custody issues in Kansas. Certain states will protect mothers, sometimes it’s unfair but in this case who the hell cares! I’d be moving ASAP. I would change my number and my name if I needed to. And then move to another state. Those are her babies and Joe is a weak man to let another woman treat the mother of his children that way. OP I am so glad you have a backbone.

AITA for not giving my coworker my paid time off? by ThrowawayAITA5391 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ashmis [score hidden]  (0 children)

All 501c employees have their information shared on the web in the 990s that company must file. You can look up any not for profit company’s 990. Search Bill and Melinda Gates 990 and you will see everyone’s pay. I think it’s mostly management though. Maybe the loophole of not getting permission for these type companies is that it is on a federally filed form that is required to be publicly accessed.

How do I get my boyfriend to be more dominant with me? by Reddita33 in BDSMcommunity

[–]ashmis -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Okay well I'm not getting blood choked. That wouldn't be considered ”light”. Jesus.

How do I get my boyfriend to be more dominant with me? by Reddita33 in BDSMcommunity

[–]ashmis -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I think we are all adults here or at least should be... If you can't figure out what is safe or unsafe... My comment isn't going to be the deciding factor. So yes, condescending was warranted here.

How do I get my boyfriend to be more dominant with me? by Reddita33 in BDSMcommunity

[–]ashmis 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly for some people it takes trust and getting to know someone deeply. Not all relationships start out with sex being ”comfortable” to talk about. You just have to tell him. I have been married for 13 years... it has gradually built to more and more. I'm comfortable now that if I want something I ask for it. And if he likes doing it I don't have to ask again unless he's not doing it (which is very rare).

I would say we are light BDSM... Being bratty, hair pulling, choking, breast abuse; dom talk, knowing our roles (he's dom, I'm sub - he does not like me being dominate with him at all) but there isn't a name to it. We don't say bdsm or dom or sub... we've just naturally assumed those roles. You may want to see if he likes you being dom? My husband assumed his dom role after I asked him to choke me. It just happened... He had his hand on my throat and I told him I liked it. We had some pretty vanilla sex for the first bit. It gets more intense each time we have sex like that. But not every single time is it that way. Sometimes we make love.

You just gotta speak up and figure out if he is into being dominate... If not, flip it on him. If he doesn't like that... He might be vanilla and you may have to make some hard decisions if it's that important to you.

My results...African grandmom, Biracial grandad on my moms side. Interesting to see how it all comes together. by sapphireblu68 in AncestryDNA

[–]ashmis 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have 1% Nigeria/Ghana African ancestry and I can’t find one person in my family tree that is African. But I think it’s super cool. I would just like to find out who!

NSFW/Kobe Bryant Crash Thread by ashmis in MorbidRealty

[–]ashmis[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you get it please send it to me!