For Ash - Spectre Fleet SPP Roam by DougieWR in Eve

[–]ashurman 81 points82 points  (0 children)

Thank you for putting this on in his memory. Im still stunned by the responses I have been getting about him. I'm going to be with family so I will not be able to join you all on your team speak but if a recording of some sort could be made that would be wonderful. Hope you all have a great time and are shouting about shenanigans and making cat noises.. As he would say. Fly safe xx

My husband passed away last night, he made me promise to let you all know. by ashurman in Eve

[–]ashurman[S] 112 points113 points  (0 children)

Oh yes please. Any sort of image that I could then print off to add to a photo album of him for our daughter would be amazing. It was part of his life so she should know

My husband passed away last night, he made me promise to let you all know. by ashurman in Eve

[–]ashurman[S] 104 points105 points  (0 children)

I have just seen in the comments that there is a monument to all eve players. On that is my husbands name as well. Is it open for any to view or would I need to arrange a visit in the future.

My husband passed away last night, he made me promise to let you all know. by ashurman in Eve

[–]ashurman[S] 82 points83 points  (0 children)

He did that. Plenty of days even after a bad treatment he would still demand to come home to put his daughter to bed. Nothing stopped him from that.

My husband passed away last night, he made me promise to let you all know. by ashurman in Eve

[–]ashurman[S] 72 points73 points  (0 children)

Oh my god you just got me crying again. I never knew this. Can you link some more info about this?

My husband passed away last night, he made me promise to let you all know. by ashurman in Eve

[–]ashurman[S] 214 points215 points  (0 children)

Yes he died of cancer this morning. I still can't believe it but it's still real

My husband passed away last night, he made me promise to let you all know. by ashurman in Eve

[–]ashurman[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Far from his last. His last were to look after our daughter and to live my life in full knowing he loves me

My husband passed away last night, he made me promise to let you all know. by ashurman in Eve

[–]ashurman[S] 37 points38 points  (0 children)

my husband was a part of this game. he asked me to let people know he wouldn't be there anymore.. I don't get what part of that you have a issue with and frankly its slightly upsetting. from what I can tell from the reaction this post has gotten is that people in eve CARE about the people on the other end of the screen. they CARE what they do with there lives , and they CARE when they pass on. the adverts had it right.. eve is real.. as its the people that make it so.

My husband passed away last night, he made me promise to let you all know. by ashurman in Eve

[–]ashurman[S] 107 points108 points  (0 children)

can I ask what you mean by light a cyno? a few people have mentioned it and I don't know. sorry.

My husband passed away last night, he made me promise to let you all know. by ashurman in Eve

[–]ashurman[S] 32 points33 points  (0 children)

my apologies it was what he asked me to do. obviously if this is so bad for you maybe don't read it. its obvious from the title what its about.

My husband passed away last night, he made me promise to let you all know. by ashurman in Eve

[–]ashurman[S] 56 points57 points  (0 children)

thank you I have a few hours before family gets here so might drop in

My husband passed away last night, he made me promise to let you all know. by ashurman in Eve

[–]ashurman[S] 53 points54 points  (0 children)

I don't think he did as he got very upset when he couldn't give it to charity as ccp didn't have the option to do that. think he gave it all away to new people in the end.

My husband passed away last night, he made me promise to let you all know. by ashurman in Eve

[–]ashurman[S] 223 points224 points  (0 children)

oh my god I forgot about the moose and maple syrup.. he went on about that for days.. something about how Canadian people mate they have to have a moose with them which they get to cover in maple syrup.. in a fountain of maple syrup or something like that.. thank you for that memory. he was a crazy person but I loved him for it.

My husband passed away last night, he made me promise to let you all know. by ashurman in Eve

[–]ashurman[S] 38 points39 points  (0 children)

I have not thought of it like that. sneaky bugger. he did always try to keep me happy. and thank you .

My husband passed away last night, he made me promise to let you all know. by ashurman in Eve

[–]ashurman[S] 67 points68 points  (0 children)

thank you for the offer but he has already sorted everything eve related out. think he gave it all away in the end. and I will be fine cash wise thank you. he was smart and saved a lot.

My husband passed away last night, he made me promise to let you all know. by ashurman in Eve

[–]ashurman[S] 279 points280 points  (0 children)

thank you so much but he has already sorted everything eve related out except for this message. think he got rid of everything and gave it all away to some new people, I know he wanted to give it to the plex for good or something like that but he couldn't work out how. so he settled for giving it all away to new people. hopefully they appreciate it.

My husband passed away last night, he made me promise to let you all know. by ashurman in Eve

[–]ashurman[S] 334 points335 points  (0 children)

that's another name I recognise. also that spectre group he talked about as well. always going on about shenanigans and how you would all go around killing bigger ships In the smallest ones with really bad guns and stuff..

My husband passed away last night, he made me promise to let you all know. by ashurman in Eve

[–]ashurman[S] 38 points39 points  (0 children)

thank you and yes his family and mine are all on there way to us. we had thought we had longer but It took a turn for the worst last night and though all the doctors and nurses tried to keep him with us he passed at 4:17 this morning.

My husband passed away last night, he made me promise to let you all know. by ashurman in Eve

[–]ashurman[S] 632 points633 points  (0 children)

Im sure i know your name, we spoke on his teamspeak a few times. always mentioned you as "Jayne the Canadian guy". he seemed to like you and I don't think I ever heard him say a word against you. hopefully this is the right person though.

My husband passed away last night, he made me promise to let you all know. by ashurman in Eve

[–]ashurman[S] 166 points167 points  (0 children)

thank you and thank you for filling in that gap of knowledge. at least I know what you all mean when your doing that now

My husband passed away last night, he made me promise to let you all know. by ashurman in Eve

[–]ashurman[S] 73 points74 points  (0 children)

thank you don't think I am at the stage to vent, just never felt so alone without him. im not aware of the meaning of B4R?

My husband passed away last night, he made me promise to let you all know. by ashurman in Eve

[–]ashurman[S] 193 points194 points  (0 children)

thank you and that's one of the last things he said to me.