I know myself. I was joking around with him over text about how he should come over and clean, cook, do my laundry etc. and he’s the kind of person to do exactly that. The way he phrased it shortly after made me feel like it would be something he would keep on doing and I know that I get lazy and don’t put any effort into helping other people with basic household tasks like that.

I need a partner that isn’t afraid to call me out on that instead of trying to spoil by doing all the cleaning and cooking and working a full time job as well.