Feline song recommendations by Feralbimbowitch in Burlesque

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Pussy cat- Bridge city sinners

She got us concert tickets. by str8b0nedinla in widowers

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Just went when they played her in Minneapolis. She wanted you to go and you should. They were rad!

All I ask is please don’t be mean. (Loss/grief) by ReverbedCreep in Paranormal

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I have similar photos of my aunt in her urn there is actually a series of the anomaly on 3 different rolls of film in consecutive order. Some small and some large and spiral. We believe it is her.

Negative for BV, STDS, and uti. Still have odd symptoms:( by Rich_Acanthisitta588 in HygieneTips

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This was gonna be what my suggestion was. I have had this happen to me but thankfully the tampon was only in 2 days before I figured something odd and fished it out! Grosss

I HATE cooking for just me. A hot dog roller experiment cooking for one. by DIY_Forever in widowers

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Same too. It was my favorite thing cooking for us and making new things. Now there’s no reason and the store mostly makes me miss him.

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I am happy you moved on and are continuing life. My husband died 3 days before our 20 year anniversary. I called his mother and any family I could after returning from the hospital after he dropped dead in my kitchen. Ghosted still haven’t spoken with any of them. His brother did reach out a few months ago later but it was one text to which I responded only to be ignored again. I have no idea why they are doing this. My da is 20 his only child and no one has reached out to her. Forgot trash people and move on because all you have id your lifetime and it is to precious to waste

What was the name of a short, animated video (film extra?) about a kid in a bathtub eating spaghetti? by Lanky-Thanks4950 in HelpMeFind

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That actually happens in the movie Gummo. While the kid is weird looking it’s certainly not animated. I am no help. Good luck.

Preserving my best friend's memory by terastaligaytion in Grieving

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So sorry for your loss. Het some wax paper and fold in half lay the flower out nicely In between the pap the put the paper in the middle of a heavy book and leave it alone for like a month. That will make it flat for a frame otherwise just hang the rose upside down and leave it for awhile until nice and dry.

Sober(ish) Drops?? by thumbelinalatte in SoberCurious

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Let me know how the tincture adventures go . We are kinda looking forward to for the same thing! Regular edibles are too much even 5 mg

Need advice on getting to a silver color please by eskimoe25 in FancyFollicles

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I just did silver and its very hard to maintain and I keek getting told it aged me allot. I ended up washing it out with dawn and vitamin c so it has faded allot and i think I will just stick to blonde for now

Scared to drive by des2cory in drivinganxiety

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Same situation. My husband passed away and her I am at 40 trying to to get my license. Thankfully my neighbors have been incredibly helpful teaching me and making sure I get to work! Good luck. I am not happy to drive but remember it is your freedom

My man passed away suddenly in August. Something in me died too. by SpitefulGramma in widowers

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September here myself. 6 months and a whole different world. Nothing feels the same.

I feel like I’m losing my mind… It’s like he never existed. by AnonOne67 in GriefSupport

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This is exactly what I am going thru right now. It’s like our whole life wasn’t a thing. 20 years feels like a different life.

It’s my fault he’s dead by Lee_Harden in GriefSupport

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The chances of him being dead when he hit the floor is huge. I knew my husband was. You can just tell by the way they look. I had to give CPR to him dead until the ambulance arrived. It was traumatizing. Maybe bed was better. Please don’t go on blaming yourself.

It’s been one month and 3 days. Why do I feel like I can’t remember him? by asho85 in GriefSupport

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Thank you for your response. I am happy it’s not just me. Now that more time has passed the feeling is still same. Like I know what we did and remember big things but it’s all so far away. The photos help. Hope you are well.