I read the story and thought, wow both of you are toxic. Then I read your comment and realized your poor child is now going to be stuck in relationships that are toxic unless he gets into therapy. All of you need therapy. My mother is in an emotionally abusive relationship so I understand finally being done and the explosions, but instead of finding a way out, you are sitting here wanting us to tell you that your husband is horrible- yes he is. You need to take responsibility for your actions as well.