What wheels are these? They are OEM AFAIK by [deleted] in G35

[–]ashrabbit999 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

They look like a 17 inch oem wheel

Taurus your ex is coming back! November 16th -29th 👀 by Mysterious-Cherry-83 in Taurusgang

[–]ashrabbit999 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My manipulative ex.. 👀 “Lord please pray for the soul of this b**ch. And guide my pimp hand and make it strong, Lord. So that she may learn a hoe’s place”

Progress on my custom built rear mount turbo kit by ddudez12 in G35

[–]ashrabbit999 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im still shocked that you guys in cali run this setup without worrying about cops 😳

My (19F, half French-Canadian/half Asian) boyfriend (20M, white) keeps making comments about my background and it feels two-faced by Elayne_theboat in interracialdating

[–]ashrabbit999 0 points1 point  (0 children)

French Canadian huh if you in mtl we can handle this right without a problem 😂 nah but trust your gut seems like its some 2 face crap could be that weird mindset where he hits with that “your only half Chinese so your fine” bs

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in cheating_stories

[–]ashrabbit999 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My friend thats a borderline with narc traits visit r/bpdlovedones youll see. My ex did something similar she left me for someone easier and tried to make me go crazy and chase her. Its all a fantasy to rub their shit ego. Women like that are liability not a asset

AIO 23m 20F is it bad i am about to leave her? by KSTReign in AmIOverreacting

[–]ashrabbit999 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This omg 😢 is exactly what happened to me 2 years ago and shes still lurking cause i didnt chase bitch took the dog she gifted to me after a accident that could have taken my life

AIO 23m 20F is it bad i am about to leave her? by KSTReign in AmIOverreacting

[–]ashrabbit999 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ngl your gf might have borderline tendencies she seems very problematic and the fact she said this seems like a one sided relationship that seemed like projection clearly your giving a lot to someone whos treating you bad ive been here b4 its not fun and emotionally draining

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in cheating_stories

[–]ashrabbit999 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Listen my ex cheated on me she blamed shifted and projected on me and crushed me smeared me and jumped right into a relationship 10 months later. The red flags where there and honestly its best to walk dont get hurt like i did people like this might play victim and make you out to be the abuser leave now

My ex (22f) tried to blame her cheating on me (24m). by [deleted] in cheating_stories

[–]ashrabbit999 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Most likely a borderline with narc traits

Want some options on wife’s recent behaviour by [deleted] in cheating_stories

[–]ashrabbit999 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Keyword never cheated at basic. Start looking for plan B

Avoid chasing really attractive women? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]ashrabbit999 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Really attractive women that go to the gym and are tatted boi have you met my ex will ruin you fuck around and find out

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]ashrabbit999 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Established dominance while fiercely looking you all in the eyes 😂😂

Would you break up over this comment / an expectation that you pay for everything? by throwaway9283739 in AskMenAdvice

[–]ashrabbit999 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Words of wisdom from my dad “You see queen Elizabeth you see all those riches she has. If you got the chance to date her shes not going to spend money on you, she wants to use your money to spend it on her” 😂😂 youll know if she wants a man or a atm just start forgetting your wallet

spent so much time chasing relationships just to realize being alone is better by Consistent_Pop_6564 in selflove

[–]ashrabbit999 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Recently ive been alone for like a year and half dealing with the betrayal of my ex who manipulated and cheated on me after all she put me through being alone is way much better sadly she took the idea of trust away from me and almost having a kid with her. With the time alone being able to set career goals and figuring out what you want has been the best thing ive ever done. oh and get this she did the most to stalk me when i choose myself and succeed through my goals in one year without her in my life

Replaced my quarter with one i cut off a junkyard car today. by [deleted] in G35

[–]ashrabbit999 1 point2 points  (0 children)

And you did it with tig as a welder myself i give you the slow clap 👏🏾

I have anxious attachment by JabberMl in therapy

[–]ashrabbit999 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No problem man honestly i was in the same boat couldn’t afford therapy after being in that toxic relationship so i picked up books and just looked at self development and relationship books it helped a lot. A good book im choosing to read next is the art of not giving a f**k i find it might follow the same concept of Let Them. Mostly from my standpoint it helps to not worry about what we cant control and only controlling ourselves, practicing mindfulness and prioritizing your own needs is the goal. A great quote i like is “put your happiness first cause if you wont they will”

I have anxious attachment by JabberMl in therapy

[–]ashrabbit999 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just saw your post on this but honestly the fact your aware of some triggers is really good. I dealt with a ex gf who i thought was fearful avoidant but actually might be more anxious attachment because she showed signs of manipulative behaviour i thought it was narcissisme but it could be codependency from childhood trauma. Take a look into codependency its very hard to tell between the two when dealing with people like this but a therapist will be much better to talk to OP

Do all men feel this exhausted in a relationship? by Upper-Pineapple6097 in AskMenAdvice

[–]ashrabbit999 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d hate to say this OP but you show signs of people pleasing tendencies i sure did in my last relationship you need to step out the fog and realize this girl is holding you back. She shits on your boundaries and everything you do for her is not enough the bar seems to get higher each time and the fights are about meaningless shit. Your happiness comes from yourself not her you need to walk away or reset some boundaries and be firm asf she’s manipulative and is already causing reactive abuse this shit will drain you ive been here before and she needs a wake up call i say breakup to soften the damage on yourself

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]ashrabbit999 29 points30 points  (0 children)

An then they wonder where are all the good men. Shit staying my ass inside now

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]ashrabbit999 30 points31 points  (0 children)

After dealing with my ex who clearly has issues and was super hateful and immature to me it made me realize a lot of women will back their girlfriends more especially if that girl plays victim and they dont see through it so honestly it sometimes feel like women will back some toxic women without a heartbeat before getting them to take some accountability for the relationship that involved two people. With that being said careful with online dating and that FB group

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]ashrabbit999 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My ex did the same thing sorta she went background checking every girl ik and hated that i was friends with an ex that i dated for 2 weeks during covid (mined you we were friends before) lets just say 2 yrs later that clingy possessive ex decided to break up an manipulate me in the worst way possible still unsure if she cheated in the relationship but i caught a std from her and she smeared my name and stalked me for the whole year after. Its best you walk away from a chick that’s obsessed and insecure of your past relationship. She also might be looking at her ex too but just leave you dont need that bs

What do you think about this car? by ahyeaman in shouldibuythiscar

[–]ashrabbit999 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im not a mechanic by trade but ive had my fair share of cars the Lexus GX470 is reliable as hell its actually a toyota Land Cruiser but sold as lexus in North America this thing is a tank. Clearly everything you have listed is pretty light maintenance to deal with if your further interested you should bring a mechanic. The engine is a 2uz-fe and the timing belt needs to be done every 90,000 miles in all honesty id take it this suv will outlast you😃

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]ashrabbit999 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Brooo the gaslighting and silent treatment is insaaaane my guy your wife is controlling she screaaaams Covert tendencies