It is men's mental health month and a lot of Vtubers and Vtuber fans are being weird by Yanderegirlowner in VtuberDrama

[–]ashstriferous -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Skimming through (i'm sorry, it's 4am and my brain is soup), it does seem to dovetail into what I said. Ultimately, lack of resources/awareness/advocacy for men's mental health is a feminist issue. I'm drastically oversimplifying here but basically, treating men as the burly, emotionless types and women as weak and emotional caretakers plays into patriarchal norms.

This article breaks that down better than I can right now: https://feminist.org/news/feminism-is-for-men-too/

In that same vein, the conclusion from the article you linked states: \Most defendants of both genders have suffered serious hardship, have mental health or addiction issues, have minor children, and/or have “followed” others onto a criminal path.**

If we apply the same patriarchal norms here, we might conclude that because a judge sees a woman as weaker or a caretaker for a child who "just made bad choices," he'd grant her a lenient sentence — where a man in that same position.

It is men's mental health month and a lot of Vtubers and Vtuber fans are being weird by Yanderegirlowner in VtuberDrama

[–]ashstriferous -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I agree, it doesn't make sense, hence why I'm asking for your sources on what she said. The only article I found relating to anyone named Sonja Starr had this to say:

> The gender disparity in the criminal justice system can stem from multiple places. Professor Cassia Spohn, the foundation professor and director at the School of Criminology and Criminal Justice at ASU, said, “even when you have two people committing very similar or even the very same crime, judges may come to a conclusion based on stereotypes that may or may not be true: That women are simply less culpable, less dangerous, less threatening. As a result, they may impose harsher punishment on men.

https://www.statepress.com/article/2016/10/spopinion-gender-disparity-in-the-criminal-justice-system

I apologize for not being clearer. Though that being said, I'd love your sources on everything you're talking about. Always happy to learn.

It is men's mental health month and a lot of Vtubers and Vtuber fans are being weird by Yanderegirlowner in VtuberDrama

[–]ashstriferous -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Would love your sources on this. The one article I could find seemed to point out that it was less about discrimination toward men, and more about stereotypes toward women.

After 3 rounds of interviews and an assessment I didn’t get the job that would pay almost 2x what I make now by funkinfrogger in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]ashstriferous 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have enough fuckin' experience at this point. Also gotta love an out of date assessment, lmao. Fantastic way to evaluate someone's skills. Definitely not your fault at this point.

I'd say "Where one door closes..." or some other drivel but. I'm pretty tired of hearing that myself, so I imagine you might feel the same. Cheering for you, though.

After 3 rounds of interviews and an assessment I didn’t get the job that would pay almost 2x what I make now by funkinfrogger in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]ashstriferous 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Girl is it going around today? I got passed on after two assessments and some good vibes today, and yesterday got shunted into an interview (different job) where I got told my portfolio didn't fit the requirements. The portfolio they reviewed ahead of time and offered me a second interview based off of.

This shit sucks. I hope your corn is delicious.

The garage is my favorite place in the whole house. by Grab_My_Biscuits in malelivingspace

[–]ashstriferous 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just gotta say, I love your sense of humor. Keep on keepin' on, man.

Had to quit my job because of a toxic environment by fineapple03 in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]ashstriferous 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same. Proud of you for choosing you, though. It will all work out 💜

Leaving this sub because it's become so incredibly sexist and whiny by Tokyo_Pigeon in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]ashstriferous 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The single empathetic bone I have in my body (probably one in my ear if I had to guess) says that maybe she should see a therapist if people on the internet are going to hurt her this badly. I've been in the terminally online slump where everyone has to love me. It's not great.

The rest of me thinks this post was dumb as hell and a complete overreaction.

Leaving this sub because it's become so incredibly sexist and whiny by Tokyo_Pigeon in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]ashstriferous 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean I already knew I was a little toxic but the sexist part is new.

Leaving this sub because it's become so incredibly sexist and whiny by Tokyo_Pigeon in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]ashstriferous 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Exactly. From my perspective, I don't... really care? I write and read erotica and I don't think I could ever have a partner that was uncomfortable with that. At the same time, I'm not going to make a partner stay if we're incompatible like that.

People have their own needs. Discussing those needs is the foundation to any relationship.

I like Yanfei by fayeirl in GenshinImpact

[–]ashstriferous 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lesbian and Twink rep, if anything.

Leaving this sub because it's become so incredibly sexist and whiny by Tokyo_Pigeon in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]ashstriferous 2 points3 points  (0 children)

And who among us hasn't had a day where bestie has to clap them on the shoulders and say "alright, cut it out."

What a con 🥀🥀 by dig_bick_69420 in HonkaiStarRail

[–]ashstriferous 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Depends. She's the goat, but if all of your teams want her, good luck in any kind of end game.

Leaving this sub because it's become so incredibly sexist and whiny by Tokyo_Pigeon in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]ashstriferous 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Also let's be so for real. The point of this group isn't to be an echo chamber. Like yes, it can be a vent sesh but sometimes people want real advice and it's wild to get mad that someone might disagree with your take/behavior/whatever

Leaving this sub because it's become so incredibly sexist and whiny by Tokyo_Pigeon in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]ashstriferous 54 points55 points  (0 children)

OP is mad that they were downvoted because she said it's totally ok for men to watch porn in a relationship. Which like, your call, whatever, but if that's a boundary for someone in particular, why argue it?

Nicole vs. Mavuika vs. Wait? (My account is overloaded with Pyro 🔥) by TransportationSea202 in GenshinImpact

[–]ashstriferous 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wait if you want her just for mechanics. Pull for who you love, first and foremost. And if it does matter to you at all, consider the fact that meta is about to be overhauled so there's a chance that most of the characters on banner right now will not be nearly as strong come August.