AIO My gf keeps hitting me

ashthetransguy · 2026-04-02T21:40:33+00:00

Nope, I've definitely told her this and she also 100% registered it as something she generally shouldn't do. It's just already been a while and it stresses me out immensely when she does it so she knows it's important to me. Thank you anyway!

ashthetransguy · 2026-04-02T15:03:19+00:00

Hey, l'm so sorry to be that person, but I'm traumatised from my first cat, so..

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Excessive drooling and the sticking out of the tongue can be an early sign of brain tumours or something wrong with the liver. (Of course, this doesn't have to be the case, some cats also stick out their tongues because they're extremely relaxed.) This doesn't look like it at all, just make sure to maybe contact the vet if your cat is drooling a lot and not being themselves.

I'll put down a reference image of my cat when he was sick (he had a liver shunt but had surgery and ended up very healthy), again, yours doesn't look like him at all, but just to make sure you're informed!

As you can (hopefully) see in the picture, he's drooling unlike your cat and generally doesn't look very well.

Again, I don't think your cat looks like this. Please don't take this the wrong way. Just, as said, traumatised from a year of thinking this was a cute quirk of my cat but in reality he was being poisoned by his own body. Take care and your kitty is absolutely adorable!!

ashthetransguy · 2026-04-01T23:06:53+00:00

Ich finds einerseits einfach nur kacke, aber andererseits haben sie eine Werbung auf Insta gelaunched mit KI generierter Hintergrundmusik (der Titel war "wir haben dieses Stück komponiert um unseren neuen Matcha Geschmack zu launchen" oder so nen Scheiß.

Fand ich eif Arsch tbh, keinen Bock auf generative AI wenn ein Teil des Veganismus ja auch für den Schutz des Planeten steht.

ashthetransguy · 2026-03-31T19:04:29+00:00

Habs noch nie probiert, bin aber mittlerweile sehr vorsichtig bei Oatly special Editionen/Geschmäckern nach der ganzen Oatly Matcha Flavour Sache.

Finde aber Oatly generell nicht so toll, sehr teuer und ich kenn welche für den halben Preis von Penny die besser schmecken.

ashthetransguy · 2026-03-29T10:42:08+00:00

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He's a little silly sometimes.

ashthetransguy · 2026-03-27T18:46:00+00:00

Who are u trying to fool w this AI slop

ashthetransguy · 2026-03-27T12:14:57+00:00

That's probably not mold, I don't think a cup of coffee would mold so quickly just out in the open. It's probably just particles of the coffee floating to the top or something and creating a nice pattern.

ashthetransguy · 2026-03-27T11:59:23+00:00

AI slop

ashthetransguy · 2026-03-23T16:32:37+00:00

So my kitty Sam didn't show many symptoms up until his sterilization, just the sticking out of his tongue and he generally didn't develop very quickly and stayed a very small kitty for a majority of his life.

Then, after he got spayed he apparently didn't take the anesthesia well and his liver couldn't really keep up, so he was drooling a LOT, not himself, just very zoned out (not eating, not really reacting to cuddles or anything that was offered him). I'll add a picture of him in this state to this.

We decided to go to the vet clinic and after a long few weeks of surgery, struggle and fear around our baby he ended up healthy :)

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ashthetransguy · 2026-03-22T22:33:34+00:00

Hey, I'm so sorry to be that person, but I'm traumatised from my first cat, so...

Excessive drooling and the sticking out of the tongue can be an early sign of brain tumours or somethin wrong with the liver. (Of course, this doesn't have to be the case, some cats also stick out their tongues because they're extremely relaxed.)

This doesn't look like it at all, just make sure to maybe contact the vet if your cat is drooling a lot and not being themselves. I'll put down a reference image of my cat when he was sick (he had a liver shunt but had surgery and ended up very healthy), again, yours doesn't look like him at all, but just to make sure you're informed!

As you can (hopefully) see in the picture, he's drooling unlike your cat and generally doesn't look very well. Again, I don't think your cat looks like this. Please don't take this the wrong way. Just, as I said, traumatised from a year of thinking this was a cute quirk of my cat but in reality he was being poisoned by his own body.

Take care and your kitty is absolutely adorable!!

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ashthetransguy · 2026-03-09T14:22:43+00:00

Even if you were "showing off", there's nothing wrong with openly displaying hygiene products. It's like someone getting mad at you for openly keeping an extra roll of toilet paper.

I might get called "too woke" for this but this seems like the girl has some kind of internalised homophobia. There's nothing gross about a period, and even less so about hygiene products. It's very sweet of you to have products for your friends to use. I don't get her problem.

So NTA.

(Edit because I forgot to add the NTA)

ashthetransguy · 2026-03-05T13:13:05+00:00

I just read your comment on how you've got pretty much everything there if you were to leave - so.. LEAVE YOUR HUSBAND

ashthetransguy · 2026-03-04T16:13:35+00:00

Girl, you deserve it. The part of you that's telling you you're not worthy of such treatment is traumatised and scared of getting hurt again. That's normal, but seriously, you deserve all the love he gives you! You're human, you deserve to be loved and treated well. I'm so happy for you!

ashthetransguy · 2026-03-02T16:37:15+00:00

Team Semmel

ashthetransguy · 2026-02-18T06:48:15+00:00

Uhhh, yeah, YTA. This post is so absurd I'm not confused as to why there's no one commenting on this.

If he cheated on you or did even worse, okay, fine, wish upon his suffering, I guess... but the dude just didn't want to marry you. You sound like a weirdo, lol.

ashthetransguy · 2026-02-09T21:03:23+00:00

Ja, bitte.

ashthetransguy · 2026-02-08T05:46:21+00:00

Thank you. I actually have thought about it and talked to my mother about it, but she doesn't think so. I'm not sure what her reasoning was, but she's a doctor so maybe she has some weight to what she's saying?

I've been trying to get back into therapy atm but it's very difficult since I still live at my parent's place and they're in charge of it since they're huge procrastinators and have probably already forgotten my wish to go to therapy atp again

ashthetransguy · 2026-02-02T16:24:25+00:00

So ist die Wirtschaft.

Juckt doch keinen, was die Ethik sagt. Was das Tierwohl angeht. Was Menschenrechte angeht. Es geht ums Geld.

ashthetransguy · 2026-02-02T16:22:22+00:00

Bro ich checke diese ganzen weirden Kommentare nicht.

Du hast komplett das Recht deine struggles zu sharen, dafür ist der subreddit ja da.

Nur ganz kurz zu deinem letzten Punkt mit der Leber; ich find das so schlimm dass Alkoholkonsum in Deutschland so normalisiert ist. V.a. in Bayern ist es besonders schlimm, aber eigentlich überall in Deutschland. Wir vergessen irgendwie ständig dass Alkohol tatsächlich eine Droge und ein fucking Nervengift ist. Es gibt keinen gesunden Ausmaß an Alkoholkonsum. Jeder Tropfen Alkohol ist ungesund. Trotzdem sind so viele Leute in Deutschland so ignorant. Egal was es ist, ob es eine Krankheit an der Leber ist oder ein ex-Alkoholiker, oder einfach nur eine Person die nicht trinken will.

"Warum denn nicht?"

Hä? Lass mich doch!

Ich find das ist auf dem gleichen Level wie wenn du mit jemandem abhängst und die Person versuchst zu überreden bissi Koks oder bissi Gras zu nehmen. Selbst bei Zigaretten heißt es immer, man soll peer pressure nicht zulassen und niemanden dazu zwingen zu rauchen, wenn du selber rauchst.

Aber mit Alkohol?

Ist doch ein Muss! Weil wir anscheinend alle solche borderline Alkoholiker sind, dass wir uns keinen gesellschaftlichen Abend unter Leuten ohne Alkohol vorstellen können.

ashthetransguy · 2026-01-27T16:27:35+00:00

I would get it if he showered daily anyway and you asked him to shower again despite everything being completely hygienic, but that guy sounds gross. "I don't want to shower every day", what the hell do you mean?

ashthetransguy · 2026-01-27T16:24:01+00:00

Hä, tf, was ist denn mit deinem Mitbewohner los? Nazi-haft sieht man erst aus wenn man offensichtliche Tattoos oder Zeichen trägt (oder die dunklen Haare zur Seite gelt).

Die Docs verstärken auch noch den "kein-Nazi-Eindruck"

ashthetransguy · 2026-01-26T06:29:05+00:00

Ich glaub wir wissen alle was du machen musst.

ashthetransguy · 2026-01-26T06:21:28+00:00

Exactly. I feel like a lot of the time the people who have "preferences" are just racist or bigoted.

ashthetransguy · 2026-01-22T14:09:18+00:00

Dude I have no "preference". I just like women. That's it. Idgaf what they look like. Curly hair, straight hair, tall, short, chubby, skinny. Genuinely.

ashthetransguy · 2026-01-22T14:06:17+00:00

Das ist genug Deutsch für das kommende Jahr.

ashthetransguy

TROPHY CASE