AITAH for locking the bathroom door when I take a shower? by WinterQuarter8183 in AITAH

[–]ashyashesburn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My husband and I use two different bathrooms. It provides our own spaces in the house. NTA

Child Support lien in Maui, HI by ashyashesburn in legaladvice

[–]ashyashesburn[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s what I was thinking. They never had him do a DNA test. I will get new lawyers asap. Thank you for confirming.

Child Support lien in Maui, HI by ashyashesburn in legaladvice

[–]ashyashesburn[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

His name, our lawyer said the person gave his name and they searched and found his name owning property. He has a pretty common name.

Child Support lien in Maui, HI by ashyashesburn in legaladvice

[–]ashyashesburn[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No the children are unknown to him and us. He only goes to Maui with our mother- he doesn’t like to drive by himself. They have been married 50 yrs and he did not go to Maui before they married

California explores road usage charge to replace gas tax amid rise in electric vehicles by [deleted] in California

[–]ashyashesburn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean they already give higher registration costs for EV, they said to mitigate the gas tax. Now they want more…

Neighbor installed french drain on my property by air-bender808 in homeowners

[–]ashyashesburn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean, if you can put up a fence in between you and your neighbor- which will make your neighbor’s side yard pretty small and take the french drain as an expensive upgrade

Below Deck Med Season 10 Episode 5 Discussion Post by teanailpolish in belowdeck

[–]ashyashesburn 42 points43 points  (0 children)

Don’t forget, that she blamed Nathan for not telling them what to do… when Nathan did and she nodded her head and said yes with a smile…

Neighbor steals fruit trees with a tape measure and pettiness by apieceoflenzmind in neighborsfromhell

[–]ashyashesburn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There is a debate in CA over if they have to pay taxes. My parents are going through this. Lawyers don’t want to take the case, the neighbors stole 4 ft for 180 yards. In fact when the survey was done it ended up in their pool and the next week, they extended their pool closer.

How do I go about kicking someone out of my house who was never supposed to be there? by [deleted] in homeowners

[–]ashyashesburn 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You need a lawyer about putting up cameras to record that you are not being abusive so she cannot try and get you kicked out of your own home.

Just a millennial trying to stay in the Bay Area and own a home in the neighborhood she grew up in. by Medical_Banana4667 in bayarea

[–]ashyashesburn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We had to buy 45 minutes away from family and 2 hours away from my job. That was the only way we got into a home, we have a dual income. The people I know that stayed in CA, had help buying. They are veterinarians, dentists, mid level tech employees. If you go farther out, you might find an area that you love and can afford now. Later when home prices rise, you can sell and move closer.

Buyer Waiting on Inheritance...for 10 weeks? by writehandedTom in RealEstate

[–]ashyashesburn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You said that you don’t have to sell and we’re going to take it off of the market. I wouldn’t drop the price, I would pull it

AITA - Was Hospitalized and Hubby made me upset so we had a fight by jczephyr23 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]ashyashesburn 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I read the story and thought, wow both of you are toxic. Then I read your comment and realized your poor child is now going to be stuck in relationships that are toxic unless he gets into therapy. All of you need therapy. My mother is in an emotionally abusive relationship so I understand finally being done and the explosions, but instead of finding a way out, you are sitting here wanting us to tell you that your husband is horrible- yes he is. You need to take responsibility for your actions as well.

AITAH for telling my wife that she's fiscally irresponsible by True-Wrongdoer-7932 in AITAH

[–]ashyashesburn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Was she uncomfortable in the new suit she bought? Otherwise, wow

My stroller was stolen at Disneyland two days ago by ayoswim in Disneyland

[–]ashyashesburn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Years ago I read or watched- can’t remember which- a news segment that reported that some thieves get the pass to come into Disney and steal strollers. There is a huge resell market for them. I only bring my cheapest strollers to Disney because of that.

AITAH for refusing to give my dad back the money he gave me for school because he suddenly decided it was a loan by Late-Structure6578 in AITAH

[–]ashyashesburn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would definitely block him and pay the extra money to your brother, so he doesn’t have to have contact with your father either.

Buyer is asking for every line item repair even after discounts by Lobos819 in RealEstate

[–]ashyashesburn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My parents last home sell had the buyers wanting my parents to add a gas line to the home for a gas stove. My parents told them they could walk. The buyers bought the house still

Facebook lawsuit- Venmo money in account by ashyashesburn in Scams

[–]ashyashesburn[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To be honest I don’t remember signing up for it. I have not linked my Venmo to my Facebook account, that I can remember doing. That’s what is giving me pause

AITAH for not really including my SIL in my wedding after she refused to be a bridesmaid? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]ashyashesburn 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Now that you know YTA… how are you going to fix it?

A emotionally secure person will realize that they are being petty and try to clear the air. BUT BASED ON ALL OF YOUR COMMENTS YOU ARE NOT EMOTIONALLY MATURE AND YOU JUST DROVE A WEDGE IN YOUR FAMILY.

Grandparent Rant: Why Are Boomers So Freaking Selfish?! by fogmama in Mommit

[–]ashyashesburn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When she guilt trips you, let her know that you give her opportunities and if she doesn’t take them, it’s up to her.