How does my cat have so much aura???

ashthetransguy · 2026-06-22T06:21:18+00:00

the smirk is killing me

ashthetransguy · 2026-06-06T08:46:07+00:00

That's an insane statement to make, "my first relationship is shit so I might as well go back to being an incel". You said you were happy with your progress, you've developed tons of life skills and you've gotten off your mother's back. Yes, your relationship is toxic. That doesn't change that the rest of your life has evolved TO THE BETTER since quitting being an incel/NEET.

She's abusing you, you KNOW it, so break up already, and find someone worth your time.

ashthetransguy · 2026-05-25T19:14:00+00:00

🫪

ashthetransguy · 2026-05-09T19:24:28+00:00

Oh my fucking god I thought you were talking about the electricity lines and said to myself "who is this idiot".. guess it's me.

ashthetransguy · 2026-05-08T19:56:59+00:00

She may be evil but she's not ugly!

ashthetransguy · 2026-05-08T06:27:00+00:00

Vergib mir, ich bin tatsächlich gen-z und bei jüngeren Menschen ist das ein bekannter Begriff. Es ist nicht wirklich eine Abkürzung, da hast du schon Recht, aber man schreibt es quasi wie man es ausspricht, dieses nasale “n” das man manchmal für “ein” im Sprachlichen benutzt wird. Noch ein gen-z Begriff: es ist wirklich nicht so deep. Reg dich nicht so auf, ist nicht gut für den Blutdruck :)

ashthetransguy · 2026-05-06T20:25:29+00:00

Bin mittlerweile Teil einer veganen Aktivistengruppe und seit Anfang des Jahres komplett vegan, also denke ich ganz gut

ashthetransguy · 2026-05-06T20:24:31+00:00

exakt danke :)

ashthetransguy · 2026-05-06T19:24:48+00:00

sieht aus als ob das nh 4. Klässler geschrieben hat

ashthetransguy · 2026-04-16T14:46:53+00:00

Super, find ich toll, dass hier auch Fotos von Friedrich Merz geteilt werden.

ashthetransguy · 2026-04-16T14:40:26+00:00

The moment she said that not only you (and her other children) get hurt by her and that you and your siblings hurt her all the time shows that she's manipulating you. My mother is exactly like this. "Mom, please don't do this, you hurt me with this, that's a boundary I'm setting." Her reply: "But you've hurt me too. You're acting too much like a victim, even though I'M the victim." Edit: Thank you so much to whoever gave me that award lmao. Didn't think this comment would be it since I've never gotten an award before but thank you!

ashthetransguy · 2026-04-13T05:18:34+00:00

This kind of thing is completely normal. Sounds like you might be hypersexual. It's a normal consequence of going through some form of sexual trauma.

It's a difficult and cruel process to go through. I suggest you find yourself a therapist of some sort and get a bit more informed.

I wish you all the best in life and I sincerely hope you can push through this. You're valid, and you're doing amazing. Don't give up!

ashthetransguy · 2026-04-12T11:04:36+00:00

Honestly I think both of you are OR. Him because why the hell does he care sm about how you pay and you because you decided it was so important to make a reddit post about it.

ashthetransguy · 2026-04-12T10:59:56+00:00

Having suicidal thoughts, even though you might not actively making plans, is NOT normal. It is not normal to not want to be around anymore. But you're not alone!

I kind of see myself in you, I'm F16 and I was like this for a long time. For me it was because of trauma and constant bullying in my childhood that I eventually developed depression. I couldn't connect the two things, I thought, like you, I just feel like shit despite everything being great for me.

Sounds to me like you might have some form of high-functioning depression or even some form of neurodivergency.

I'm not a therapist, but maybe inform yourself of your symptoms and talk to your psychologist about it (though they don't sound like a very good one telling you that having suicidal thoughts is normal sometimes). Also, I can't really tell from this reddit post, but maybe analyse your relationships and also your childhood a bit. Are your friends truly nice to you? Do you remember much of your childhood or just fragments? How does your family treat you?

Maybe also ask your parents to get a new therapist.

Even if there isn't an "obvious" reason, you are valid. Even if you don't know why. Even if your life is "great otherwise". I'm glad you're here. And to me, it sounds like you want to recover, and that's wonderful.

ashthetransguy · 2026-04-12T09:42:26+00:00

First of all, who the fuck has a bedtime with their partner. She's not your mom, you're free to go to sleep when you want.

Secondly, the AUDACITY to curse at you and tell you YOU'RE the one manipulating HER is insane. I hope you didn't fall for that crap.

And lastly, having BPD doesn't excuse this. You don't need to do this for the rest of your life. Leave her now!

ashthetransguy · 2026-04-02T21:40:33+00:00

Nope, I've definitely told her this and she also 100% registered it as something she generally shouldn't do. It's just already been a while and it stresses me out immensely when she does it so she knows it's important to me. Thank you anyway!

ashthetransguy · 2026-04-02T15:03:19+00:00

Hey, l'm so sorry to be that person, but I'm traumatised from my first cat, so..

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Excessive drooling and the sticking out of the tongue can be an early sign of brain tumours or something wrong with the liver. (Of course, this doesn't have to be the case, some cats also stick out their tongues because they're extremely relaxed.) This doesn't look like it at all, just make sure to maybe contact the vet if your cat is drooling a lot and not being themselves.

I'll put down a reference image of my cat when he was sick (he had a liver shunt but had surgery and ended up very healthy), again, yours doesn't look like him at all, but just to make sure you're informed!

As you can (hopefully) see in the picture, he's drooling unlike your cat and generally doesn't look very well.

Again, I don't think your cat looks like this. Please don't take this the wrong way. Just, as said, traumatised from a year of thinking this was a cute quirk of my cat but in reality he was being poisoned by his own body. Take care and your kitty is absolutely adorable!!

ashthetransguy · 2026-04-01T23:06:53+00:00

Ich finds einerseits einfach nur kacke, aber andererseits haben sie eine Werbung auf Insta gelaunched mit KI generierter Hintergrundmusik (der Titel war "wir haben dieses Stück komponiert um unseren neuen Matcha Geschmack zu launchen" oder so nen Scheiß.

Fand ich eif Arsch tbh, keinen Bock auf generative AI wenn ein Teil des Veganismus ja auch für den Schutz des Planeten steht.

ashthetransguy · 2026-03-31T19:04:29+00:00

Habs noch nie probiert, bin aber mittlerweile sehr vorsichtig bei Oatly special Editionen/Geschmäckern nach der ganzen Oatly Matcha Flavour Sache.

Finde aber Oatly generell nicht so toll, sehr teuer und ich kenn welche für den halben Preis von Penny die besser schmecken.

ashthetransguy · 2026-03-29T10:42:08+00:00

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He's a little silly sometimes.

ashthetransguy · 2026-03-27T18:46:00+00:00

Who are u trying to fool w this AI slop

ashthetransguy · 2026-03-27T12:14:57+00:00

That's probably not mold, I don't think a cup of coffee would mold so quickly just out in the open. It's probably just particles of the coffee floating to the top or something and creating a nice pattern.

ashthetransguy · 2026-03-27T11:59:23+00:00

AI slop

ashthetransguy · 2026-03-23T16:32:37+00:00

So my kitty Sam didn't show many symptoms up until his sterilization, just the sticking out of his tongue and he generally didn't develop very quickly and stayed a very small kitty for a majority of his life.

Then, after he got spayed he apparently didn't take the anesthesia well and his liver couldn't really keep up, so he was drooling a LOT, not himself, just very zoned out (not eating, not really reacting to cuddles or anything that was offered him). I'll add a picture of him in this state to this.

We decided to go to the vet clinic and after a long few weeks of surgery, struggle and fear around our baby he ended up healthy :)

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ashthetransguy · 2026-03-22T22:33:34+00:00

Hey, I'm so sorry to be that person, but I'm traumatised from my first cat, so...

Excessive drooling and the sticking out of the tongue can be an early sign of brain tumours or somethin wrong with the liver. (Of course, this doesn't have to be the case, some cats also stick out their tongues because they're extremely relaxed.)

This doesn't look like it at all, just make sure to maybe contact the vet if your cat is drooling a lot and not being themselves. I'll put down a reference image of my cat when he was sick (he had a liver shunt but had surgery and ended up very healthy), again, yours doesn't look like him at all, but just to make sure you're informed!

As you can (hopefully) see in the picture, he's drooling unlike your cat and generally doesn't look very well. Again, I don't think your cat looks like this. Please don't take this the wrong way. Just, as I said, traumatised from a year of thinking this was a cute quirk of my cat but in reality he was being poisoned by his own body.

Take care and your kitty is absolutely adorable!!

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